How do I build discipline and willpower?

[fauxfox]

Watching those hundreds of clickbait YouTube videos that say "DO THIS TO BECOME DISCIPLINED" is bullshit.
I need actual tips to get my shit together in school, health and social life.

 

[Kroker]

1- Time

Know that you're time on earth is limited.

(A study was conducted where they asked people about what age do they think they will die and most answers were 50-70 years old)

The point is that instinctively you think that you will have plenty of time. Which is false. You might die in the next 10 mints or the next 40 years. You never know.

2- Regret

The death bed final moments

(Optimistically) you've lived long enough as a low T NPC. On a rainy night in your death bed where your family gathered around you. Your siblings (if there any left) your wife (the one whom you've settled down with because no better options were available at the time), your kids and grandkids.

Your eyes are watery, shallow breaths and a sweaty forehead with coldhands.
Your life since your first memories as a kid till this day is on repeat, passes fast yet slow. You are reminded of all the times were you said nah fuck I'm too tired for gym today, to I can't get this job or the promotion... That beach sea front flat that I've always dreamed of buying.
That beautiful lady I wanted to marry.


A tear drops down your cheek, so your daughters wipes it while rubbing your shoulders. Telling you: everything will be okay!

Not knowing that you're not sad that your time is over here but the fact that you couldn't make the best of it.

3- Eagerness

Be thirsty, furious, envious and animalistic. (YOU want that shit)

That prime pink pussy I be munching on after a workout, enough money to looksmaxx and but stuff I need/want. A comfy house and a tour around the globe.

Sitting down on your ass eating Cheetos flaming hot while chugging on Mountain Dew, rotting, no showers, stinky armpits, socks filled with cum. Won't get you 10% of these.


While others are hitting her raw?! Yeah great lemme get on Pornhub or whatever, I will never be this or that.

With envious I mean not the evil type, but the good one, like you want to be like them not that you want that shit off of them or saying they don't deserve it.

4- Stay resolute

CUT OFF the bullshit and empty your mind for important crucial stuff.

I screamed with the loudest I can, I was angry, filled with negative energy and hate.

I screamed and broke shit around me.
Because I was sick of my shit. The way how I procrastinate. It filled me with anger.

I knew I had to do something and I had to do it fast because of (1- Time) and I'm trying to do it.

You will find days were your low energy and zero motivation, all you have to do is to remember point (3-) that others are doing what you should be doing rn, or others are having fun like the way you want to.

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Stop reading motivation books or watching vids. It takes all the energy and time. It will trick your mind that you did it while actually you did nothing.

It's a like a worm feeding on rotten flesh.

You can read on how to manage time, money and other stuff.


MOTIVATION STEMS FROM YOUR INNER MIND NOT SOMETHING TO BE TAUGHT OR LEARNED.

This is how I view it.