How do I convince my parents to help pay for my surgeries?

[lilhorizontal32]

I am planning on working to pay for it myself but if my parents help I will be able to get it quicker

however I have had no success blackpilling them and they are telling me to change the way that I view the world and improve my personality when it comes to how people treat me jfl

they are also very high inhib about surgery and think itll ruin my face

 

[Ryan]

I am planning on working to pay for it myself but if my parents help I will be able to get it quicker

however I have had no success blackpilling them and they are telling me to improve my personality and change the way that I view the world jfl

ur parents now probably think u r a gay

 

[lilhorizontal32]

and I'm not planning on leeching off them. I will pay them back obviously once I have moneymaxxed in a few years

 

[Deleted member 13994]

ask them if they think u are ugly

 

[lilhorizontal32]

ask them if they think u are ugly

they think im gl

 

[Boldandbeautiful]

I am planning on working to pay for it myself but if my parents help I will be able to get it quicker

however I have had no success blackpilling them and they are telling me to change the way that I view the world and improve my personality when it comes to how people treat me jfl

Tell them your too insecure to go to university and start rotting

 

[Romeo1111]

im doing this to, my parents are afraid i will fuck up my whole appearance so they wont support something big

 

[lilhorizontal32]

Tell them your too insecure to go to university and start rotting

wont work. theyll tell me go to therapy and this just confirms that its my mindset/personality that is the problem rather than my looks

 

[lilhorizontal32]

im doing this to, my parents are afraid i will fuck up my whole appearance so they wont support something big

so are mine

 

[Frank Jack]

Tell them your kill yourself if they don't help pay for surgery

 

[Romeo1111]

so are mine

pratty normal for parents i guess but if youre saving money and showing to your parents that you really are trying they can probaly help ypu

 

[lilhorizontal32]

pratty normal for parents i guess but if youre saving money and showing to your parents that you really are trying they can probaly help ypu

i think they are slowly coming around. but would definitely make this whole process easier if they were completely blackpilled

 

[Romeo1111]

i think they are slowly coming around. but would definitely make this whole process easier if they were completely blackpilled

it will take time but eventually they will agree thats what im doing with my parents

 

[lilhorizontal32]

it will take time but eventually they will agree thats what im doing with my parents

they didnt say that they wont allow it. but just got quite angry that I wanted surgery and want to talk to the surgeon and think that the surgeon is convincing me to get surgery that I dont need

I can understand what they are going through because they dont have the information that we do and for a normie getting surgery to change your looks is insane, but to us its almost a given after spending so much time on PSL

but I'm struggling to get them to a point where they also have that mindset if that makes sense

 

[Romeo1111]

they didnt say that they wont allow it. but just got quite angry that I wanted surgery and want to talk to the surgeon and think that the surgeon is convincing me to get surgery that I dont need

I can understand what they are going through because they dont have the information that we do and for a normie getting surgery to change your looks is insane, but to us its almost a given after spending so much time on PSL

but I'm struggling to get them to a point where they also have that mindset if that makes sense

my parents know i have some form of bdd and thats why there kinda against it but now with time its getting better, im not thinking about something huge i want fat grafs under my eyes. Im guessing youre parents are also saying "you are good looking as you are" and that kinda stuff. What are you planing to do`?

 

[lilhorizontal32]

my parents know i have some form of bdd and thats why there kinda against it but now with time its getting better, im not thinking about something huge i want fat grafs under my eyes. Im guessing youre parents are also saying "you are good looking as you are" and that kinda stuff. What are you planing to do`?

planning on bimax. but hopefully more after

luckily though with bimax I can say that its the functional that I want, and then hopefully once the surgery is done they can see the result themselves and maybe become blackpilled as a result

 

[Primordial]

pay it all yourself

 

[Gaia262]

I am planning on working to pay for it myself but if my parents help I will be able to get it quicker

however I have had no success blackpilling them and they are telling me to change the way that I view the world and improve my personality when it comes to how people treat me jfl

they are also very high inhib about surgery and think itll ruin my face

Unfortunately it sounds like you will have to pay for it yourself.


Better off investing in crypto (after it crashes) , then the use the profits to spend on surgery.

$2k in crypto will yield $10k-$20k in a few years time.

Then do all your surgeries abroad.

 

[lilhorizontal32]

Unfortunately it sounds like you will have to pay for it yourself.


Better off investing in crypto (after it crashes) , then the use the profits to spend on surgery.

$2k in crypto will yield $10k-$20k in a few years time.

Then do all your surgeries abroad.

slowly coming to accept that myself.

hopefully one day I can get through to them though

 

[gui]

explain the fucked up genes they gave you. so they can feel ashamed and help you.