How do I deal with a breakup?

[Deleted member 180344]

I've known her for nearly a year, she suddenly broke up with me out of nowhere and said she hasn't wanted to be in a relationship with me for me months, yet gave me no signals whatsoever, she told me she didn't care about my looks, but ultimately I know it was about that, I know in my heart, I don't know bro, it just hurts so bad, how do I even cope with this?

 

[BankinBaby]

rope

 

[SplashJuice]

Smoke some opium in video games, it makes you feel better.

 

[Deleted member 180344]

rope

I mean that's something I'm thinking about doing!, But im scared of fucking it up

 

[alchemy]

Sometimes it is just that. I had the best girl in the world, someone I could marry, virgin before LTR, but I fucked it up and dumped her to bang some useless whores. When everything is well you will invent hardships.

 

[Antonlord7]

Respawn

 

[BigBallsLarry]

I've known her for nearly a year, she suddenly broke up with me out of nowhere and said she hasn't wanted to be in a relationship with me for me months, yet gave me no signals whatsoever, she told me she didn't care about my looks, but ultimately I know it was about that, I know in my heart, I don't know bro, it just hurts so bad, how do I even cope with this?

I've dealt with a very similar thing, i'll write a detailed response to you later, hang in there brocel

 

[Kroker]

Immediately look for another oneitis the longer you wait the more hurt you’ll feel

 

[Deleted member 180344]

Sometimes it is just that. I had the best girl in the world, someone I could marry, virgin before LTR, but I fucked it up and dumped her to bang some useless whores. When everything is well you will invent hardships.

Sorry to hear that, it always seems to be the most promising ones

 

[Deleted member 180344]

I've dealt with a very similar thing, i'll write a detailed response to you later, hang in there brocel

thank you man, sorry to hear

 

[alchemy]

Sorry to hear that, it always seems to be the most promising ones

She dealt with every single bullshit I put her through. When a woman loves you she will do whatever it takes, even if it takes completely fucking her life over. Women are somehow the most selfless and selfish creatures. Think of how a woman will love her son no matter what somemetimes and being arbittarily cucked and dumped.

 

[chris34]

Sorry to hear that but I think the best thing to do is to do things that prevent you from thinking about that because the more you think about a sad thing the more it gets to you ultimately going outside and doing stuff is your best bet to get your mind off of situations like that hope you’re doing okay bro

 

[Deleted member 180344]

She dealt with every single bullshit I put her through. When a woman loves you she will do whatever it takes, even if it takes completely fucking her life over. Women are somehow the most selfless and selfish creatures. Think of how a woman will love her son no matter what somemetimes and being arbittarily cucked and dumped.

yeah, difference was I completely and utterly submitted to this woman, I genuinely would've done anything for her, I loved her so much and she loved me so much, she claimed I didn't share enough with her, But bro I tried I was just too fucking autistic, tbh rn I want nothing but her back, I just hope I feel some resentment soon cuz right now I don't even tho she completely fucked me over

 

[silently_said]

Revenge porn

 

[Deleted member 180344]

Sorry to hear that but I think the best thing to do is to do things that prevent you from thinking about that because the more you think about a sad thing the more it gets to you ultimately going outside and doing stuff is your best bet to get your mind off of situations like that hope you’re doing okay bro

thank you for the advice man, I promised my self I won't rot if it comes too it, and will use it as fuel or momentum

 

[alchemy]

yeah, difference was I completely and utterly submitted to this woman, I genuinely would've done anything for her, I loved her so much and she loved me so much, she claimed I didn't share enough with her, But bro I tried I was just too fucking autistic, tbh rn I want nothing but her back, I just hope I feel some resentment soon cuz right now I don't even tho she completely fucked me over

Never ever do that. Doesn't matter if you're the winner or loser. That's what Greeks wrote plays about. Perfect men with imperfect faults, completely ruining what could be their best moments. Greeks didn't shy from it unlike modern men; they embraced it and called it destiny.

 

[chris34]

thank you for the advice man, I promised my self I won't rot if it comes too it, and will use it as fuel or momentum

Use this moment to better yourself like go to the gym

 

[Deleted member 19325]

Just find her and stomp her into the ground

 

[michael skelton]

Go on your sigma winter arc and ascend