How do i make human connection

[¿Nero]

A fe w days ago i was bouldering and i met two guys that were really cool we climbed together. I gave one of the two my number, we made plans to climb together again. We did. Both of the times we had fun, but I was noticeably quiet. We were all three at a similar skill level with the same vocabulary and knowledge of bouldering. I felt like it they were close to each other. One of them started to make jew jokes to the other bc he was jewish and you could see that they were joking. They were even light wrestling on a mat nearby and it looked fun. I would’ve picked one of them up and wrestled with them but i was nervous. Every time I talk like 1/4 and they talk 3/4 how do i talk more and get to know them more?

 

[romanstock]

I get the feeling they would love to wrestle with you.

 

[¿Nero]

I get the feeling they would love to wrestle with you.

thanks imma try to do that next time opportunity arises

 

[Gonthar]

One of them started to make jew jokes to the other bc he was jewish and you could see that they were joking.

This is where you should have interjected and say some jokes about Jews too...

 

[¿Nero]

This is where you should have interjected and say some jokes about Jews too...

I prolly shrouda done that in the moment but i corrected it later and messaged him on whatsapp.

 

[Spamorzz]

A fe w days ago i was bouldering and i met two guys that were really cool we climbed together. I gave one of the two my number, we made plans to climb together again. We did. Both of the times we had fun, but I was noticeably quiet. We were all three at a similar skill level with the same vocabulary and knowledge of bouldering. I felt like it they were close to each other. One of them started to make jew jokes to the other bc he was jewish and you could see that they were joking. They were even light wrestling on a mat nearby and it looked fun. I would’ve picked one of them up and wrestled with them but i was nervous. Every time I talk like 1/4 and they talk 3/4 how do i talk more and get to know them more?

You gotta be NT its over

 

[¿Nero]

You gotta be NT its over

„You gotta be nt bro“ „Just… Broootal“ „I’m so blackpilled hehe right guys“ SHUT THE FUCK UP. Seriously i’m not neurodivergent , just bc you’re blackpilled or on forums doesnt mean you are autistic and that it’s over for you (i might be bc i haven’t been checked but i don’t think I have disorders or nd )

 

[¿Nero]

Update: I went climbing again today with the new climbing coach and she was 175cm i climbed a route and she was surprised at a climbing move i did. I explained that i could probably only do it bc i’m shorter than her and she said that she and her bf who is 190cm have similar problems since they have longer legs or sth. I found her cute even though she wouldn’t be interested in me but 190 GOD DAMMM.

 

[TheAncientMacedonia]

hang out more often

 

[¿Nero]

hang out more often

 

[TheAncientMacedonia]

why am i even trying to help u
ugly incel
ur autistic

 

[¿Nero]

why am i even trying to help u
ugly incel
ur autistic

What did I do Bro? Why do you gotta be such a hater?

 

[Spamorzz]

„You gotta be nt bro“ „Just… Broootal“ „I’m so blackpilled hehe right guys“ SHUT THE FUCK UP. Seriously i’m not neurodivergent , just bc you’re blackpilled or on forums doesnt mean you are autistic and that it’s over for you (i might be bc i haven’t been checked but i don’t think I have disorders or nd )

1. Denial

 

[¿Nero]

1. Denial

That actually kinda made me giggle thank you

 

[lopaks41]

A fe w days ago i was bouldering and i met two guys that were really cool we climbed together. I gave one of the two my number, we made plans to climb together again. We did. Both of the times we had fun, but I was noticeably quiet. We were all three at a similar skill level with the same vocabulary and knowledge of bouldering. I felt like it they were close to each other. One of them started to make jew jokes to the other bc he was jewish and you could see that they were joking. They were even light wrestling on a mat nearby and it looked fun. I would’ve picked one of them up and wrestled with them but i was nervous. Every time I talk like 1/4 and they talk 3/4 how do i talk more and get to know them more?

they should have ask you to join and shit i think its more of a their problem