How do I not get cucked in social settings

[blueeyeswhitedrgon]

I was out in a group with three girls, and on two occasions I was completely and utterly cucked.

The first was two tall guys came and absolutely dominated the atmosphere of the group. This wasn't so bad as the second one, in which one guy came and when he was there I was absolutely ignored by the other girls, even to the point where I was just standing there and the guy was like "is this guy with you two" and they just looked at me and I was like "yeah..." And I shortly left after that

 

[looksmaxxed]

be larger stronger and better looking than the other males in her immediate proximity

 

[blueeyeswhitedrgon]

be larger stronger and better looking than the other males in her immediate proximity

I was stronger but shorter and worse hair

 

[looksmaxxed]

you need size and looks

 

[Sanguinius]

be larger stronger and better looking than the other males in her immediate proximity

Here’s your answer

 

[Oxygen]

Genetic determinism. It's over unless youre an IFBB pro or full blown Chad (both still genetics lol)

 

[blueeyeswhitedrgon]

Genetic determinism. It's over unless youre an IFBB pro or full blown Chad (both still genetics lol)

After this experience I am too paranoid to even get a girlfriend for fear of going out with her and then a 6'3 guy comes up to her and introduces himself and strikes up a conversation with her while I just stand there

 

[Octavian_Augustus]

Height and looks level?

 

[Sprinkles]

Were they better looking than you?

 

[blueeyeswhitedrgon]

Height and looks level?

5'9 and just mid looking, I think I had potential but sleeping on one side of my face my whole life and mouth breathing raped my face structure

 

[blueeyeswhitedrgon]

Were they better looking than you?

Yes

 

[Octavian_Augustus]

5'9 and just mid looking, I think I had potential but sleeping on one side of my face my whole life and mouth breathing raped my face structure

Brutal. Should look into hardmaxxing then.

 

[blueeyeswhitedrgon]

Brutal. Should look into hardmaxxing then.

That's surgery yea?

 

[BoneDensity]

I was just standing there and the guy was like "is this guy with you two" and they just looked at me and I was like "yeah..." And I shortly left after that

There is no coming back from that. Cut your losses and try with other girls, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

 

[Deleted member 15539]

Nothing you can do other than surgery and wearing lifts, etc.

 

[Deleted member 15468]

dont let them disrespect you, little weasel

 

[Deleted member 25705]

After this experience I am too paranoid to even get a girlfriend for fear of going out with her and then a 6'3 guy comes up to her and introduces himself and strikes up a conversation with her while I just stand there

OK imagine your potential girlfriend writing this "I am too paranoid of going out with my boyfriend and then a petite blonde girl with all the perfect curves comes up to him and introduces herself and strikes up a conversation with him while I just stand there"

What's your reaction to that? Would you ignore your girlfriend like that?

 

[eduardkoopman]

After this experience I am too paranoid to even get a girlfriend for fear of going out with her and then a 6'3 guy comes up to her and introduces himself and strikes up a conversation with her while I just stand there

It's 2 fold. When it comes to being somewhere with a gf

1. You can't control, a woman. It's a disrespect if she does that.

2. Completely independent of point 1.
It's a disrespect from a dude, when he hits on a chick you are with next to you. He is basically saying he doesn't fear you, nor respects you.
For ones own ego, one can try to get respect back by confrontation with that dude. Where likely only fear does da trick.

/end

 

[autistic_tendencies]

You need to activate power Manlet aggression

 

[forevermirin]

this is why i never leave the house without scissors in my back pocket

 

[LastGerman]

this is why i never leave the house without scissors in my back pocket

Exactly. He should have inserted dominance over other men by beating them up brutally. The other option is to never get to a social situation at all. I also do not see a reason to get involved in social situations in the first place. Most of the time, they are very pointless and also very bland.

 

[Deleted member 27932]

After this experience I am too paranoid to even get a girlfriend for fear of going out with her and then a 6'3 guy comes up to her and introduces himself and strikes up a conversation with her while I just stand there

face is everything dw

 

[Posmo]

Listen mane .. cucks get cucked

 

[poopoohead]

I was out in a group with three girls, and on two occasions I was completely and utterly cucked.

The first was two tall guys came and absolutely dominated the atmosphere of the group. This wasn't so bad as the second one, in which one guy came and when he was there I was absolutely ignored by the other girls, even to the point where I was just standing there and the guy was like "is this guy with you two" and they just looked at me and I was like "yeah..." And I shortly left after that

How did the tall guys start dominating the group? Was it because the girls were interested in them or the guys were genuinely interesting charismatic people?

 

[Deleted member 19442]

You didn't try talking to the other guys? Did you just stand there like a mute? You need the right mindset to not be a pussy. You need to think, 'what's he going to do' (realistically he can't do shit, also what can YOU do to HIM? You're stronger than him so you could probably do more unironically and either way you should be defending yourself) then do it. If you think like a helpless victim and treat him like a bad event you have no control over then of course you'll get cucked like a victim.

I'm too mentally fucked to think properly in the moment, so I just cower like a little bitch and take passive/placatitive measures. Sometimes I manage to be evasive though. You took an evasive/passive approach because you were too scared to assert yourself. Subconsciously putting yourself at the mercy of another guy. Because you're insecure, have a victim mindset and are high inhib.

I'm a seething cuck who fetishises dominance and assertiveness so take what I say with a helpful of salt. You don't need to act hard or anything. Just relax, be yourself naturally and don't make yourself docile in the prersence of a bigger guy.

 

[zipzam]

I was out in a group with three girls, and on two occasions I was completely and utterly cucked.

The first was two tall guys came and absolutely dominated the atmosphere of the group. This wasn't so bad as the second one, in which one guy came and when he was there I was absolutely ignored by the other girls, even to the point where I was just standing there and the guy was like "is this guy with you two" and they just looked at me and I was like "yeah..." And I shortly left after that

Put them in a headlock in a joking way