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I’m 23 and in university about to graduate soon and I have a decent amount of friends in college but outside of school I have none what are some ways to make friends, I live in a big city in America btw😭.
 
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I’m 23 and in university about to graduate soon and I have a decent amount of friends in college but outside of school I have none what are some ways to make friends, I live in a big city in America btw😭.
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I’m 23 and in university about to graduate soon and I have a decent amount of friends in college but outside of school I have none what are some ways to make friends, I live in a big city in America btw😭.
At work or social events that you can find.
 
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A lot of people go to social events in big groups. I’ll feel way to awkward going solo.
If you have a friend frok college or a family member (cousin, brother) you can go with them.

If that makes you more social.
 
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If you have a friend frok college or a family member (cousin, brother) you can go with them.

If that makes you more social.
I’ll look into it, this is a good tip. Def trying to expand my social circle.
 
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If you're already in a big city most of your friends aren't gonna move, you'll find friends at work and social events that you and your friends from college go to
 
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What do you mean friends. Just bump up your rep on .org and bingo now the entire forum is your friend
 
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If you're already in a big city most of your friends aren't gonna move, you'll find friends at work and social events that you and your friends from college go to
My 2 bestfriends from HS littlerly moved a year after they graduated and everyone from college is like a 2 hour drive away😭.
 
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I’ll look into it, this is a good tip. Def trying to expand my social circle.
Quality friends after college are hard af to make, you might be lucky and make some at work or taking a class. You can try meetup, I did, but most people there are genetic dead-ends and redditors. Unironically getting into a relationship and settling down are great for your social life, since most social life post college is about that, and most of your current social circle will be focused on that by their late 20s
 
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Quality friends after college are hard af to make, you might be lucky and make some at work or taking a class. You can try meetup, I did, but most people there are genetic dead-ends and redditors. Unironically getting into a relationship and settling down are great for your social life, since most social life post college is about that, and most of your current social circle will be focused on that by their late 20s
So basically I’m going to be lonely for life cause I can’t make friends and I can’t keep girls interested in me🤣.
 
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Friends do not exist after teen years tbh. Adult world is just everyone using eachother.
 
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Quality friends after college are hard af to make, you might be lucky and make some at work or taking a class. You can try meetup, I did, but most people there are genetic dead-ends and redditors. Unironically getting into a relationship and settling down are great for your social life, since most social life post college is about that, and most of your current social circle will be focused on that by their late 20s
Relationships suck tho when ur getting lied to and cheated on
 
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Relationships suck tho when ur getting lied to and cheated on
you gotta pick your poison, drug friends or any friends after you grow up are usually transactional, and it doesnt change the fact that ppls priorities change as they start being in relationships and having kids.It doesn't help that most quality women are taken young, so you're left with single moms looking for a betabuxx or super degenerates who want a different chad every night and no commitment
 
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you gotta pick your poison, drug friends or any friends after you grow up are usually transactional, and it doesnt change the fact that ppls priorities change as they start being in relationships and having kids.It doesn't help that most quality women are taken young, so you're left with single moms looking for a betabuxx or super degenerates who want a different chad every night and no commitment
Do you think theres still some left in college
 
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I’m 23 and in university about to graduate soon and I have a decent amount of friends in college but outside of school I have none what are some ways to make friends, I live in a big city in America btw😭.
You don't need friends. You need a girlfriend who you can fuck, hang out with and enjoy being around. "male friendships" are boring and lame. I have a shit ton of "friends" but i am close with none, and prefer to hang out with a girl
 
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Do you think theres still some left in college
Yes, most of my friends are already married with their college gfs. Unlike org schizo tales, theres plenty of girls in college looking for a man to get married, and aren't crazy

It also helps that by being in a relationship your finances will be better since you have two incomes, provided she isn't a retarded consoomer and didn't major in absolute garbage
 

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