How do i get my love back

[iBlameJc]

I love this girl, i am 15 so i am probably being retarded, but rn i love her. I got very fucked up a couple months ago and got w a different girl, which caused me and the girl i want to dissipate. Obv braindead of me but i regret it so much, idc ab “slaying” or any other bs, i just want some advice from more mature ppl on what to do. I still speak to her, but its no where near the same. I always hate what i have when i have it. Or do i just focus on myself during puberty. Bro i just want love and FL.

 

[BeanCelll]

I always hate what i have when i have it

Some people like the chase more than the actual reward; maybe you just have a fear of settling and have one of those I can and should have better now that I accomplised this much mentalities.

As for your relationship it probably is fucked ,but you can ask and give it a shot - she'd need to see a drastic change in you before reconsidering though.

 

[takethewhitepill]

Find God and do what He says. If you read ephesians 5 it lays out how to behave in marriage. Follow 1 timothy 2. If she doesnt follow proverbs 31 consider not doing it. You dont love her because you dont even know what that is. Its probably time to bury it but just say to her what you said here and see what happens, you have no other option

 

[iBlameJc]

Some people like the chase more than the actual reward; maybe you just have a fear of settling and have one of those I can and should have better now that I accomplised this much mentalities.

As for your relationship it probably is fucked ,but you can ask and give it a shot - she'd need to see a drastic change in you before reconsidering though.

Thank you for the reply bro, i completely agree, its just hard to come to terms with, i will try my best.

 

[iBlameJc]

Find God and do what He says. If you read ephesians 5 it lays out how to behave in marriage. Follow 1 timothy 2. If she doesnt follow proverbs 31 consider not doing it. You dont love her because you dont even know what that is. Its probably time to bury it but just say to her what you said here and see what happens, you have no other option

Thanks man, im not very religous but i try to speak to God, I will read those soon, i want to confess to her, but it may only bring us down more, but i think it is worth it as i have already fucked it