How do I get better at sexually escalating things on a date or when I am with a girl?

[brutalist0]

So the other day I was on a date with this girl that ive known on and off for 5-6 months.

I picked her up and we got coffee. I knew i had to start physical touch early so I made up some bullshit about “reading her personality by feeling her palm” and also complimented her nails.

After that, we walked around outside at one point I accidentally stumbled on some stair so I said “oh i better hold your hand so i am more stable” and held hands for a while.

At the end of the date, i drove up to her house and we started to say our goodbyes. I stopped her by telling her there was something we hadn’t talked about yet all day. (The reference is on Christmas we were talking about what gifts we got and I joked there was something I really wanted but didnt get yet, aka kissing her) So I leaned in and started making out with her, but she said lets not do this infront of my house, so i drove up the block and we started to make out again.

Honestly the whole time kissing her i couldn’t even enjoy the moment because i was so worried I was doing it wrong and it would discourage her. (ive kissed 2 other girls but it has been awhile)

And then my stupid ass decided to say “lets hop in the back seat” and I proceeded to jump in the back. She took it weirdly and was like “ohh i dont know”. So i got out of the car and opened her door and tried to persuade her in, but she resisted. She just said lets save it for another time.

Later that day she texted me “I dont usually kiss on the first date so lets take things slow”

I saw her again at a party 2 days later but we just talked and i didnt make any moves. What do I do to make her want to escalate?

TLDR: I went on a date and was touchy with her and held hands with her, made out with her, but none of it felt any good and at the end im pretty sure she likes me less now.

 

[carpe diem]

So the other day I was on a date with this girl that ive known on and off for 5-6 months.

I picked her up and we got coffee. I knew i had to start physical touch early so I made up some bullshit about “reading her personality by feeling her palm” and also complimented her nails.

After that, we walked around outside at one point I accidentally stumbled on some stair so I said “oh i better hold your hand so i am more stable” and held hands for a while.

At the end of the date, i drove up to her house and we started to say our goodbyes. I stopped her by telling her there was something we hadn’t talked about yet all day. (The reference is on Christmas we were talking about what gifts we got and I joked there was something I really wanted but didnt get yet, aka kissing her) So I leaned in and started making out with her, but she said lets not do this infront of my house, so i drove up the block and we started to make out again.

Honestly the whole time kissing her i couldn’t even enjoy the moment because i was so worried I was doing it wrong and it would discourage her. (ive kissed 2 other girls but it has been awhile)

And then my stupid ass decided to say “lets hop in the back seat” and I proceeded to jump in the back. She took it weirdly and was like “ohh i dont know”. So i got out of the car and opened her door and tried to persuade her in, but she resisted. She just said lets save it for another time.

Later that day she texted me “I dont usually kiss on the first date so lets take things slow”

I saw her again at a party 2 days later but we just talked and i didnt make any moves. What do I do to make her want to escalate?

TLDR: I went on a date and was touchy with her and held hands with her, made out with her, but none of it felt any good and at the end im pretty sure she likes me less now.

bump

 

[BeardedUnicorn]

So the other day I was on a date with this girl that ive known on and off for 5-6 months.

I picked her up and we got coffee. I knew i had to start physical touch early so I made up some bullshit about “reading her personality by feeling her palm” and also complimented her nails.

After that, we walked around outside at one point I accidentally stumbled on some stair so I said “oh i better hold your hand so i am more stable” and held hands for a while.

At the end of the date, i drove up to her house and we started to say our goodbyes. I stopped her by telling her there was something we hadn’t talked about yet all day. (The reference is on Christmas we were talking about what gifts we got and I joked there was something I really wanted but didnt get yet, aka kissing her) So I leaned in and started making out with her, but she said lets not do this infront of my house, so i drove up the block and we started to make out again.

Honestly the whole time kissing her i couldn’t even enjoy the moment because i was so worried I was doing it wrong and it would discourage her. (ive kissed 2 other girls but it has been awhile)

And then my stupid ass decided to say “lets hop in the back seat” and I proceeded to jump in the back. She took it weirdly and was like “ohh i dont know”. So i got out of the car and opened her door and tried to persuade her in, but she resisted. She just said lets save it for another time.

Later that day she texted me “I dont usually kiss on the first date so lets take things slow”

I saw her again at a party 2 days later but we just talked and i didnt make any moves. What do I do to make her want to escalate?

TLDR: I went on a date and was touchy with her and held hands with her, made out with her, but none of it felt any good and at the end im pretty sure she likes me less now.

bump I have a similar problem, sex havers please help

 

[BlackFag]

Dnr

 

[3pslnoharmony]

So the other day I was on a date with this girl that ive known on and off for 5-6 months.

I picked her up and we got coffee. I knew i had to start physical touch early so I made up some bullshit about “reading her personality by feeling her palm” and also complimented her nails.

After that, we walked around outside at one point I accidentally stumbled on some stair so I said “oh i better hold your hand so i am more stable” and held hands for a while.

At the end of the date, i drove up to her house and we started to say our goodbyes. I stopped her by telling her there was something we hadn’t talked about yet all day. (The reference is on Christmas we were talking about what gifts we got and I joked there was something I really wanted but didnt get yet, aka kissing her) So I leaned in and started making out with her, but she said lets not do this infront of my house, so i drove up the block and we started to make out again.

Honestly the whole time kissing her i couldn’t even enjoy the moment because i was so worried I was doing it wrong and it would discourage her. (ive kissed 2 other girls but it has been awhile)

And then my stupid ass decided to say “lets hop in the back seat” and I proceeded to jump in the back. She took it weirdly and was like “ohh i dont know”. So i got out of the car and opened her door and tried to persuade her in, but she resisted. She just said lets save it for another time.

Later that day she texted me “I dont usually kiss on the first date so lets take things slow”

I saw her again at a party 2 days later but we just talked and i didnt make any moves. What do I do to make her want to escalate?

TLDR: I went on a date and was touchy with her and held hands with her, made out with her, but none of it felt any good and at the end im pretty sure she likes me less now.

Tell her that you have a 8x11 B”insert ethnicity here”C

 

[abzz!]

So the other day I was on a date with this girl that ive known on and off for 5-6 months.

I picked her up and we got coffee. I knew i had to start physical touch early so I made up some bullshit about “reading her personality by feeling her palm” and also complimented her nails.

After that, we walked around outside at one point I accidentally stumbled on some stair so I said “oh i better hold your hand so i am more stable” and held hands for a while.

At the end of the date, i drove up to her house and we started to say our goodbyes. I stopped her by telling her there was something we hadn’t talked about yet all day. (The reference is on Christmas we were talking about what gifts we got and I joked there was something I really wanted but didnt get yet, aka kissing her) So I leaned in and started making out with her, but she said lets not do this infront of my house, so i drove up the block and we started to make out again.

Honestly the whole time kissing her i couldn’t even enjoy the moment because i was so worried I was doing it wrong and it would discourage her. (ive kissed 2 other girls but it has been awhile)

And then my stupid ass decided to say “lets hop in the back seat” and I proceeded to jump in the back. She took it weirdly and was like “ohh i dont know”. So i got out of the car and opened her door and tried to persuade her in, but she resisted. She just said lets save it for another time.

Later that day she texted me “I dont usually kiss on the first date so lets take things slow”

I saw her again at a party 2 days later but we just talked and i didnt make any moves. What do I do to make her want to escalate?

TLDR: I went on a date and was touchy with her and held hands with her, made out with her, but none of it felt any good and at the end im pretty sure she likes me less now.

bump

bump I have a similar problem, sex havers please help

the main thing about matters like this, is that you lot make it so scripted and fake, almost like a movie. don't plan things when it comes to romantic matters, just go with the flow. match her energy, be social, friendly. make her want you for YOU. show your uniqueness. you have to respect their boundaries man. if they hesitate, don't have that retarded rapist-like mentality of "trying to persuade". if they aren't comfortable, respect their wishes and be patient. i get that your cock is hungry for some pussy but genuinely chill out for a moment brah

anyways, attraction comes from being present in the moment. if you continue to worry about "doing things right", you're just making yourself nervous and that's gonna make you fuck up. think of them as a close close friend, rather than a partner at this point, it works, trust me. you have to make these women feel safe with you. that's the moment attraction (and sex) will come naturally. the biggest flaw with you incels is that you aren't patient enough. it's no longer the cavemen era where you can just fuck any pussy you see on the street jfl.

lead the women on emotionally. give them strong eye contact, tease them a little. be calm, smile at them. listen to their words and GENUINELY make it seem like you're interested. that will all mirror. and if it doesn't, who gives a shit? you will find many more to do this with. practice makes perfect guys.

basically, don't be a performative retard who follows concrete steps & guidance like it's a video game, and instead adapt to the women you speak to. good luck everyone, i wish you the best

 

[carpe diem]

the main thing about matters like this, is that you lot make it so scripted and fake, almost like a movie. don't plan things when it comes to romantic matters, just go with the flow. match her energy, be social, friendly. make her want you for YOU. show your uniqueness. you have to respect their boundaries man. if they hesitate, don't have that retarded rapist-like mentality of "trying to persuade". if they aren't comfortable, respect their wishes and be patient. i get that your cock is hungry for some pussy but genuinely chill out for a moment brah

anyways, attraction comes from being present in the moment. if you continue to worry about "doing things right", you're just making yourself nervous and that's gonna make you fuck up. think of them as a close close friend, rather than a partner at this point, it works, trust me. you have to make these women feel safe with you. that's the moment attraction (and sex) will come naturally. the biggest flaw with you incels is that you aren't patient enough. it's no longer the cavemen era where you can just fuck any pussy you see on the street jfl.

lead the women on emotionally. give them strong eye contact, tease them a little. be calm, smile at them. listen to their words and GENUINELY make it seem like you're interested. that will all mirror. and if it doesn't, who gives a shit? you will find many more to do this with. practice makes perfect guys.

basically, don't be a performative retard who follows concrete steps & guidance like it's a video game, and instead adapt to the women you speak to. good luck everyone, i wish you the best

understood.

 

[abzz!]

understood.

im glad! tell me how it goes if you ever get around trying to slay

 

[brutalist0]

the main thing about matters like this, is that you lot make it so scripted and fake, almost like a movie. don't plan things when it comes to romantic matters, just go with the flow. match her energy, be social, friendly. make her want you for YOU. show your uniqueness. you have to respect their boundaries man. if they hesitate, don't have that retarded rapist-like mentality of "trying to persuade". if they aren't comfortable, respect their wishes and be patient. i get that your cock is hungry for some pussy but genuinely chill out for a moment brah

anyways, attraction comes from being present in the moment. if you continue to worry about "doing things right", you're just making yourself nervous and that's gonna make you fuck up. think of them as a close close friend, rather than a partner at this point, it works, trust me. you have to make these women feel safe with you. that's the moment attraction (and sex) will come naturally. the biggest flaw with you incels is that you aren't patient enough. it's no longer the cavemen era where you can just fuck any pussy you see on the street jfl.

lead the women on emotionally. give them strong eye contact, tease them a little. be calm, smile at them. listen to their words and GENUINELY make it seem like you're interested. that will all mirror. and if it doesn't, who gives a shit? you will find many more to do this with. practice makes perfect guys.

basically, don't be a performative retard who follows concrete steps & guidance like it's a video game, and instead adapt to the women you speak to. good luck everyone, i wish you the best

thank you for the genuine advice.

I know what you mean about the scripted feeling. That’s exactly what it feels like and the truth is I didnt want to go on the date in the first place. I just know i had to in order to get experience and the possibility of a slay.

Every single date ive been on has felt like that, except for the ones with my oneitis. With her, it was truly romantic and less performative.

The problem is I have to fake my confidence and be performative otherwise i always fear they won’t like me being so autistic/inexperienced.

 

[BeardedUnicorn]

the main thing about matters like this, is that you lot make it so scripted and fake, almost like a movie. don't plan things when it comes to romantic matters, just go with the flow. match her energy, be social, friendly. make her want you for YOU. show your uniqueness. you have to respect their boundaries man. if they hesitate, don't have that retarded rapist-like mentality of "trying to persuade". if they aren't comfortable, respect their wishes and be patient. i get that your cock is hungry for some pussy but genuinely chill out for a moment brah

anyways, attraction comes from being present in the moment. if you continue to worry about "doing things right", you're just making yourself nervous and that's gonna make you fuck up. think of them as a close close friend, rather than a partner at this point, it works, trust me. you have to make these women feel safe with you. that's the moment attraction (and sex) will come naturally. the biggest flaw with you incels is that you aren't patient enough. it's no longer the cavemen era where you can just fuck any pussy you see on the street jfl.

lead the women on emotionally. give them strong eye contact, tease them a little. be calm, smile at them. listen to their words and GENUINELY make it seem like you're interested. that will all mirror. and if it doesn't, who gives a shit? you will find many more to do this with. practice makes perfect guys.

basically, don't be a performative retard who follows concrete steps & guidance like it's a video game, and instead adapt to the women you speak to. good luck everyone, i wish you the best

the main thing about matters like this, is that you lot make it so scripted and fake, almost like a movie. don't plan things when it comes to romantic matters, just go with the flow. match her energy, be social, friendly. make her want you for YOU. show your uniqueness. you have to respect their boundaries man. if they hesitate, don't have that retarded rapist-like mentality of "trying to persuade". if they aren't comfortable, respect their wishes and be patient. i get that your cock is hungry for some pussy but genuinely chill out for a moment brah

anyways, attraction comes from being present in the moment. if you continue to worry about "doing things right", you're just making yourself nervous and that's gonna make you fuck up. think of them as a close close friend, rather than a partner at this point, it works, trust me. you have to make these women feel safe with you. that's the moment attraction (and sex) will come naturally. the biggest flaw with you incels is that you aren't patient enough. it's no longer the cavemen era where you can just fuck any pussy you see on the street jfl.

lead the women on emotionally. give them strong eye contact, tease them a little. be calm, smile at them. listen to their words and GENUINELY make it seem like you're interested. that will all mirror. and if it doesn't, who gives a shit? you will find many more to do this with. practice makes perfect guys.

basically, don't be a performative retard who follows concrete steps & guidance like it's a video game, and instead adapt to the women you speak to. good luck everyone, i wish you the best

idk I feel like being high inhib like this has ruined many chances for me.

 

[RussianWarCriminal]

Mogs me that you managed to even communicate words with a woman

 

[gurt]

Tell her that you have a 8x11 B”insert ethnicity here”C

diznigga

 

[gurt]

So the other day I was on a date with this girl that ive known on and off for 5-6 months.

I picked her up and we got coffee. I knew i had to start physical touch early so I made up some bullshit about “reading her personality by feeling her palm” and also complimented her nails.

After that, we walked around outside at one point I accidentally stumbled on some stair so I said “oh i better hold your hand so i am more stable” and held hands for a while.

At the end of the date, i drove up to her house and we started to say our goodbyes. I stopped her by telling her there was something we hadn’t talked about yet all day. (The reference is on Christmas we were talking about what gifts we got and I joked there was something I really wanted but didnt get yet, aka kissing her) So I leaned in and started making out with her, but she said lets not do this infront of my house, so i drove up the block and we started to make out again.

Honestly the whole time kissing her i couldn’t even enjoy the moment because i was so worried I was doing it wrong and it would discourage her. (ive kissed 2 other girls but it has been awhile)

And then my stupid ass decided to say “lets hop in the back seat” and I proceeded to jump in the back. She took it weirdly and was like “ohh i dont know”. So i got out of the car and opened her door and tried to persuade her in, but she resisted. She just said lets save it for another time.

Later that day she texted me “I dont usually kiss on the first date so lets take things slow”

I saw her again at a party 2 days later but we just talked and i didnt make any moves. What do I do to make her want to escalate?

TLDR: I went on a date and was touchy with her and held hands with her, made out with her, but none of it felt any good and at the end im pretty sure she likes me less now.

if she is willing to kiss shes willing to fuck, break touch when anxiety is low SO the goat zherka

 

[gurt]

if she is willing to kiss shes willing to fuck, break touch when anxiety is low SO the goat zherka

do as he says not as he does btw

 

[GandyLuvr]

So the other day I was on a date with this girl that ive known on and off for 5-6 months.

I picked her up and we got coffee. I knew i had to start physical touch early so I made up some bullshit about “reading her personality by feeling her palm” and also complimented her nails.

After that, we walked around outside at one point I accidentally stumbled on some stair so I said “oh i better hold your hand so i am more stable” and held hands for a while.

At the end of the date, i drove up to her house and we started to say our goodbyes. I stopped her by telling her there was something we hadn’t talked about yet all day. (The reference is on Christmas we were talking about what gifts we got and I joked there was something I really wanted but didnt get yet, aka kissing her) So I leaned in and started making out with her, but she said lets not do this infront of my house, so i drove up the block and we started to make out again.

Honestly the whole time kissing her i couldn’t even enjoy the moment because i was so worried I was doing it wrong and it would discourage her. (ive kissed 2 other girls but it has been awhile)

And then my stupid ass decided to say “lets hop in the back seat” and I proceeded to jump in the back. She took it weirdly and was like “ohh i dont know”. So i got out of the car and opened her door and tried to persuade her in, but she resisted. She just said lets save it for another time.

Later that day she texted me “I dont usually kiss on the first date so lets take things slow”

I saw her again at a party 2 days later but we just talked and i didnt make any moves. What do I do to make her want to escalate?

TLDR: I went on a date and was touchy with her and held hands with her, made out with her, but none of it felt any good and at the end im pretty sure she likes me less now.

If she felt comfortable touching you she would’ve done it herself lol

 

[ihateevb]

bump I have a similar problem, sex havers please help

It comes with time, just repeat over and over

 

[itsoverforyoubro]

So the other day I was on a date with this girl that ive known on and off for 5-6 months.

I picked her up and we got coffee. I knew i had to start physical touch early so I made up some bullshit about “reading her personality by feeling her palm” and also complimented her nails.

After that, we walked around outside at one point I accidentally stumbled on some stair so I said “oh i better hold your hand so i am more stable” and held hands for a while.

At the end of the date, i drove up to her house and we started to say our goodbyes. I stopped her by telling her there was something we hadn’t talked about yet all day. (The reference is on Christmas we were talking about what gifts we got and I joked there was something I really wanted but didnt get yet, aka kissing her) So I leaned in and started making out with her, but she said lets not do this infront of my house, so i drove up the block and we started to make out again.

Honestly the whole time kissing her i couldn’t even enjoy the moment because i was so worried I was doing it wrong and it would discourage her. (ive kissed 2 other girls but it has been awhile)

And then my stupid ass decided to say “lets hop in the back seat” and I proceeded to jump in the back. She took it weirdly and was like “ohh i dont know”. So i got out of the car and opened her door and tried to persuade her in, but she resisted. She just said lets save it for another time.

Later that day she texted me “I dont usually kiss on the first date so lets take things slow”

I saw her again at a party 2 days later but we just talked and i didnt make any moves. What do I do to make her want to escalate?

TLDR: I went on a date and was touchy with her and held hands with her, made out with her, but none of it felt any good and at the end im pretty sure she likes me less now.

Dnr but start with mentality, tell urself u deserve her (not saying to sa her and end up in prison) but just give urself the confidence and go from there

 

[Andremln]

Be more attractive

 

[DoctorPMA]

I think you rushed it too fast. At this point give it some time and maybe hit her up later but let her escalate and you just make the date low anxiety and fun. Or you can just stop talking to her see if she reaches out. Its hard to give advice because there is too much nuance

 

[jester]

So the other day I was on a date with this girl that ive known on and off for 5-6 months.

I picked her up and we got coffee. I knew i had to start physical touch early so I made up some bullshit about “reading her personality by feeling her palm” and also complimented her nails.

After that, we walked around outside at one point I accidentally stumbled on some stair so I said “oh i better hold your hand so i am more stable” and held hands for a while.

At the end of the date, i drove up to her house and we started to say our goodbyes. I stopped her by telling her there was something we hadn’t talked about yet all day. (The reference is on Christmas we were talking about what gifts we got and I joked there was something I really wanted but didnt get yet, aka kissing her) So I leaned in and started making out with her, but she said lets not do this infront of my house, so i drove up the block and we started to make out again.

Honestly the whole time kissing her i couldn’t even enjoy the moment because i was so worried I was doing it wrong and it would discourage her. (ive kissed 2 other girls but it has been awhile)

And then my stupid ass decided to say “lets hop in the back seat” and I proceeded to jump in the back. She took it weirdly and was like “ohh i dont know”. So i got out of the car and opened her door and tried to persuade her in, but she resisted. She just said lets save it for another time.

Later that day she texted me “I dont usually kiss on the first date so lets take things slow”

I saw her again at a party 2 days later but we just talked and i didnt make any moves. What do I do to make her want to escalate?

TLDR: I went on a date and was touchy with her and held hands with her, made out with her, but none of it felt any good and at the end im pretty sure she likes me less now.

just keep going out with her ig, she said let’s take things slow so she might wanna get to know you better before having sex, she didn’t outright say no so i think that’s a good sign
i’m ngl i have no clue what i’m talking about i have a similar problem but i’m a virgin and 16 so take what i said with a grain of salt

 

[halotestin98]

the main thing about matters like this, is that you lot make it so scripted and fake, almost like a movie. don't plan things when it comes to romantic matters, just go with the flow. match her energy, be social, friendly. make her want you for YOU. show your uniqueness. you have to respect their boundaries man. if they hesitate, don't have that retarded rapist-like mentality of "trying to persuade". if they aren't comfortable, respect their wishes and be patient. i get that your cock is hungry for some pussy but genuinely chill out for a moment brah

anyways, attraction comes from being present in the moment. if you continue to worry about "doing things right", you're just making yourself nervous and that's gonna make you fuck up. think of them as a close close friend, rather than a partner at this point, it works, trust me. you have to make these women feel safe with you. that's the moment attraction (and sex) will come naturally. the biggest flaw with you incels is that you aren't patient enough. it's no longer the cavemen era where you can just fuck any pussy you see on the street jfl.

lead the women on emotionally. give them strong eye contact, tease them a little. be calm, smile at them. listen to their words and GENUINELY make it seem like you're interested. that will all mirror. and if it doesn't, who gives a shit? you will find many more to do this with. practice makes perfect guys.

basically, don't be a performative retard who follows concrete steps & guidance like it's a video game, and instead adapt to the women you speak to. good luck everyone, i wish you the best

genuine good advice, mirin

 

[abzz!]

genuine good advice, mirin

thanks man, took me some time to type allat out

 

[оrg]

the main thing about matters like this, is that you lot make it so scripted and fake, almost like a movie. don't plan things when it comes to romantic matters, just go with the flow. match her energy, be social, friendly. make her want you for YOU. show your uniqueness. you have to respect their boundaries man. if they hesitate, don't have that retarded rapist-like mentality of "trying to persuade". if they aren't comfortable, respect their wishes and be patient. i get that your cock is hungry for some pussy but genuinely chill out for a moment brah

anyways, attraction comes from being present in the moment. if you continue to worry about "doing things right", you're just making yourself nervous and that's gonna make you fuck up. think of them as a close close friend, rather than a partner at this point, it works, trust me. you have to make these women feel safe with you. that's the moment attraction (and sex) will come naturally. the biggest flaw with you incels is that you aren't patient enough. it's no longer the cavemen era where you can just fuck any pussy you see on the street jfl.

lead the women on emotionally. give them strong eye contact, tease them a little. be calm, smile at them. listen to their words and GENUINELY make it seem like you're interested. that will all mirror. and if it doesn't, who gives a shit? you will find many more to do this with. practice makes perfect guys.

basically, don't be a performative retard who follows concrete steps & guidance like it's a video game, and instead adapt to the women you speak to. good luck everyone, i wish you the best

clutch with the high iq as always

 

[abzz!]

clutch with the high iq as always

brotha, you iq mog me

i appreciate it chad

 

[MLGS0LD1ERB0Y]

So the other day I was on a date with this girl that ive known on and off for 5-6 months.

I picked her up and we got coffee. I knew i had to start physical touch early so I made up some bullshit about “reading her personality by feeling her palm” and also complimented her nails.

After that, we walked around outside at one point I accidentally stumbled on some stair so I said “oh i better hold your hand so i am more stable” and held hands for a while.

At the end of the date, i drove up to her house and we started to say our goodbyes. I stopped her by telling her there was something we hadn’t talked about yet all day. (The reference is on Christmas we were talking about what gifts we got and I joked there was something I really wanted but didnt get yet, aka kissing her) So I leaned in and started making out with her, but she said lets not do this infront of my house, so i drove up the block and we started to make out again.

Honestly the whole time kissing her i couldn’t even enjoy the moment because i was so worried I was doing it wrong and it would discourage her. (ive kissed 2 other girls but it has been awhile)

And then my stupid ass decided to say “lets hop in the back seat” and I proceeded to jump in the back. She took it weirdly and was like “ohh i dont know”. So i got out of the car and opened her door and tried to persuade her in, but she resisted. She just said lets save it for another time.

Later that day she texted me “I dont usually kiss on the first date so lets take things slow”

I saw her again at a party 2 days later but we just talked and i didnt make any moves. What do I do to make her want to escalate?

TLDR: I went on a date and was touchy with her and held hands with her, made out with her, but none of it felt any good and at the end im pretty sure she likes me less now.

DNR. Roofie their drink you spastic. I do this everytime I go on dates. Literally a guaranteed slay.

60% of the time it works everytime.

 

[Ltb_slayer69]

idk I feel like being high inhib like this has ruined many chances for me.

There Are too many drugs out there for you to be Low inhib

 

[BeardedUnicorn]

There Are too many drugs out there for you to be Low inhib

Like what?