
thecel
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The guys in my Instagram group chat keep telling me I need to play video games, listen to new music, go outside, connect with people, etc.
I’m tired of this advice because I do all of these things, but no matter how many times I remind them about this stuff their perception of me never seems to change. Why? Because in that group chat, 90% of the time I talk about lookism, inceldom, and girls—occasionally ranting about the degeneracy of Western culture but hypocritically post porn and talk about getting laid.
This is what I hate the most about the way NT people’s brains operate. They’re unable to override their firsthand judgements of people with other information. They judge people solely based on what they see them do.
For example, Tom is a bodybuilder who wears a shirt 2 sizes too small, walks around around flexing, and always talks about the gym. Jordan thinks Tom is nothing but a dumb gym rat. One day, Tom tells Jordan that he actually is passionate about art—he spends most of his time creating art, and working out is only a small part of his life. But Tom saying this didn’t change how Jordan saw him; he still thinks he’s just a stupid gym bro. Unless Jordan sees Tom’s artwork firsthand, his perception of Tom’s personality won’t change, because he only judges based on what he sees.
Likewise, the other members of the group chat think I’m nothing but a loser and an incel. I tell them how much I study and improve myself, but because I mainly talk about females and incel-related topics in the group chat, their normie brains can’t see me any other way.
I’m tired of this advice because I do all of these things, but no matter how many times I remind them about this stuff their perception of me never seems to change. Why? Because in that group chat, 90% of the time I talk about lookism, inceldom, and girls—occasionally ranting about the degeneracy of Western culture but hypocritically post porn and talk about getting laid.
This is what I hate the most about the way NT people’s brains operate. They’re unable to override their firsthand judgements of people with other information. They judge people solely based on what they see them do.
For example, Tom is a bodybuilder who wears a shirt 2 sizes too small, walks around around flexing, and always talks about the gym. Jordan thinks Tom is nothing but a dumb gym rat. One day, Tom tells Jordan that he actually is passionate about art—he spends most of his time creating art, and working out is only a small part of his life. But Tom saying this didn’t change how Jordan saw him; he still thinks he’s just a stupid gym bro. Unless Jordan sees Tom’s artwork firsthand, his perception of Tom’s personality won’t change, because he only judges based on what he sees.
Likewise, the other members of the group chat think I’m nothing but a loser and an incel. I tell them how much I study and improve myself, but because I mainly talk about females and incel-related topics in the group chat, their normie brains can’t see me any other way.
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