How do I describe my situation bro's?

[droidmaxxing]

My whole life I have felt neither neurotypical nor neurodivergent, there are many situations where I feel I act like an autist , especially when it's an entirely new group of people around me , I feel autistic as fuck .
Meanwhile there are certain situations where I feel neurotypical and low inhibition , one example is when I'm playing sports ,especially football at a nearby pitch, i become very low inhibition during that time
My brain also sometimes freezes during those situations where I face micro-aggressions which aren't bad enough to crash out on like i don't know what to respond sometimes
I'd like to know y'all thoughts ( be nice )

 

[droidmaxxing]

Bump

 

[duhz]

DNR

 

[droidmaxxing]

@Whiteboard7 @CorinthianLOX
Have you gone through such situations too?

 

[blur_el]

then you nt

 

[droidmaxxing]

then you nt

What about that micro aggression part , my brain freezes in those situations part
If it's not serious enough I'm not able to respond swiftly like those low inhib people

 

[boxing-cel]

My whole life I have felt neither neurotypical nor neurodivergent, there are many situations where I feel I act like an autist , especially when it's an entirely new group of people around me , I feel autistic as fuck .
Meanwhile there are certain situations where I feel neurotypical and low inhibition , one example is when I'm playing sports ,especially football at a nearby pitch, i become very low inhibition during that time
My brain also sometimes freezes during those situations where I face micro-aggressions which aren't bad enough to crash out on like i don't know what to respond sometimes
I'd like to know y'all thoughts ( be nice )

I used to be the same way

During combat sports I felt low inhib and alive and in social situations I’d freeze

Turned out it was just due to my internal fears in socialising

I had to investigate what caused shyness

1. Fear of being attacked/ beaten
(Resolved through gym and martial arts)

2. Fear of being judged by women
(Resolved by not pedestalising them and developing my own traits)

3. Few of being seen as weird
(So what? I believe I’m the man because I’ve done so much hard shit and achieved so much, so I think they’re weird now)

All in all, you just need to work on yourself, do things that you can refer to that give you pride and investigate and think deeply about the root causes of your trauma.

 

[boxing-cel]

What about that micro aggression part , my brain freezes in those situations part
If it's not serious enough I'm not able to respond swiftly like those low inhib people

You probably have low self worth and believe that responding will get you punished

You need to re condition yourself. Force yourself to be slightly assertive. Joke back, call them out playfully, ask them what they meant.

Don’t chimp out but don’t let them get away scot free

 

[droidmaxxing]

I used to be the same way

During combat sports I felt low inhib and alive and in social situations I’d freeze

Turned out it was just due to my internal fears in socialising

I had to investigate what caused shyness

1. Fear of being attacked/ beaten
(Resolved through gym and martial arts)

2. Fear of being judged by women
(Resolved by not pedestalising them and developing my own traits)

3. Few of being seen as weird
(So what? I believe I’m the man because I’ve done so much hard shit and achieved so much, so I think they’re weird now)

All in all, you just need to work on yourself, do things that you can refer to that give you pride and investigate and think deeply about the root causes of your trauma.

Thanks for responding man
About the combat sports part,
I'm literally going to start boxing too
I'm going to join a boxing gym near my home from April as I have exams rn
I think it will help me a lot, I have started with some basic exercises like simple pushups or pull-ups and go out for a run nowadays as i have stopped playing football for a month now cause of my injury

 

[boxing-cel]

Thanks for responding man
About the combat sports part,
I'm literally going to start boxing too many
I'm going to join a boxing gym near my home from April as I have exams rn
I think it will help me a lot, I have started with some basic exercises like simple pushups or pull-ups and go out for a run nowadays as i have stopped playing football for a month now cause of my injury

Yeah.

Your brain is protecting you because in primal times pissing off the wrong guys or gals would mean you’d get kicked out

But if you’re 200lbs lean and tall and broad and strong and capable and have pushed yourself beyond your limits and can hurt people and have done it many times you get a certain level of confidence and self belief

You know you can walk into any room and no one can truly to do anything

It calms the brain down

 

[Alexg_lover]

You're NT. Mfs be calling any social inhibition for neurodivergence

 

[droidmaxxing]

You probably have low self worth and believe that responding will get you punished

You need to re condition yourself. Force yourself to be slightly assertive. Joke back, call them out playfully, ask them what they meant.

Don’t chimp out but don’t let them get away scot free

Yeah man I have been there
But the thing is , whenever sometimes it's a serious confrontation type issue, I've improved in that case haven't fully become low inhib in that matter but
will force myself to improve further
What i lack in , are those small micro aggressive situations like a subtle very disrespectful comment
In a social setting , i freeze there and my mind doesn't work

 

[droidmaxxing]

You're NT. Mfs be calling any social inhibition for neurodivergence

I didn't claim myself as Neurodivergence or anything
I just didn't know what to describe it

 

[droidmaxxing]

Yeah.

Your brain is protecting you because in primal times pissing off the wrong guys or gals would mean you’d get kicked out

But if you’re 200lbs lean and tall and broad and strong and capable and have pushed yourself beyond your limits and can hurt people and have done it many times you get a certain level of confidence and self belief

You know you can walk into any room and no one can truly to do anything

It calms the brain down

Indeed
It's effects are very real that's why I'm gonna join it

 

[boxing-cel]

Yeah man I have been there
But the thing is , whenever sometimes it's a serious confrontation type issue, I've improved in that case haven't fully become low inhib in that matter but
will force myself to improve further
What i lack in , are those small micro aggressive situations like a subtle very disrespectful comment
In a social setting , i freeze there and my mind doesn't work

Just match their intensity and be playful bro

 

[Mom]

My whole life I have felt neither neurotypical nor neurodivergent, there are many situations where I feel I act like an autist , especially when it's an entirely new group of people around me , I feel autistic as fuck .
Meanwhile there are certain situations where I feel neurotypical and low inhibition , one example is when I'm playing sports ,especially football at a nearby pitch, i become very low inhibition during that time
My brain also sometimes freezes during those situations where I face micro-aggressions which aren't bad enough to crash out on like i don't know what to respond sometimes
I'd like to know y'all thoughts ( be nice )

Nobody cares get tested

 

[droidmaxxing]

Nobody cares get tested

Just ignore the post and move on ,not that hard

 

[droidmaxxing]

Just match their intensity and be playful bro

yeah I have tried it earlier, got roasted in return but I'll continue to do this

 

[boxing-cel]

yeah I have tried it earlier, got roasted in return but I'll continue to do this

Because they don’t respect you

Develop traits that make them respect you

Capability for violence is the best

 

[droidmaxxing]

Because they don’t respect you

Develop traits that make them respect you

Capability for violence is the best

Yeah seems like it
I've already left one of my friend groups where I got tired of fighting or arguing with them about this same thing
Should've just beaten the shit out of them

 

[SickendExistence]

My whole life I have felt neither neurotypical nor neurodivergent, there are many situations where I feel I act like an autist , especially when it's an entirely new group of people around me , I feel autistic as fuck .
Meanwhile there are certain situations where I feel neurotypical and low inhibition , one example is when I'm playing sports ,especially football at a nearby pitch, i become very low inhibition during that time
My brain also sometimes freezes during those situations where I face micro-aggressions which aren't bad enough to crash out on like i don't know what to respond sometimes
I'd like to know y'all thoughts ( be nice )

You are introverted

 

[droidmaxxing]

You are introverted

I will socialize a lot in college,
My social skills went down the drain in the last two years of high school, cause i switched schools to a new area where most mfs were too much into being wannabe thugs

 

[droidmaxxing]

@HundredManSlayer @davidlaidisme67

 

[HundredManSlayer]

then you're normal man, you're just overthinking it

 

[droidmaxxing]

then you're normal man, you're just overthinking it

Maybe ig
But I'm not sure

 

[Whiteboard7]

My whole life I have felt neither neurotypical nor neurodivergent, there are many situations where I feel I act like an autist , especially when it's an entirely new group of people around me , I feel autistic as fuck .
Meanwhile there are certain situations where I feel neurotypical and low inhibition , one example is when I'm playing sports ,especially football at a nearby pitch, i become very low inhibition during that time
My brain also sometimes freezes during those situations where I face micro-aggressions which aren't bad enough to crash out on like i don't know what to respond sometimes
I'd like to know y'all thoughts ( be nice )

I get what your saying not as severe for me possibly a few times where I have experienced something like this

 

[droidmaxxing]

I get what your saying not as severe for me possibly a few times where I have experienced something like this

Oh i see now
Understandable bruv

 

[Whiteboard7]

Oh i see now
Understandable bruv

I gotcha then lol

 

[CorinthianLOX]

@Whiteboard7 @CorinthianLOX
Have you gone through such situations too?

I can relate

 

[droidmaxxing]

I can relate

Anything similar you went through?

 

[droidmaxxing]

@shandingo what do you say man ?

 

[redaraln]

You just don't have good social skills, lowkey just watch how other popular people interact and copy them. Only works if you're attractive.

 

[droidmaxxing]

You just don't have good social skills, lowkey just watch how other popular people interact and copy them. Only works if you're attractive.

I've tried it , has often worked while at times has failed
Will try my best again in college

 

[shandingo]

@shandingo what do you say man ?

Yeh this is normal. Of course you are going to be confident in a environment in which you are competent. Confidence is just competence feedback loops. If you wanna feel low inhib then it is directly correlated with the more positive experiences you have.

 

[max010]

I used to be the same way

During combat sports I felt low inhib and alive and in social situations I’d freeze

Turned out it was just due to my internal fears in socialising

I had to investigate what caused shyness

1. Fear of being attacked/ beaten
(Resolved through gym and martial arts)

2. Fear of being judged by women
(Resolved by not pedestalising them and developing my own traits)

3. Few of being seen as weird
(So what? I believe I’m the man because I’ve done so much hard shit and achieved so much, so I think they’re weird now)

All in all, you just need to work on yourself, do things that you can refer to that give you pride and investigate and think deeply about the root causes of your trauma.

Honestly you made me feel better somehow. Wanna say thanks

 

[boxing-cel]

Honestly you made me feel better somehow. Wanna say thanks

Of course bro

The only solution is confronting your fears and proving to yourself you are that guy

 

[iblamefranklin]

My whole life I have felt neither neurotypical nor neurodivergent, there are many situations where I feel I act like an autist , especially when it's an entirely new group of people around me , I feel autistic as fuck .
Meanwhile there are certain situations where I feel neurotypical and low inhibition , one example is when I'm playing sports ,especially football at a nearby pitch, i become very low inhibition during that time
My brain also sometimes freezes during those situations where I face micro-aggressions which aren't bad enough to crash out on like i don't know what to respond sometimes
I'd like to know y'all thoughts ( be nice )

eat some candy bro