How do I approach my oneitis?

[Deleted member 3583]

My oneitis is in the grade below me so we do not classes together but I see her around and I'm mirin hard. I asked my friends to rate her and they gave her 3-4/10's after asking me if I mean "that" girl multiple times. I even asked a PSLer irl what he would rate her as they are in the same class, and he initially rated her a 3 but changed it to a 5-6 (IRL) on second analysis. Since I'm very tall, girls almost always give me a first look but she hardly ever does wtf. Anyway, how should I approach her? My friends are telling me that I should talk to her when she is studying in the library or something. I told them that I plan on complimenting her looks pretty fast to set the tone of conversation, but they told me that I am too "formal" of a person to pull that off (wtf does this mean?) and that I should take it slow basically. My current plan is to talk to her casually about school work or some shit to sample her interest in conversation and deriving whether to take it further or not from there. Regarding looks, my friends say I am out of her league but I doubt that is true. Rejection wouldn't really destroy me since there is a considerable disparity between my maximum genetic potential and how I look right now. I'm 17 and she is 16-17 btw.

 

[Deleted member 2933]

If u must aproach, it never began.

 

[Deleted member 3583]

If u must aproach, it never began.

Go outside bro. My slayer friends have never been approached before. If a girl approached me I would be turned off hard tbh, she would me fucking me instead of me fucking her

 

[Mousei]

Maybe you looks mog her so just be friends with her friends and have them invite you when thier with your oneitis

 

[Pietrosiek]

Dn read but

If u must aproach, it never began.

 

[Deleted member 3583]

Dn read but

Fix your acne and slay a cute EE jb girl you lil bitch

Maybe you looks mog her so just be friends with her friends and have them invite you when thier with your oneitis

I'm too masc to make friends with girls bro

 

[Pietrosiek]

Fix your acne and slay a cute EE jb girl you lil bitch

Shut your mouth bluepilled coper faggot idiot

 

[Deleted member 3583]

Shut your mouth bluepilled coper faggot idiot

You can take a horse-face to water but you can't make him drink

 

[Idontknowlol]

Having oneitis is beta as fuck

 

[Deleted member 3583]

Having oneitis is beta as fuck

It must be some biological shit idk

 

[dickflairdrip]

My oneitis is in the grade below me so we do not classes together but I see her around and I'm mirin hard. I asked my friends to rate her and they gave her 3-4/10's after asking me if I mean "that" girl multiple times. I even asked a PSLer irl what he would rate her as they are in the same class, and he initially rated her a 3 but changed it to a 5-6 (IRL) on second analysis. Since I'm very tall, girls almost always give me a first look but she hardly ever does wtf. Anyway, how should I approach her? My friends are telling me that I should talk to her when she is studying in the library or something. I told them that I plan on complimenting her looks pretty fast to set the tone of conversation, but they told me that I am too "formal" of a person to pull that off (wtf does this mean?) and that I should take it slow basically. My current plan is to talk to her casually about school work or some shit to sample her interest in conversation and deriving whether to take it further or not from there. Regarding looks, my friends say I am out of her league but I doubt that is true. Rejection wouldn't really destroy me since there is a considerable disparity between my maximum genetic potential and how I look right now. I'm 17 and she is 16-17 btw.

Sounds like shes busted af considering normies gave her a 3

 

[Short Ugly and Brown]

Go outside bro. My slayer friends have never been approached before. If a girl approached me I would be turned off hard tbh, she would me fucking me instead of me fucking her

cope

 

[Deleted member 3583]

Sounds like shes busted af considering normies gave her a 3

It's probably because her hair is pretty short and most do not like that. If a girl looks sexy as fuck with short hair though, she is highly feminine and of genetic quality imo. She has very minimal facial flaws except for some acne which she covers with make up

cope

UK culture and California culture is very different. Maybe I am coping though

 

[dickflairdrip]

It's probably because her hair is pretty short and most do not like that. If a girl looks sexy as fuck with short hair though, she is highly feminine and of genetic quality imo. She has very minimal facial flaws except for some acne which she covers with make up

UK culture and California culture is very different. Maybe I am coping though

If she ain’t as child ringus I ain’t fuckin

 

[Deleted member 3583]

If she ain’t as child ringus I ain’t fuckin

When I saw Ashild for the first time I unfollowed a large number of hoes on Instagram

 

[dickflairdrip]

When I saw Ashild for the first time I unfollowed a large number of hoes on Instagram

I feel you

 

[EthnicelAscension]

Wait I'm also 17, how much of a genetic disparity are we talking in terms of maximum potential? Just in general?

Also, I initially became friends with a friend of my ex-oneitis, then I got myself introduced to my ex-oneitis, your friends probably mean that you're not flirty or smooth enough to immediately make the conversation flirtatious when they say you are "too formal"

Pretty good advice so far in the thread, additionally, I would say that if you can make it a habit of seeing your oneitis at least once a day and even have brief interactions, you can then eventually begin hanging out with them.

Go outside bro. My slayer friends have never been approached before. If a girl approached me I would be turned off hard tbh, she would me fucking me instead of me fucking her

I think @SirGey was referring to clear/obvious ioi's, I don't think he was implying that a girl will approach you.

 

[maxmendietta]

just walk bro

can looksmax get more stupid

 

[Deleted member 3583]

Wait I'm also 17, how much of a genetic disparity are we talking in terms of maximum potential? Just in general?

Also, I initially became friends with a friend of my ex-oneitis, then I got myself introduced to my ex-oneitis, your friends probably mean that you're not flirty or smooth enough to immediately make the conversation flirtatious when they say you are "too formal"

Pretty good advice so far in the thread, additionally, I would say that if you can make it a habit of seeing your oneitis at least once a day and even have brief interactions, you can then eventually begin hanging out with them.

I think @SirGey was referring to clear/obvious ioi's, I don't think he was implying that a girl will approach you.

Wtf a reply that is actually good, my nigga. What I meant by disparity is that I'm not as lean as I could be, fairly far off actually. How did you initiate brief interactions with your oneitis exactly?

 

[Mr_Norwood]

Just approach..

Make sure you are freshly showered and smelling good

 

[EthnicelAscension]

Wtf a reply that is actually good, my nigga. What I meant by disparity is that I'm not as lean as I could be, fairly far off actually. How did you initiate brief interactions with your oneitis exactly?

My ex-oneitis was introduced to me by a mutual friend of ours, I simply poked around via conversation to see what we had in common. Funnily enough that thing was politics JFL, and essentially I would just talk about things like an absolute normie with her and my other friend. I kept seeing them around the same time every day, and eventually I began just talking to her alone as we essentially became good friends. We made jokes and I essentially propinquity-maxxed. Eventually I slid into her DMs via snapchat and I made a bunch of funny jokes there.

During the interactions, the brief ones, could span from me simply saying hi to her, or me bringing up a past joke from a previous conversation, getting a chuckle, then using that time to then switch the topic and talk some more, eventually I would just tease her in the halls and I could start longer 'brief' convos with her.

If you can initiate the first few convos by bringing up commonalities as though you're a friend, eventually she will be the one who initiates conversations with you. My ex-oneitis still initiates conversations with me to this day, except for when texting.

 

[Bewusst]

'Oneitis' seems to be the most popular yet hated word on looksmax in 2019

 

[Deleted member 3299]

Whats your psl?

 

[Deleted member 3583]

Whats your psl?

6'5 and I go to a majority ethnic school so I would say I am 70th percentile at least (relative to my school)

My ex-oneitis was introduced to me by a mutual friend of ours, I simply poked around via conversation to see what we had in common. Funnily enough that thing was politics JFL, and essentially I would just talk about things like an absolute normie with her and my other friend. I kept seeing them around the same time every day, and eventually I began just talking to her alone as we essentially became good friends. We made jokes and I essentially propinquity-maxxed. Eventually I slid into her DMs via snapchat and I made a bunch of funny jokes there.

During the interactions, the brief ones, could span from me simply saying hi to her, or me bringing up a past joke from a previous conversation, getting a chuckle, then using that time to then switch the topic and talk some more, eventually I would just tease her in the halls and I could start longer 'brief' convos with her.

If you can initiate the first few convos by bringing up commonalities as though you're a friend, eventually she will be the one who initiates conversations with you. My ex-oneitis still initiates conversations with me to this day, except for when texting.

So how did it turn out?

 

[Pietrosiek]

You can take a horse-face to water but you can't make him drink

What faggot?

 

[balding17yomanletcel]

Take her to porn theater

 

[Deleted member 3583]

Take her to porn theater

 

[balding17yomanletcel]

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