How do i become more outgoing

[Deleted member 23218]

Im an high inhib introvert withhh poor social skills.

I have adhd and am starting myh meds tmmrw. If those dont work Ill ask my psychologist fo0r some other stuff. What else can I do?

@rand anon
@David Rothschild

 

[Deleted member 17872]

Most important thing is the mindset if you don't want to become outgoing then you never will.

You need to truly desire yourself to be as outgoing as possible. You need to visualise yourself as an outgoing verbal mogger.

Then force yourself to get out. Talk to me. Spend time with other peoples.

It will take time. Slowly but surely you will become outgoing tho.

 

[Deleted member 21048]

By being good-looking

 

[Deleted member 6305]

Go out with nice people, you'll start liking going out
That's it

 

[Deleted member 24940]

Most important thing is the mindset if you don't want to become outgoing then you never will.

You need to truly desire yourself to be as outgoing as possible. You need to visualise yourself as an outgoing verbal mogger.

Then force yourself to get out. Talk to me. Spend time with other peoples.

It will take time. Slowly but surely you will become outgoing tho.

Who do I talk too? Like random people? Idk since I was pretty socially skilled In highschool but I lost it after moving and being isolated during covid lockdowns for 2 years.

 

[Deleted member 17872]

Who do I talk too? Like random people? Idk since I was pretty socially skilled In highschool but I lost it after moving and being isolated during covid lockdowns for 2 years.

Where do you live? Interact with your neighbours, people from work, the men at the grocerry store or the gym.

 

[Deleted member 24459]

Talk to as many people as possible.. talk to the cashiers when you buy grocery, talk to the homeless dudes on the corner, talk to random strangers you are standing by in lines, talk to your barber when you get your next haircut.

 

[rand anon]

You need to truly desire yourself

You can't do this anyways if u hve subhuman lookz

 

[Deleted member 21661]

Most important thing is the mindset if you don't want to become outgoing then you never will.

You need to truly desire yourself to be as outgoing as possible. You need to visualise yourself as an outgoing verbal mogger.

Then force yourself to get out. Talk to me. Spend time with other peoples.

It will take time. Slowly but surely you will become outgoing tho.

Thanks for the advice Mr Rothschild
now tell me how I become a billionaire

 

[Deleted member 19865]

Im an high inhib introvert withhh poor social skills.

I have adhd and am starting myh meds tmmrw. If those dont work Ill ask my psychologist fo0r some other stuff. What else can I do?

@rand anon
@David Rothschild

As far as meds go, ADHD meds can make people more outgoing, but they can also make you like a robot and cause you to have more nervous tics which can make it harder too, but it varies from person to person.

 

[Gonthar]

Im an high inhib introvert withhh poor social skills.

I have adhd and am starting myh meds tmmrw. If those dont work Ill ask my psychologist fo0r some other stuff. What else can I do?

Acting classes, improvisation classes, stand up comedy, etc.