How do I make my confidence catch up with my looks?

[IWILLMAKEIT]

I ascended slightly from my -44 psl old face

But I still behave in the same way as before

I understand I'm not like 9 psl giga chico slayer jfl but my mindset is still that of my old face
How would I go about fixing this ?
Is it just more daily interaction with people?

 

[eduardkoopman]

I ascended slightly from my -44 psl old face

But I still behave in the same way as before

I understand I'm not like 9 psl giga chico slayer jfl but my mindset is still that of my old face
How would I go about fixing this ?
Is it just more daily interaction with people?

how long ago, you ascended in looks?
I looks better now for 1 year, orso. And I still am adapting.Muh personality doesn't match yet, muh looks level I think. But I'm getting there slowly.
I offers new problems, or luxery problems, I never had before.

On 1 hand, I get treated much better often.
And occassionally, I get treated much worse, which is 100% of the cases some jalous ugly ass dude.

I aim to stay appriciative, towards better treatments.

Your looksmaxxing is very succesfull by the way. Mirn your looks ascension.

 

[Deleted member 3130]

Put yourself out there but be mindful of saying anything questionable because any resultant alienation will set you back

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

how long ago, you ascended in looks?
I looks better now for 1 year, orso. And I still am adapting.Muh personality doesn't match yet, muh looks level I think. But I'm getting there slowly.
I offers new problems, or luxery problems, I never had before.

On 1 hand, I get treated much better often.
And occassionally, I get treated much worse, which is 100% of the cases some jalous ugly ass dude.

I aim to stay appriciative, towards better treatments

Looked like the left like last summer more or less

Nice bro

 

[$tackThatMoney]

Is it just more daily interaction with people?

Simple answer: yes.

You may find yourself in social situations where it feels strange to be treated well/better than before. Don't let this Impostor Syndrome drive you into self-sabotage.

Remind yourself that you deserve the success you worked hard for.

 

[Deleted member 5185]

OP, I had similar issues when I was younger (like 19 or something).

I had lost a bunch of weight and looked way better, but my self esteem couldn't catch up with it. It took some time, and its definitely largely a mental war. I think when we're young especially, we are automatically more insecure about ourselves in every aspect.

I developed some sort of social anxiety, where I would think that if someone laughed for instance at the grocery store, they were laughing at me etc. Made no sense.

What helped me was getting a job in retail, meeting people daily and forming relationships with different colleagues, having a more stable environment. Another thing to work at is open body language, i.e., looking people in the eye, smiling, practicing small talk etc. For some, this comes naturally once they try, for others it might be harder.

The reason this will work is because you will have more opportunities for girls to give you IOIs, you will experience that both men and women have respect for you since you don't look like shit anymore etc. You have to actually believe that you deserve respect, and if you just sit inside and let life pass you by, thats not going to happen.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Looked like the left like last summer more or less

Nice bro

Great acheivement within 1 year.

my improvement was/is way slower and less big than yours. But than, I'm also battleing aging, and older. so it needs more high effort.
When you wanna check. you can see muh looks change here. I am still improving slighty since last pics, this summer I should peak. I hope.

any oldcels here scared of being 30

I’m gonna be a wizard In 11 years

looksmax.org

 

[Deleted member 12611]

You have to succeed socially. Insecurity comes from failure and confidence from success.

Also you are now scuffed ramirez which is pretty cool.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Simple answer: yes.

You may find yourself in social situations where it feels strange to be treated well/better than before. Don't let this Impostor Syndrome drive you into self-sabotage.

Remind yourself that you deserve the success you worked hard for.

I mririn this attitude.
I need to let go, also, of how I feel I don't deserve it. because I didn't put in high effort, or I didn't Yestermaxx, or didn't work hard to earn what they want to share with me.
It's just hard to grasp, for me. That muh looks is good enough in some cases, while I feel like I was being a broing non-yestermaxxed dude so i can't comprehaned why someone likes me. Because I feel I was boring as hell.
I guess I'm still affected by the personlaty matters most believe.

I recall from muh past, how I had such slick game some times on a date. And than still got ghosted after. And now, my game sucks still, and I'm rusty as fuck.

 

[zeke714]

Take Phenibut or Xanax

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

Great acheivement within 1 year.

my improvement was/is way slower and less big than yours. But than, I'm also battleing aging, and older. so it needs more high effort.
When you wanna check. you can see muh looks change here. I am still improving slighty since last pics, this summer I should peak. I hope.

any oldcels here scared of being 30

I’m gonna be a wizard In 11 years

looksmax.org

Unironically you look very very good
Especially at your age

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

Take Phenibut or Xanax

Ill look into phenibut looks promising
I sell xanax (in minecraft) but that shit fucks up your test and Im still going through puberty

 

[Deleted member 7044]

mirin ascension
what did u do to achieve that?

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

I developed some sort of social anxiety, where I would think that if someone laughed for instance at the grocery store, they were laughing at me etc. Made no sense.

Fuck man I relate to this shit
Stopped me from going out ages 8-13
Thanks for the advice brah

 

[alexis]

Keep approaching even more women if you're still feeling insecure about your looks.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Unironically you look very very good
Especially at your age

I have come to notice also. that I actually look decently good now, in face.
I get decent attention from womens in 20's and 30's and upwards. So it's good.

Also, I'm 6'2. So I have good height.

This year though.
I will finally ascend to muh peak. I'm not there yet.

I NEED to:
* drop below 15% bodyfat.
* grow some muscle, to get rid of muh to soy body shape.
* grow a thicker heavy stubble;
* find my best hairstyle
* find my best style in clothing.

I'm getting close to that.

I really like it, when I look in the mirror, and can feel like. This doesn't look bad.

 

[eduardkoopman]

I developed some sort of social anxiety, where I would think that if someone laughed for instance at the grocery store, they were laughing at me etc. Made no sense.

What helped me was getting a job in retail, meeting people daily and forming relationships with different colleagues, having a more stable environment. Another thing to work at is open body language, i.e., looking people in the eye, smiling, practicing small talk etc. For some, this comes naturally once they try, for others it might be harder.

The reason this will work is because you will have more opportunities for girls to give you IOIs, you will experience that both men and women have respect for you since you don't look like shit anymore etc. You have to actually believe that you deserve respect, and if you just sit inside and let life pass you by, thats not going to happen.

Great advice and sharing.

I have to overcome. How I I in muh pua times. Must have faced 500+ rejection to my face. when i was mass approaching. With my 1% success rate, I fealt I had no other option but to run massive numbers game.
Those 500+ rejections, have left some form of impression. That I now feel not that comfortable to chat up women. BECAUSE, my brain assumes rejection is highly likely.

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

mirin ascension
what did u do to achieve that?

My vitamin stack is
Zinc 75mg
mk4-300mcg
Magnesium 250mg
Ashwagandha 1000-2000mg depending on how I feel during the day
Calcium 1200mg
vit d 3000 i.u or something like that
vita a 2,664i.u
1000mg of L argenine
biotin 150mcg
20 mg mk677

I've mewed so hard my palate cracked
Chewed gum a lot
Did my eyebrows
Bonesmashed
Facepulled with a towel

For my hair I just use conditioner specifically the herbal essence coconut one

After I took the ascended pic I also took some dht gel

AVOID FRUITS AND SUGAR COMPLETLEY
Eat a lot of meats and organ meats and animal fats

I think that's everything
Im also planning to build a facepuller using copeandropes method and retin a to loose some cheek fat

 

[Deleted member 11748]

My vitamin stack is
Zinc 75mg
mk4-300mcg
Magnesium 250mg
Ashwagandha 1000-2000mg depending on how I feel during the day
Calcium 1200mg
vit d 3000 i.u or something like that
vita a 2,664i.u
1000mg of L argenine
biotin 150mcg
20 mg mk677

I've mewed so hard my palate cracked
Chewed gum a lot
Did my eyebrows
Bonesmashed
Facepulled with a towel

For my hair I just use conditioner specifically the herbal essence coconut one

After I took the ascended pic I also took some dht gel

AVOID FRUITS AND SUGAR COMPLETLEY
Eat a lot of meats and organ meats and animal fats

I think that's everything
Im also planning to build a facepuller using copeandropes method and retin a to loose some cheek fat

tldr puberty

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

tldr puberty

Enhanced puberty

 

[Deleted member 5185]

Great advice and sharing.

I have to overcome. How I I in muh pua times. Must have faced 500+ rejection to my face. when i was mass approaching. With my 1% success rate, I fealt I had no other option but to run massive numbers game.
Those 500+ rejections, have left some form of impression. That I now feel not that comfortable to chat up women. BECAUSE, my brain assumes rejection is highly likely.

To be honest, chatting up women with the intention of asking them out is probably not the most effective way of doing it. I would definitely wait for some significant IOIs before bothering with it. Its very hard to assess whether a girl is actually in to you or not, even going off objective terms - some girls who you think are obviously below you lookswise might have ridiculous standards etc. I think the recipe is basically:

1. Looksmaxx/statusmaxx etc make yourself as attractive in all aspects
2. Live a social life going out drinking, have open and observant bodylanguage
3. Don't ask women out unless you are confident they SHOULD say yes based on your observations (Your looks vs her looks, IOIs etc)

If you ask out women that haven't given you IOIs, they might even be so afraid of rejecting you because their fear of confrontation that you end up wasting time going on pointless "dates" that go nowhere. Get IOIs, ask to hang out, fuck them.

Doing PUA stuff like you did is probably extremely bad for your ego even though almost any man would experience the exact same thing. The trick is to stack the odds in your favor as much as possible. Obviously learning how to deal with rejection is a good thing, but there is no point walking into rejections either.

 

[Deleted member 7044]

My vitamin stack is
Zinc 75mg
mk4-300mcg
Magnesium 250mg
Ashwagandha 1000-2000mg depending on how I feel during the day
Calcium 1200mg
vit d 3000 i.u or something like that
vita a 2,664i.u
1000mg of L argenine
biotin 150mcg
20 mg mk677

I've mewed so hard my palate cracked
Chewed gum a lot
Did my eyebrows
Bonesmashed
Facepulled with a towel

For my hair I just use conditioner specifically the herbal essence coconut one

After I took the ascended pic I also took some dht gel

AVOID FRUITS AND SUGAR COMPLETLEY
Eat a lot of meats and organ meats and animal fats

I think that's everything
Im also planning to build a facepuller using copeandropes method and retin a to loose some cheek fat

how old are you?

 

[Deleted member 13367]

My vitamin stack is
Zinc 75mg
mk4-300mcg
Magnesium 250mg
Ashwagandha 1000-2000mg depending on how I feel during the day
Calcium 1200mg
vit d 3000 i.u or something like that
vita a 2,664i.u
1000mg of L argenine
biotin 150mcg
20 mg mk677

I've mewed so hard my palate cracked
Chewed gum a lot
Did my eyebrows
Bonesmashed
Facepulled with a towel

For my hair I just use conditioner specifically the herbal essence coconut one

After I took the ascended pic I also took some dht gel

AVOID FRUITS AND SUGAR COMPLETLEY
Eat a lot of meats and organ meats and animal fats

I think that's everything
Im also planning to build a facepuller using copeandropes method and retin a to loose some cheek fat

How do you facepull with a towel?

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

how old are you?

Im 16 now
But I started that when I was around 15 because thats when I could use my bank card
I would started at fucking 14 but I didnt have one

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

How do you facepull with a towel?

Bite down on towel with back teeth pull forward and up
Try to kinda relax your neck when youre pulling
I also pulled my left canines outward to try and even out my lip asymmetry

 

[datboijj]

i've mewed so hard my palate cracked

The only legit method in that stack

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

The only legit method in that stack

Diet and vitamins helped immensely with my body/hormones etc
Bonesmashing works idk why more people who have nothing to lose dont use it
Remember I'm in puberty too

 

[datboijj]

Diet and vitamins helped immensely with my body/hormones etc
Bonesmashing works idk why more people who have nothing to lose dont use it
Remember I'm in puberty too

main reason i don't bone smash is because of unnatural growth

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

main reason i don't bone smash is because of unnatural growth

You mean like when it becomes asymmetrical ?

 

[datboijj]

You mean like when it becomes asymmetrical ?

yes and im already asymmetrical as it is

 

[Deleted member 7044]

Diet and vitamins helped immensely with my body/hormones etc
Bonesmashing works idk why more people who have nothing to lose dont use it
Remember I'm in puberty too

where and how exactly did u bonesmash?

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

where and how exactly did u bonesmash?

zygos undereyes
Slightly on the browridge
I used the edge of a dumbbell bar

 

[Cigarette]

just dont care abt the shit u do or say and do what youre supposed to do without hesitation

 

[ezio6]

I ascended slightly from my -44 psl old face

But I still behave in the same way as before

I understand I'm not like 9 psl giga chico slayer jfl but my mindset is still that of my old face
How would I go about fixing this ?
Is it just more daily interaction with people?

Drugs

 

[sergeant blackpill]

The most brutal blackpill is it can't be done. Past traumas from when you were ugly have left permanent scars and they will never go away.
I ascended through leanmaxxing, and although people treat me nicely now and like me, i just constantly feel like if i step out of line in the slightest, people will lash out at me, they never do but the feeling of that being likely to happen never goes away so i'm still as high inhib as when i was an ugly fatcel.

 

[Deleted member 10913]

I ascended slightly from my -44 psl old face

But I still behave in the same way as before

I understand I'm not like 9 psl giga chico slayer jfl but my mindset is still that of my old face
How would I go about fixing this ?
Is it just more daily interaction with people?

The same way your midface and fwhr ratio is. If it is 1.80 you should act like someone who has that ratio

 

[Deleted member 12484]

from subhuman to chadlite i mirin bruh

 

[Deleted member 13591]

kinda looks like ramirez after?

 

[Deleted member 13591]

congrats to OP,, look toptier now

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

kinda looks like ramirez after?

Everyone says that lmao
Even normies who know who he is have started saying that jfl
Serial killer halo tbh

 

[sergeant blackpill]

Bluepill fact: time heals
Hiroshima nagasaki blackpill fact: only the rope heals

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

Bluepill fact: time heals
Hiroshima nagasaki blackpill fact: only the rope heals

Guess I need to ascend enough to be able to act like I used to but still get approached

 

[pizza]

ascend more and more

 

[lilhorizontal32]

Unironically keep on putting yourself out there and don’t expect great results in the short term.

remember that people become NT over the course of several years, decades even, so no point thinking that you’ll reach that in a few weeks or a few months

with that being said you will make insane gains in a year or 2, as long as you keep on socialising, so don’t be discouraged

 

[koalendo]

mirin the eyebrows ascension, how did you fix them? and do you do it yourself?

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

mirin the eyebrows ascension, how did you fix them? and do you do it yourself?

I used an eyebrow razor thing
Yeah I did them myself it was pretty easy tbh

 

[koalendo]

I used an eyebrow razor thing
Yeah I did them myself it was pretty easy tbh

can you show me a picture of the razor or what it's called online? just so I know what to buy

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

can you show me a picture of the razor or what it's called online? just so I know what to buy

Np brocel

Its honestly the biggest instant psl improver

 

[koalendo]

Np brocel
View attachment 1097648
Its honestly the biggest instant psl improver

thanks, yeah it's a big improvement, what's your ethnicity btw?

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

thanks, yeah it's a big improvement, what's your ethnicity btw?

Iranian