how do I go about with my life after losing my oneitis?

[Deleted member 58755]

All these grueling years of being an incel, gymcelling, running, strict diet, studying, working etc… all in the hopes of finding love one day.
And it finally happened, I found her, the perfect girl. Life finally made sense, finally everything paid off. I had something, someone to fight for.
I thought I could let my guard down, be at peace. And then it happened, when I loved her the most, when things could kick into gear, then she left me…
I’m devastated, no motivation for anything, I had the only thing I ever wanted in life and lost it. How do you move on?

 

[watah]

What a pussy

 

[Deleted member 52226]

My oneitis is chad only, she gets fucked every week by chad while I rot and betabux for her when she needs money. Fucking over.

 

[Deleted member 77954]

All these grueling years of being an incel, gymcelling, running, strict diet, studying, working etc… all in the hopes of finding love one day.
And it finally happened, I found her, the perfect girl. Life finally made sense, finally everything paid off. I had something, someone to fight for.
I thought I could let my guard down, be at peace. And then it happened, when I loved her the most, when things could kick into gear, then she left me…
I’m devastated, no motivation for anything, I had the only thing I ever wanted in life and lost it. How do you move on?

At least you got with her in the first place mirin. You know you can find someone just as good so don't fuck things up now

 

[Deleted member 58755]

At least you got with her in the first place mirin. You know you can find someone just as good so don't fuck things up now

That’s the thing, I don’t want anyone else. I just don’t.

 

[Deleted member 77954]

That’s the thing, I don’t want anyone else. I just don’t.

You get over her trust me I've had 9 onetises and have one currently

 

[Deleted member 52226]

That’s the thing, I don’t want anyone else. I just don’t.

I get the feeling. Ascend, it's the only way.

 

[Deleted member 58755]

You get over her trust me I've had 9 onetises and have one currently

I had many oneitises throughout my life as well, the thing is, it never got this far with any of them.
That’s why this one hurts so much.

 

[Never Get Up]

Low T

Start eating raw meat and animal fat + go on semen retention

 

[Deleted member 58755]

Low T

Start eating raw meat and animal fat + go on semen retention

You have never been in love have you

 

[anthony111553]

Low T

Start eating raw meat and animal fat + go on semen retention

always get down

 

[Never Get Up]

You have never been in love have you

I’ve fucked 24 girls in the past 2 years

 

[Deleted member 31072]

What a pussy

Indeed. He should khs.

 

[Deleted member 96432]

I ate my oneitis asshole and vagina out everyday, we did sex. We were so close with each other. But i dont know man. I have a very weird feeling, cant tell what it is. Makes me suicidal. Broke up and got this feeling

 

[Deleted member 58755]

I get the feeling. Ascend, it's the only way.

I have no motivation to ascend, I already pulled the most gorgeous girl in the world as I am. Who should I ascend for? After her, every other girl is invisible to me.

 

[Deleted member 58755]

I’ve fucked 24 girls in the past 2 years

So you haven’t, I don’t expect you to understand

 

[Never Get Up]

So you haven’t, I don’t expect you to understand

Love doesn’t exist. Reproduction is what you’re confusing it with.

 

[Deleted member 58755]

I ate my oneitis asshole and vagina out everyday, we did sex. We were so close with each other. But i dont know man. I have a very weird feeling, cant tell what it is. Makes me suicidal. Broke up and got this feeling

Did you initiate the brake up or her?

 

[anthony111553]

Love doesn’t exist. Reproduction is what you’re confusing it with.

and how many kids do you have?

 

[Deleted member 89155]

You kys you fucking faggot

 

[Deleted member 80130]

Extremely low T
I'd say travel to Mexico and impregnate a woman then leave, you will forget all about her

 

[Never Get Up]

and how many kids do you have?

0. Never the those whores my semen

 

[PARISIEN]

Find another one

 

[Deleted member 58755]

Love doesn’t exist. Reproduction is what you’re confusing it with.

If that was the case, I would’ve lost feelings the moment I busted. It was the exact opposite, I fell even harder for her.

 

[anthony111553]

0. Never the those whores my semen

Love doesn’t exist. Reproduction is what you’re confusing it with.

 

[Never Get Up]

If that was the case, I would’ve lost feelings the moment I busted. It was the exact opposite, I fell even harder for her.

Low T

 

[Deleted member 96432]

Did you initiate the brake up or her?

No. I died the day we broke up, and I haven't been alive since. She was probably bot attractive in psl autism since she had blue prey eyes, weak jaw and chin only good zygos somewhat thatsbit

 

[Deleted member 58755]

No. I died the day we broke up, and I haven't been alive since. She was probably bot attractive in psl autism since she had blue prey eyes, weak jaw and chin only good zygos somewhat thatsbit

I understand that feeling bro, sorry for what you’re going through. Wish I could tell you it’s gonna get better but I don’t have proof. How long since she left you?

 

[Deleted member 96432]

I understand that feeling bro, sorry for what you’re going through. Wish I could tell you it’s gonna get better but I don’t have proof. How long since she left you?

Dont know a single shit. Havent done a single productive thing since that day other than staying lean thats it. Maybe over 2 month

 

[Deleted member 58755]

Dont know a single shit. Havent done a single productive thing since that day other than staying lean thats it. Maybe over 2 month

same… have you tried getting back together?

 

[Deleted member 96432]

same… have you tried getting back together?

I was the öne that took her virginity so i think she will come back

 

[Deleted member 95803]

been there bro

one way is to convince yourself she betrayed and insulted you, then you wouldn’t feel attached to her that much cause she wouldn’t be perfect anymore, and then your forget her and move on

 

[Deleted member 96432]

same… have you tried getting back together?

Dont want anything other than a nights sleep with her togrther

 

[Deleted member 58755]

Dont want anything other than a nights sleep with her togrther

I get that

 

[Deleted member 58755]

been there bro

one way is to convince yourself she betrayed and insulted you, then you wouldn’t feel attached to her that much cause she wouldn’t be perfect anymore, and then your forget her and move on

I can’t convince myself of something that never happened. I don’t have a single reason to hate her. We never argued, never said a bad word to each other. She didn’t cheat or anything. She simply said she can’t reciprocate the love I have for her. I can’t blame or get angry at her for that, we can’t control how we feel.

 

[Deleted member 58755]

Dont want anything other than a nights sleep with her togrther

Is there anything that helps you ease the pain? I tried hanging out with friends, drinking, trying to distract myself etc… but these only work for a couple of hours. At the end of the day when I go to sleep she still visits me in my dreams. Even if I wanted to I couldn’t let go of her.

 

[Deleted member 95803]

I can’t convince myself of something that never happened. I don’t have a single reason to hate her. We never argued, never said a bad word to each other. She didn’t cheat or anything. She simply said she can’t reciprocate the love I have for her. I can’t blame or get angry at her for that, we can’t control how we feel.

i guess you should look into exposing urself to more women

oneitis syndrome happens to lack of exposure to women

 

[Deleted member 96432]

Is there anything that helps you ease the pain? I tried hanging out with friends, drinking, trying to distract myself etc… but these only work for a couple of hours. At the end of the day when I go to sleep she still visits me in my dreams. Even if I wanted to I couldn’t let go of her.

Nothing. If i try to do anything it just reminds me of her and that doing these copes wont change shit and at the end of the day i cant sleep with her

 

[Deleted member 58755]

i guess you should look into exposing urself to more women

oneitis syndrome happens to lack of exposure to women

Is it really a syndrome that needs to be “cured”?
I believe in the “one”, in soulmates. I might just be old fashioned idk. This is just how my brain works. If you find yourself a girl you unconditionally love, why bother with other girls ever again? What would be the point? You already have someone you love, someone you can plan your life with, someone you can have a family and grow old with.

 

[Deleted member 95803]

Is it really a syndrome that needs to be “cured”?
I believe in the “one”, in soulmates. I might just be old fashioned idk. This is just how my brain works. If you find yourself a girl you unconditionally love, why bother with other girls ever again? What would be the point? You already have someone you love, someone you can plan your life with, someone you can have a family and grow old with.

my oneitis was following my archniggas on instagram

that was the tipping point

 

[Deleted member 58755]

Nothing. If i try to do anything it just reminds me of her and that doing these copes wont change shit and at the end of the day i cant sleep with her

Real shit, you have the same thoughts as me. I guess we’re just doomed to live with the memories till we die.

 

[Deleted member 58755]

Nothing. If i try to do anything it just reminds me of her and that doing these copes wont change shit and at the end of the day i cant sleep with her

Like I try to go to mcdonalds or some shit to at least have some enjoyment in my miserable life. But even there the desk I used to sit at with her haunts me. And seeing all those happy couples around me isn’t helping either
I can’t even drive around in peace because I’m reminded by her presence when I look at the front seat next to me but she’s not sitting there anymore