Nigga gooning is not bad
Are u sick in the head bro
Ong it's not bad unless u goon to porn not ur imagination
Am asking for serious advice if u dont got nothing to dont say no bs
lwk valid taking dick is better than having a one
bro just do it without the porn, and limit the ammount of times you do it. or just save up ur sperm for hoes
W First Post?
The thing is i did with porn i still got a month to prove myself tho cuz am not seeing my girl for a month if i do it again i might breakup cuz no one wants a gooner bfbro just do it without the porn, and limit the ammount of times you do it. or just save up ur sperm for hoes
Just think if the people u care about find out u fucking wank how fucking disgusting they would be thats how i stopped myself for a month
Yh yh easy to say hard to do
idk i stopped like 2y ago i js thought of how weird it is
Saying straight bs
what worked for me is a mindset shift. In my head that was my identity, the same way a smoker sees themselves as a smoker. Slowly I separated the act from my identity, I stopped being so hard on myself whenever I failed—that would only make it harder to quit. Eventually controlling my actions became extremely easy, I no longer saw myself as a gooner and if any feelings arose I’d simply ignore them and with time they’d go away; like watching leaves flow down a river. I could go weeks and months if I wanted to (I’ve done so), I could stop mid way if I wanted to (done that to), at the end of the day you control your actions and a simple mindset shift can help you do that
how ts great advice thats what i do if im not talking to a girl i dont goon if i do i only goon to her
Thanks a lot for being serious i’ll try what u said hopefully i succeedwhat worked for me is a mindset shift. In my head that was my identity, the same way a smoker sees themselves as a smoker. Slowly I separated the act from my identity, I stopped being so hard on myself whenever I failed—that would only make it harder to quit. Eventually controlling my actions became extremely easy, I no longer saw myself as a gooner and if any feelings arose I’d simply ignore them and with time they’d go away; like watching leaves flow down a river. I could go weeks and months if I wanted to (I’ve done so), I could stop mid way if I wanted to (done that to), at the end of the day you control your actions and a simple mindset shift can help you do that
u dont, u sexting. Why do u want to stop gooning anyway? Unless its causing u ED or to escelate into weird shit, do u think ur magically gonna make ur life better by stopping?
Yes for me i stopped gooning for month i felt so much better than before so much happier than before
I had this to when i stopped jerking off, but its not sustainable, u need to sexting, or jerk off to ur thoughts and u wont feel like shit after nutting or feel a constant cloud over your head. I'd laugh when users said it was the porn not the actual action of jerking off.
Idk I think u are kinda right maybe its not the jerking its the porn that’s addictive
it is that shit is poison. I genuinely thought it was cope too. Cuz I would still feel like shit no matter if I jerked to porn or not. But trust me, a few days after jerking off to your thoughts or sexting, your ED goes away, you have a clearer mind. Its way less addictive.
i just rape myself with stimulants so i dont even have the need to do it, been doing this for 2 weeks and it works
Spend more time with your girl, have sex with her often to cut out the head in ur voice telling u to goon. If you don’t want sex then just maximize physical touch. Im saying this even tho I’ve been in one relationship
but these methods work
Ruining your likely first ever relationship over this what are you doing, do you want to end up with lifetime rumination? I don't know what pos or redpiller cunt did this to you, but its heartbreaking to see a kid on a path to ruin his life like this. Try professional help from a male clinical psychologist and preferably not on looksmax questions.
