How do I get over the fact that I missed out on so much?

[Beetlejuice]

it is over

 

[Deleted member 12856]

You get this feeling when you have no close friends that are like urself

if u had close friends like u, u wouldnt give a shit what u missed out on

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Nice people get exploited and tested in the world, i had to learn it the hard way

With women 100%. With men IDK some are genuinely good people who have respect for others, but MOST men are also scumbags but still to a less degree than women of course.

 

[Vermilioncore]

There is no getting over it. You’re damaged and that’s that. End of story.

 

[lifestyle21873]

With women 100%. With men IDK some are genuinely good people who have respect for others, but MOST men are also scumbags but still to a less degree than women of course.

with men its 50/50, but one thing that ive realized is that the ones who dont bark are ”alpha” its so cringe saying this whole alpha beta bullshit but you get the point. The quiet respectful guy that doesnt test people unless shit comes to him

meanwhile the barking small dogs are nothing, they get no respect so they have to resort to attacking the weaker ones, while some men take you under their wing and help you by hardening you and protecting

 

[shrek]

Bro no girls are good people im afraid, the more experience you have the more you will realise this. Especially if your pimping on them you will be shocked how much better they treat you than other nice guy boyfriends get treated (you will be worshipped while genuinely good guys get mentally abused by their GF's).

So you may as well take their money.

If your quite because your shy and submissive then yes huge turn-off, if your just quiet because dont feel like talking its fine, so long as when you do talk its not in a shy + low status voice. When your girl brings you into the conversation dont be overly positive reacting to her doing that, instead act a little bit annoyed that she's talking to you (because your in the state of cba to talk).

Yeah it’s not that I’m submissive it’s just that Idk what to say but I’ll work on that

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Yeah it’s not that I’m submissive it’s just that Idk what to say but I’ll work on that

When in doubt just be disrespectful to the closest woman to you, they will either respect you or shit test you, either outcome is good, first for obvious reason. Second because when they start shit testing you open an opportunity to mog them and then get their respect also.

 

[shrek]

You get this feeling when you have no close friends that are like urself

if u had close friends like u, u wouldnt give a shit what u missed out on

That’s spot on bro! My closest friends don’t give a fuck that we’re in this situation. My htn friend lives a great life but I’m not that close to him. I’ll try to hang with him more

 

[lifestyle21873]

LMFAOOOOO. Yeah I’ll do that but if she’s genuinely a good person I’m not stealing her money tho. If we were in a social situation and the girl noticed I’m quite and not talking too much would that be a turn off?

if anything its better to be quiet and only talking when spoken to than being an always talking normie cuck. you have to adapt ur surroundings tho, no one wants the 100% silent autist but no one wants the annoying loud faggot either

 

[shrek]

When in doubt just be disrespectful to the closest woman to you, they will either respect you or shit test you, either outcome is good, first for obvious reason. Second because when they start shit testing you open an opportunity to mog them and then get their respect also.

Won’t they just be like “this guy is being a dick so let’s not talk to him?”

 

[Deleted member 4797]

with men its 50/50, but one thing that ive realized is that the ones who dont bark are ”alpha” its so cringe saying this whole alpha beta bullshit but you get the point. The quiet respectful guy that doesnt test people unless shit comes to him

meanwhile the barking small dogs are nothing, they get no respect so they have to resort to attacking the weaker ones, while some men take you under their wing and help you by hardening you and protecting

Yeah its basically small dick syndrome or short man syndrome, so many guys have this even if they have big dicks and are tall, its not to do with any physical trait but the psychological concept is 100% true, of overcompensating by being bullies, 'Kiss up Kick down' type dudes.

 

[shrek]

Yeah its basically small dick syndrome or short man syndrome, so many guys have this even if they have big dicks and are tall, its not to do with any physical trait but the psychological concept is 100% true, of overcompensating by being bullies, 'Kiss up Kick down' type dudes.

So if guys make fun of you is it because they think you’re better and they feel inferior? If I just laugh it off is that a good response?

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Won’t they just be like “this guy is being a dick so let’s not talk to him?”

No because women have no control over their emotions. They are masochistic and will enjoy being mogged or trying to fight you then getting mogged harder. As long as you preserve your superiority they will stay interested in you.

 

[Deleted member 12856]

That’s spot on bro! My closest friends don’t give a fuck that we’re in this situation. My htn friend lives a great life but I’m not that close to him. I’ll try to hang with him more

the reason i say this was bc in high school i felt the way you did

but when i found my best friends at uni, about 4 of them we'd chill everyday, and i stopped caring about missing out

what youre missing out on is friendship and human connection bro, slaying/partying/sex means absolutely nothing

 

[lifestyle21873]

So if guys make fun of you is it because they think you’re better and they feel inferior? If I just laugh it off is that a good response?

always stand up for yourself if someone disrespects you. its hard to learn if youre a kind calm guy but you need to toughen up and learn to disrespect back or some other shit.
never allow yourself to be inferior doesnt matter who it is and dont fear anyone

 

[shrek]

No because women have no control over their emotions. They are masochistic and will enjoy being mogged or trying to fight you then getting mogged harder. As long as you preserve your superiority they will stay interested in you.

Ok. Hypothetically, let’s say politics comes up. If they ask I’ll say I’m a Trump supporter. Then if they talk about blm etc, if I say to a girl that systemic racism is a political agenda and blm is a scam to get money for the left, assuming I back it up with good facts would this be a good way to mog a girl?

 

[Deleted member 4797]

So if guys make fun of you is it because they think you’re better and they feel inferior? If I just laugh it off is that a good response?

No guys often make fun of dudes below them, but they still bully. Its because internally they feel inferior to other dudes, so have to reassert themselves constantly by 'Kicking down', they are not gonna try to bully someone they perceive as superior.

And if you get disrespected by any guy always talk shit back and hold your ground, never laugh it off thats the cuck response.

This is all presuming your talking about genuine disrespect, if people are joking then yes laugh it off lol, guys who cant take a joke are the 'Kiss up Kick down' types.

 

[shrek]

the reason i say this was bc in high school i felt the way you did

but when i found my best friends at uni, about 4 of them we'd chill everyday, and i stopped caring about missing out

what youre missing out on is friendship and human connection bro, slaying/partying/sex means absolutely nothing

always stand up for yourself if someone disrespects you. its hard to learn if youre a kind calm guy but you need to toughen up and learn to disrespect back or some other shit.
never allow yourself to be inferior doesnt matter who it is and dont fear anyone

I’m not kind at all. I actually think I have mild psychopathic symptoms and Idgaf about most ppl. How do I stand up for myself without making it cringe tho? Cuz like if I say stfu, then the guy will be like “oh I annoyed him so I’m going to keep pushing him”

 

[shrek]

No guys often make fun of dudes below them, but they still bully. Its because internally they feel inferior to other dudes, so have to reassert themselves constantly by 'Kicking down', they are not gonna try to bully someone they perceive as superior.

And if you get disrespected by any guy always talk shit back and hold your ground, never laugh it off thats the cuck response.

This is all presuming your talking about genuine disrespect, if people are joking then yes laugh it off lol, guys who cant take a joke are the 'Kiss up Kick down' types.

Ok so what’s an example of talking shit back? Call them a phaggot?

 

[Deleted member 12856]

Ok so what’s an example of talking shit back? Call them a phaggot?

call him cuck phaggot and neg him

 

[lifestyle21873]

I’m not kind at all. I actually think I have mild psychopathic symptoms and Idgaf about most ppl. How do I stand up for myself without making it cringe tho? Cuz like if I say stfu, then the guy will be like “oh I annoyed him so I’m going to keep pushing him”

its hard to explain tbh you can say anything you want if you say it with confidence and no fear

I advice you to find a role model preferably older guy who is above you and learn from him. can be anything, a friend, ur father or some random guy from gym. if you surround yourself with strong people your forced to toughen up while you learn the dynamics

 

[lifestyle21873]

its hard to explain tbh you can say anything you want if you say it with confidence and no fear

I advice you to find a role model preferably older guy who is above you and learn from him. can be anything, a friend, ur father or some random guy from gym. if you surround yourself with strong people your forced to toughen up while you learn the dynamics

some people will put you under their wing btw if you find someone that is humble and strong

 

[shrek]

its hard to explain tbh you can say anything you want if you say it with confidence and no fear

I advice you to find a role model preferably older guy who is above you and learn from him. can be anything, a friend, ur father or some random guy from gym. if you surround yourself with strong people your forced to toughen up while you learn the dynamics

Yeah my htn friend is just like that. I’ll try to learn from him

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Ok. Hypothetically, let’s say politics comes up. If they ask I’ll say I’m a Trump supporter. Then if they talk about blm etc, if I say to a girl that systemic racism is a political agenda and blm is a scam to get money for the left, assuming I back it up with good facts would this be a good way to mog a girl?

NO.

With men, yes it would be.

With women, DONT BRING FACTS UP AND ACT LIKE A SCIENTIST. Women give 0 shits about the truth, they care only about SOCIAL STATUS.

You have to verbally MOG these women into accepting your opinion, bully them into it by being ultra arrogant and disrespectful in the way you argue, always be on pimp mode when dealing with women.

 

[lifestyle21873]

Yeah my htn friend is just like that. I’ll try to learn from him

i dont like saying this tbh but stop hanging out with lowlifes subhuman nerds. most of the time they are crabs in a bucket that secretly hate on you. only hang out with people you feel like you can learn from

 

[Deleted member 4797]

I’m not kind at all. I actually think I have mild psychopathic symptoms and Idgaf about most ppl. How do I stand up for myself without making it cringe tho? Cuz like if I say stfu, then the guy will be like “oh I annoyed him so I’m going to keep pushing him”

Just stay 100% on attack mode, dont defend shit, attack attack attack. If you say 'stfu' it sounds like u've had enough because you are a snowflake

 

[shrek]

i dont like saying this tbh but stop hanging out with lowlifes subhuman nerds. most of the time they are crabs in a bucket that secretly hate on you. only hang out with people you feel like you can learn from

Honestly I only hang with them a couple times a year other than that I just sit at home and lift in my basement. But they’re actually cool guys (other than the fact that they don’t party or get pussy). And they’re actually there for me while nobody elsr is so I can’t just ditch them.

But I completely get what you’re saying. I’ll try to find normies through my htn friend and hang out with them more

 

[shrek]

NO.

With men, yes it would be.

With women, DONT BRING FACTS UP AND ACT LIKE A SCIENTIST. Women give 0 shits about the truth, they care only about SOCIAL STATUS.

You have to verbally MOG these women into accepting your opinion, bully them into it by being ultra arrogant and disrespectful in the way you argue, always be on pimp mode when dealing with women.

Ok so how would I mog them without bringing up stats?

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Ok so how would I mog them without bringing up stats?

'Your such a dumb bitch its clear by how your talking right now'
'OMG how am I talking?!'
'Like the dumb bitch you are'

You can neg them a bunch like that, also just overtalk them aggressively, reiterate your points and ignore what they're saying.

NEVER say 'I understand what your saying, but..', you have to be extremely stubborn and dont show any doubt in your argument. Act like your trying to convince a blind person that the sun is Yellow but they dont believe you, you dont reason with that you just hammer the point into their head like a dictator.

 

[lifestyle21873]

What does his issue have to do with social skills though. He says girls on tinder call him hot, so legit all he has to do is meetup with them, have a few drinks, and make-out/fuck. It requires 0 social skills once the girl is into you.

He has a mental issue that is completely unrelated to 'social skills'. You don't need social skills to lose your kissless virginity.

What would you if you were too high inhib to meet up those girls thst called u hot

 

[shrek]

What would you if you were too high inhib to meet up those girls thst called u hot

I didn’t meet up with them cuz it’s lockdown an I’m not getting a license until March 31

 

[shrek]

'Your such a dumb bitch its clear by how your talking right now'
'OMG how am I talking?!'
'Like the dumb bitch you are'

You can neg them a bunch like that, also just overtalk them aggressively, reiterate your points and ignore what they're saying.

NEVER say 'I understand what your saying, but..', you have to be extremely stubborn and dont show any doubt in your argument. Act like your trying to convince a blind person that the sun is Yellow but they dont believe you, you dont reason with that you just hammer the point into their head like a dictator.

Idk about the dumb bitch part. Like overall you’re correct but if I called a girl a dumb bitch, her friends would all start screaming at me and the dudes would say “whoa dude relax”

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Ok so how would I mog them without bringing up stats?

Here's 2 good real life examples of how to argue like a pimp with women:



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23:25-23:55

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Idk about the dumb bitch part. Like overall you’re correct but if I called a girl a dumb bitch, her friends would all start screaming at me and the dudes would say “whoa dude relax”

Look at the 2 examples above, you have to be mentally strong enough to not give a fuck what anybody else thinks, this is how u achieve the highest status over normies.

Always hold strong to your position no matter how many people get mad at you or tell you to chill.

 

[shrek]

Look at the 2 examples above, you have to be mentally strong enough to not give a fuck what anybody else thinks, this is how u achieve the highest status over normies.

Always hold strong to your position no matter how many people get mad at you or tell you to chill.

Also, let’s say my htn friend introduces me to his friends and there are a few girls there too (they all know each other and only my friend knows me). How do I introduce myself? Do I just say “hi my name is ____?” Do you shake hands with the guys? Do the girls try to hug you? This will probably be in the summer on a boat btw cuz my friend has one

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Also, let’s say my htn friend introduces me to his friends and there are a few girls there too (they all know each other and only my friend knows me). How do I introduce myself? Do I just say “hi my name is ____?” Do you shake hands with the guys? Do the girls try to hug you? This will probably be in the summer on a boat btw cuz my friend has one

Its up to you bro you have to be yourself but just a very arrogant version of it to the women. Really act like your better than them, because thats what it comes down to how you make them attracted to you is being superior and making them FEEL INFERIOR.

 

[shrek]

Its up to you bro you have to be yourself but just a very arrogant version of it to the women. Really act like your better than them, because thats what it comes down to how you make them attracted to you is being superior and making them FEEL INFERIOR.

Kk I will. What do you think normies generally talk about tho?

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Kk I will. What do you think normies generally talk about tho?

My normie friends talk about women and making money, also 'racism' jfl.

 

[shrek]

My normie friends talk about women and making money, also 'racism' jfl.

Lol. I’ll try that I guess. My biggest concern is that the convo with a chick dies out very quickly then it’s awkward

 

[SLA]

All I can say is, at 20 you see the end of the road. I’ve always said it’s over at 22. You know as well as I do you’re at your last days with any chance. My advice to be would be to throw away all inhibition in all ways. Get on some kind of drug that gets you off your ass. Do whatever kind of softmaxing it takes (get lean). Do thing you never thought made sense, because the time is coming where opportunity goes to NOTHING. 20 is one of your last remaining chances. Get your head out of your ass, stop being “rational” and start doing unreasonable things.


don’t end up like me, who will be 26 in June and no more experienced than you. Go do something. Don’t be afraid to ask women out. To me, 20 seems like ages ago and I wouldn’t fuck it up if I was 20 again.

as separate advice, I wouldn’t recommend slaying and would go for a gf-into-wife scenario. Remember , better incel than cuck.

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Lol. I’ll try that I guess. My biggest concern is that the convo with a chick dies out very quickly then it’s awkward

Yeah that can happen, best way to rejuvenate it is start randomly roasting her. Dont resort to small talk or a serious topic, that will make it cringe like your talking only to avoid awkward silence. Insult her so she gets emotional then the discussion is interesting again. Its not like foids can be interesting when they're not emotional anyway

 

[shrek]

All I can say is, at 20 you see the end of the road. I’ve always said it’s over at 22. You know as well as I do you’re at your last days with any chance. My advice to be would be to throw away all inhibition in all ways. Get on some kind of drug that gets you off your ass. Do whatever kind of softmaxing it takes (get lean). Do thing you never thought made sense, because the time is coming where opportunity goes to NOTHING. 20 is one of your last remaining chances. Get your head out of your ass, stop being “rational” and start doing unreasonable things.


don’t end up like me, who will be 26 in June and no more experienced than you. Go do something. Don’t be afraid to ask women out. To me, 20 seems like ages ago and I wouldn’t fuck it up if I was 20 again.

as separate advice, I wouldn’t recommend slaying and would go for a gf-into-wife scenario. Remember , better incel than cuck.

If there was no lockdown U could bang a few different girls and I think I could slay in the future. But if I date the first girl I bang it’ll bother me forever that she experienced other dudes and I never got any other girls. Plus she’s never going to respect me since I’m inexperienced

 

[shrek]

All I can say is, at 20 you see the end of the road. I’ve always said it’s over at 22. You know as well as I do you’re at your last days with any chance. My advice to be would be to throw away all inhibition in all ways. Get on some kind of drug that gets you off your ass. Do whatever kind of softmaxing it takes (get lean). Do thing you never thought made sense, because the time is coming where opportunity goes to NOTHING. 20 is one of your last remaining chances. Get your head out of your ass, stop being “rational” and start doing unreasonable things.


don’t end up like me, who will be 26 in June and no more experienced than you. Go do something. Don’t be afraid to ask women out. To me, 20 seems like ages ago and I wouldn’t fuck it up if I was 20 again.

as separate advice, I wouldn’t recommend slaying and would go for a gf-into-wife scenario. Remember , better incel than cuck.

If there was no lockdown U could bang a few different girls and I think I could slay in the future. But if I date the first girl I bang it’ll bother me forever that she experienced other dudes and I never got any other girls. Plus she’s never going to respect me since I’ll inexperienced

 

[shrek]

Yeah that can happen, best way to rejuvenate it is start randomly roasting her. Dont resort to small talk or a serious topic, that will make it cringe like your talking only to avoid awkward silence. Insult her so she gets emotional then the discussion is interesting again. Its not like foids can be interesting when they're not emotional anyway

How would I insult her without going too far?

 

[Deleted member 4797]

How would I insult her without going too far?

experience, start with less I guess and work ur way up till u find limits

 

[mewcoper]

You get this feeling when you have no close friends that are like urself

if u had close friends like u, u wouldnt give a shit what u missed out on

literally

 

[shrek]

experience, start with less I guess and work ur way up till u find limits

So what’s an example of a good one I can start with?

 

[Deleted member 4797]

So what’s an example of a good one I can start with?

Tell a girl her shoes are ugly and she would look much better in blablabla ..

 

[shrek]

Tell a girl her shoes are ugly and she would look much better in blablabla ..

Have you tried this before? And did it work? Like if it worked for you I believe it but rn it seems like if I said that ppl would just hate me and tell me to fuck off

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Have you tried this before? And did it work? Like if it worked for you I believe it but rn it seems like if I said that ppl would just hate me and tell me to fuck off

Yes it works for me, but its very important how you say it as much as what is said. You must say it calmly and not like your unsure of what your saying or like you were dared to say it. Speak it honestly and nonchalantly. It might take some practise to get it right, so whenever you talk to girls be intentionally disrespectful to build up your pimp muscles.