How do i become “cold” (ik this is cringe asf im aware”

[.hk7k]

So idk u read my other post but a recap is So theres me then my brother im always helping around the house helping with big stuff im 16 btw and my ilder brother whos 21 works remote job from home lives with us pays for nothing he has 0 responsibilities 0 stress and she just dont love me the same he helps nothing around the house btw he works 4 hours remote from his desk a day hes on a 1 month long break rn she loves him more says hes the best and i kid u not shes never shown me affection but what im saying is why does he “win” when he does nothing and bro im so fuckin nice to my parents i litrally offer to make their life easier and do stuff for them but yet she treats him like a king and me like a peasant this aint a vent post its just wtf why i want to know shes says to me “hes doing something with his life” and btw im just 1 year behind in school thats all, she also never lets me go outside apart from school my theory is she hates my dad and i look alot hell of alot like him so shes taking it out me wierd ik, but the point is hlw do i become cold no matter what i try my hardest and say to myself im gnna be cold today but i give up and jus be nice bc me being cold towards her doesnt sit right with me shes my mother but she doesnt feel the same way like why man jusy fuck shed make shi a heck lot easier if shes was a normal mom

 

[Mo3452]

you will never be cold because it is against your nature. I am like this too its good but a burden too

 

[betaorbiter]

"(ik this is cringe asf im aware”

you're not gonna make it

didnt read ur post

 

[.hk7k]

you will never be cold because it is against your nature. I am like this too its good but a burden too

I dont think its entirely bad im not asking to be cold towards everyone bc i get respect from some people and they deserve it back, but what i want to do is learn how to give the same shit back to the people who give me shit when im nice and respectful but it sounds simple ik just be the same way but wtf its not like ill feel lile the bad one in that situation ngl people are fuckin wierd how hard is it to show some fuckin respect to someone who does the same, is it ego? Is it hatred? Honestly most people are fuckin wierd

 

[Mo3452]

I dont think its entirely bad im not asking to be cold towards everyone bc i get respect from some people and they deserve it back, but what i want to do is learn how to give the same shit back to the people who give me shit when im nice and respectful but it sounds simple ik just be the same way but wtf its not

ik exactly what u mean. im religious so I always try to treat people good, even those who dont treat me well. its not bad that u are this way. think about it like this: everyone can be a hateful little shit and take their petty revenge on people but you are truly exceptional if u do not want to

 

[.hk7k]

ik exactly what u mean. im religious so I always try to treat people good, even those who dont treat me well. its not bad that u are this way. think about it like this: everyone can be a hateful little shit and take their petty revenge on people but you are truly exceptional if u do not want to

Im not gonna lie im not really religious the part that makes me give up of being “cold” idk man something just doesnt sit right with me and i dont wanna have that guilt on my shoulders aint a nice feeling, honestly i think i need to distance myself from certain people but then again i think ill jus fail that but this time im gnna try for good and not be a bitch i wnna make it aware that yeah if ur good with me im good with u but if u give me shit ima do the same, so then if they see that maybe theyll be good bc they wont see me being nice as a weakness and once they finanly treat me with some respect theyll get some back So i guess il become “cold” for a temporary time untill they finanly see that theyll only get respect when they give me some i dont think i could stick to it forever so i think this is the only solution that will make people realise And hopefully solve the issue

 

[Panchitosbroncs]

So idk u read my other post but a recap is So theres me then my brother im always helping around the house helping with big stuff im 16 btw and my ilder brother whos 21 works remote job from home lives with us pays for nothing he has 0 responsibilities 0 stress and she just dont love me the same he helps nothing around the house btw he works 4 hours remote from his desk a day hes on a 1 month long break rn she loves him more says hes the best and i kid u not shes never shown me affection but what im saying is why does he “win” when he does nothing and bro im so fuckin nice to my parents i litrally offer to make their life easier and do stuff for them but yet she treats him like a king and me like a peasant this aint a vent post its just wtf why i want to know shes says to me “hes doing something with his life” and btw im just 1 year behind in school thats all, she also never lets me go outside apart from school my theory is she hates my dad and i look alot hell of alot like him so shes taking it out me wierd ik, but the point is hlw do i become cold no matter what i try my hardest and say to myself im gnna be cold today but i give up and jus be nice bc me being cold towards her doesnt sit right with me shes my mother but she doesnt feel the same way like why man jusy fuck shed make shi a heck lot easier if shes was a normal mom

I'll be polite. I did'n read this and I don't recommend anyone to read this

 

[Clqs]

Ohhh myyy gawwwddd

 

[Mo3452]

yea that makes sense if u dont wanna treat people in a shitty was js distance yourself. If u think they deserve it give them more chances tho

Im not gonna lie im not really religious the part that makes me give up of being “cold” idk man something just doesnt sit right with me and i dont wanna have that guilt on my shoulders aint a nice feeling, honestly i think i need to distance myself from certain people but then again i think ill jus fail that but this time im gnna try for good and not be a bitch i wnna make it aware that yeah if ur good with me im good with u but if u give me shit ima do the same, so then if they see that maybe theyll be good bc they wont see me being nice as a weakness and once they finanly treat me with some respect theyll get some back So i guess il become “cold” for a temporary time untill they finanly see that theyll only get respect when they give me some i dont think i could stick to it forever so i think this is the only solution that will make people realise And hopefully solve the issue

 

[Randypsl]

dnr i need to go eat

 

[EvilButGoodLooking]

So idk u read my other post but a recap is So theres me then my brother im always helping around the house helping with big stuff im 16 btw and my ilder brother whos 21 works remote job from home lives with us pays for nothing he has 0 responsibilities 0 stress and she just dont love me the same he helps nothing around the house btw he works 4 hours remote from his desk a day hes on a 1 month long break rn she loves him more says hes the best and i kid u not shes never shown me affection but what im saying is why does he “win” when he does nothing and bro im so fuckin nice to my parents i litrally offer to make their life easier and do stuff for them but yet she treats him like a king and me like a peasant this aint a vent post its just wtf why i want to know shes says to me “hes doing something with his life” and btw im just 1 year behind in school thats all, she also never lets me go outside apart from school my theory is she hates my dad and i look alot hell of alot like him so shes taking it out me wierd ik, but the point is hlw do i become cold no matter what i try my hardest and say to myself im gnna be cold today but i give up and jus be nice bc me being cold towards her doesnt sit right with me shes my mother but she doesnt feel the same way like why man jusy fuck shed make shi a heck lot easier if shes was a normal mom

DNR

Being cold is not something you really become its more so like a development from mental disorders like NPD

 

[One Rep Max]

Dnrd

 

[VrillFatNoob24]

So idk u read my other post but a recap is So theres me then my brother im always helping around the house helping with big stuff im 16 btw and my ilder brother whos 21 works remote job from home lives with us pays for nothing he has 0 responsibilities 0 stress and she just dont love me the same he helps nothing around the house btw he works 4 hours remote from his desk a day hes on a 1 month long break rn she loves him more says hes the best and i kid u not shes never shown me affection but what im saying is why does he “win” when he does nothing and bro im so fuckin nice to my parents i litrally offer to make their life easier and do stuff for them but yet she treats him like a king and me like a peasant this aint a vent post its just wtf why i want to know shes says to me “hes doing something with his life” and btw im just 1 year behind in school thats all, she also never lets me go outside apart from school my theory is she hates my dad and i look alot hell of alot like him so shes taking it out me wierd ik, but the point is hlw do i become cold no matter what i try my hardest and say to myself im gnna be cold today but i give up and jus be nice bc me being cold towards her doesnt sit right with me shes my mother but she doesnt feel the same way like why man jusy fuck shed make shi a heck lot easier if shes was a normal mom

dnr but just remember nothing matters since you and everyone you know will be forgotten, even einstein when the earth explodes, aftee you die. nothing matters

 

[larpmaster_]

So idk u read my other post but a recap is So theres me then my brother im always helping around the house helping with big stuff im 16 btw and my ilder brother whos 21 works remote job from home lives with us pays for nothing he has 0 responsibilities 0 stress and she just dont love me the same he helps nothing around the house btw he works 4 hours remote from his desk a day hes on a 1 month long break rn she loves him more says hes the best and i kid u not shes never shown me affection but what im saying is why does he “win” when he does nothing and bro im so fuckin nice to my parents i litrally offer to make their life easier and do stuff for them but yet she treats him like a king and me like a peasant this aint a vent post its just wtf why i want to know shes says to me “hes doing something with his life” and btw im just 1 year behind in school thats all, she also never lets me go outside apart from school my theory is she hates my dad and i look alot hell of alot like him so shes taking it out me wierd ik, but the point is hlw do i become cold no matter what i try my hardest and say to myself im gnna be cold today but i give up and jus be nice bc me being cold towards her doesnt sit right with me shes my mother but she doesnt feel the same way like why man jusy fuck shed make shi a heck lot easier if shes was a normal mom

sadly its based off the genetics your ancestors built for you.

 

[cartonfoirix]

Stop listening to Steph is cold

 

[xzylecrey]

Stop listening to Steph is cold

Onb and all the other redpill guys

 

[whitecelcoper]

Everyone saying dnr has fried dopamine receptors. I also dnr the whole thing, but I am aware my dopamine receptors are fried. Anyways, just act cold until you get used to it and it's your first reaction when someone says something. Larping until you're not larping basically