How do I convince normies that I’m more than what I talk about in a group chat?

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The guys in my Instagram group chat keep telling me I need to play video games, listen to new music, go outside, connect with people, etc.

I’m tired of this advice because I do all of these things, but no matter how many times I remind them about this stuff their perception of me never seems to change. Why? Because in that group chat, 90% of the time I talk about lookism, inceldom, and girls—occasionally ranting about the degeneracy of Western culture but hypocritically post porn and talk about getting laid.

This is what I hate the most about the way NT people’s brains operate. They’re unable to override their firsthand judgements of people with other information. They judge people solely based on what they see them do.

For example, Tom is a bodybuilder who wears a shirt 2 sizes too small, walks around around flexing, and always talks about the gym. Jordan thinks Tom is nothing but a dumb gym rat. One day, Tom tells Jordan that he actually is passionate about art—he spends most of his time creating art, and working out is only a small part of his life. But Tom saying this didn’t change how Jordan saw him; he still thinks he’s just a stupid gym bro. Unless Jordan sees Tom’s artwork firsthand, his perception of Tom’s personality won’t change, because he only judges based on what he sees.

Likewise, the other members of the group chat think I’m nothing but a loser and an incel. I tell them how much I study and improve myself, but because I mainly talk about females and incel-related topics in the group chat, their normie brains can’t see me any other way.
 
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Stop associating with normies
 
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quit talking to your presumably irl friends about lookism and inceldom you weirdo
 
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Well the lesson you learned is don’t talk to people about being an incel and lookism
 
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Good thread
 
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you shouldnt talk to them about that stuff
 
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so true. They have a very one dimensional view of everything
 
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Just show them your cock
 
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Well the lesson you learned is don’t talk to people about being an incel and lookism

I have hard time agreeing with my girlfriend when we "rate" male models (y I'm an alphacuck)
FFS she finds some boring psl 4,5 / 5 super attractive (halo, "charm", dunno why) and yet she says some glorified psl gods from here look boring.

Every time I try to prove her wrong with autistic psl terms, she stares at me... Seemingly wondering how she did end up with psl 3.5 self deprecating weirdo.
 
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You are such a nice kid I know they won't give you shit even if you got exposed as an incel.
 
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Normies absolutely want to shoehorn you into some box with other people of your kind. And they are also obsessed with fitting neatly into other peoples boxes.
Some will go so far as to call you hypocrite just for sharing traits from several boxes. Also forget about changing box in their mind as you say.

To be acquainted with thousands of people (including celebrities, social media etc) your idea of them can not be that nuanced or you would overload.

I like listening to people with unique, complex and shifting personalities that are difficult to put in a box.

Also, have you noticed that normie tv-shows often repeat the exact same plot and format over and over again? To the point where if you seen one show you'we seen them all,
just with different actors/guests.
Everything has to be forseeable and repetitive for the normie or they will have a hizzy fit.
 
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The guys in my Instagram group chat keep telling me I need to play video games, listen to new music, go outside, connect with people, etc.

I’m tired of this advice because I do all of these things, but no matter how many times I remind them about this stuff their perception of me never seems to change. Why? Because in that group chat, 90% of the time I talk about lookism, inceldom, and girls—occasionally ranting about the degeneracy of Western culture but hypocritically post porn and talk about getting laid.

This is what I hate the most about the way NT people’s brains operate. They’re unable to override their firsthand judgements of people with other information. They judge people solely based on what they see them do.

For example, Tom is a bodybuilder who wears a shirt 2 sizes too small, walks around around flexing, and always talks about the gym. Jordan thinks Tom is nothing but a dumb gym rat. One day, Tom tells Jordan that he actually is passionate about art—he spends most of his time creating art, and working out is only a small part of his life. But Tom saying this didn’t change how Jordan saw him; he still thinks he’s just a stupid gym bro. Unless Jordan sees Tom’s artwork firsthand, his perception of Tom’s personality won’t change, because he only judges based on what he sees.

Likewise, the other members of the group chat think I’m nothing but a loser and an incel. I tell them how much I study and improve myself, but because I mainly talk about females and incel-related topics in the group chat, their normie brains can’t see me any other way.
high IQ and very aspie post
dont make friends with normies btw i tried and it's really not worth it
 
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dont make friends with normies btw i tried and it's really not worth it
cope. this is the same thing as mstow.

@thecel just stop talking about lookism and shit with normies. You gain nothing.
 
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You are such a nice kid I know they won't give you shit even if you got exposed as an incel.

What you just posted is the lowest-IQ thing I ever read. NICE PEOPLE GET SHAT ON BECAUSE THEY’RE NICE. Being nice causes people to bully you, abuse you, and disrespect you. But of course, being mean also causes bad stuff to happen to you because being mean makes enemies. If you’re a subhuman, everyone treats you like you’re horseshit, whether you’re mean or nice.
 

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