how do i find a girlfriend as an INTJ?

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how do i find a girlfriend as an INTJ?

i've never experienced love from a girl. they always look at me like they're judging me. i'd love to experience being loved at least once while i'm still young. from what i've read in studies, teenage relationships can have a positive impact on future relationships and personal development.

i don't know how to talk to girls in real life. i've never held a girl's hand, never looked one in the eyes for more than 3 seconds, but i really just want to be loved.

i'm 82% introverted, and almost every conversation i have with people in real life ends badly.
 

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I cant read that
 
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Как мне найти девушку, будучи INTJ?

Я никогда не испытывал любви от девушки. На меня всегда смотрят так, будто осуждают. Я бы очень хотел хотя бы раз почувствовать себя любимым, пока я ещё молод. Судя по исследованиям, которые я читал, подростковые отношения могут положительно влиять на будущие отношения и личностное развитие.

Я не знаю, как разговаривать с девушками в реальной жизни. Я никогда не держал девушку за руку, никогда не смотрел ей в глаза дольше 3 секунд, но я очень хочу, чтобы меня любили.

Я на 82% интроверт, и почти каждый мой разговор с людьми в реальной жизни заканчивается плохо

(моя маленькая собачка — мой лучший друг).
Speak English nga
 
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ye, sorry, i fix it
You just gotta look good be funny have good social status or good at sport . Those are the only ways to get one
 
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You just gotta look good be funny have good social status or good at sport . Those are the only ways to get one
i can't even talk to girls. sometimes they try to start a conversation with me (like once a year), but i never know what to say.
 
how do i find a girlfriend as an INTJ?

i've never experienced love from a girl. they always look at me like they're judging me. i'd love to experience being loved at least once while i'm still young. from what i've read in studies, teenage relationships can have a positive impact on future relationships and personal development.

i don't know how to talk to girls in real life. i've never held a girl's hand, never looked one in the eyes for more than 3 seconds, but i really just want to be loved.

i'm 82% introverted, and almost every conversation i have with people in real life ends badly.
people will really take a online personality test and call them selves a "INTJ" rather than just admit they are nd
 
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how do i find a girlfriend as an INTJ?

i've never experienced love from a girl. they always look at me like they're judging me. i'd love to experience being loved at least once while i'm still young. from what i've read in studies, teenage relationships can have a positive impact on future relationships and personal development.

i don't know how to talk to girls in real life. i've never held a girl's hand, never looked one in the eyes for more than 3 seconds, but i really just want to be loved.

i'm 82% introverted, and almost every conversation i have with people in real life ends badly.
nigga said as an intj LMAO
anyways your problem isn't introversion it's that ur ugly, bitches wont date u not because ur a loner but because ur not Chad also if u were attractive u wouldn't even have this problem as I would have had plenty of social interactions and u'd have been good at socializing so basically it's over brah
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i can't even talk to girls. sometimes they try to start a conversation with me (like once a year), but i never know what to say.
The only way is train yourself I’m also intj but I trained myself to talk to foids
 
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people will really take a online personality test and call them selves a "INTJ" rather than just admit they are nd
everyone's different.

some people are extroverts, some are introverts.
 
nigga said as an intj LMAO
anyways your problem isn't introversion it's that ur ugly, bitches wont date u not because ur a loner but because ur not Chad also if u were attractive u wouldn't even have this problem as I would have had plenty of social interactions and u'd have been good at socializing so basically it's over brah
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i'm not that ugly. RatePiller rated me a hmtn
 
nigga said as an intj LMAO
anyways your problem isn't introversion it's that ur ugly, bitches wont date u not because ur a loner but because ur not Chad also if u were attractive u wouldn't even have this problem as I would have had plenty of social interactions and u'd have been good at socializing so basically it's over brah
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but, its true
 

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