how do i become cold hearted?

[Deleted member 21824]

did i not go through enough pain? im still a submissive little cuck. i just wanna feel real love

disney channel type shit innit

i got my heart broken 3 times by girls and I'm still the same, like i didn't learn anything. It's like god is giving me a lesson but im not learning anything. its like my brain resets and nothing happened at all at some point.

any tips?

 

[Deleted member 21182]

U cry to music at night that’s the most feminine shit ever

 

[Deleted member 21824]

U cry to music at night that’s the most feminine shit ever

how do u know that

 

[Deleted member 21182]

how do u know that

U said it on be

 

[Primalsplit]

I think, as with everything in life; you need to train yourself to become good at it.

How competitive are you as a person? Have you done any competitive activities in your life? Any kind of sports? Games (online multiplayer games,board games, card games, chess etc.)? MMA type of stuff? Something like that, always makes you think it in terms of a battle of wits and action if need be. Makes you automatically less naive while it doesn't make you cold.

On an another note, how much did your mother love you? Maybe you just didn't get it enough and keep seeking it?

 

[5OuttaTen]

Don’t let these girls break you and stop you from being the kind soul you are, be unapologetically you and don’t let evil women ruin you for your soulmate once you find her

 

[Primalsplit]

Actually the more I think about it, the more I conclude that it might have to do with some kind of yearning for that love. You are someone who senses people's auras through forum posts. It is absurd thst you don't really know would be coming to you.

You must have willful blindness. I don't know how conscious/subconscious it is, but you want certain things to be true so you willfully ignore evidence. If you've been doing it for a long time, your brain might be already adept at doing this very automatically by this point.

The solution is not as easy as diagnosis though. Some might consider therapy, but I'd just suggest you to find the person that can provide what you need. Might be hard to find, but your brain needs that "scratch" which can only be provided through a real life experience.

 

[Deleted member 23472]

I think, as with everything in life; you need to train yourself to become good at it.

How competitive are you as a person? Have you done any competitive activities in your life? Any kind of sports? Games (online multiplayer games,board games, card games, chess etc.)? MMA type of stuff? Something like that, always makes you think it in terms of a battle of wits and action if need be. Makes you automatically less naive while it doesn't make you cold.

On an another note, how much did your mother love you? Maybe you just didn't get it enough and keep seeking it?

Positive feeedback helps, and in my case that's the only reason I've been on looksmaxxing. However hardmaxxing seems to be the only way because of a good chance of getting treated better after it. And for OP stop worrying about women, because the good women always come to Chad, so you got the answer

 

[Primalsplit]

Positive feeedback helps, and in my case that's the only reason I've been on looksmaxxing. However hardmaxxing seems to be the only way because of a good chance of getting treated better after it. And for OP stop worrying about women, because the good women always come to Chad, so you got the answer

You mean self-positive feedback?

 

[Deleted member 23472]

You mean self-positive feedback?

No, positive feedback from the people around you. For example I mentioned I bomesmashed my chin as a joke to my friends and they were really surprised and asked me what I did (i had to say it was a joke) because I got impressive results with it. It also helps to boost your ego which is fine

 

[Primalsplit]

No, positive feedback from the people around you. For example I mentioned I bomesmashed my chin as a joke to my friends and they were really surprised and asked me what I did (i had to say it was a joke) because I got impressive results with it. It also helps to boost your ego which is fine

I ahree. But the majority here won't get that very easily. I think it is good to come up with a niche to be able to get that feedback from people around you though.