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I(21M) find myself flipping back and forth between trying to be an ally to women and believing in TRP or BP stuff.
I often feel frustrated and bitter towards women a lot because of my failures in dating. I’ve never had a girl like me and I’m still a virgin at 21 both of these make me feel awful about myself. I wouldn’t say that I hate women on the level of other incels, but I’d be lying if I said I didn’t often feel resentment.
I find myself wondering why I can’t just be a chad and why women are so shallow when I know that’s not exactly rational. I have really shitty self esteem, and have been shown and in some cases have sought out incel beliefs. I’ve looked through incel forums since I was 14.
I feel like I constantly see confirmation of things about women I’ve read online through the girls around me. Specifically in my close female friends and female bullies.
I really don’t want to be an incel but I feel myself sliding on a slippery slope to that.
How do I not be one?
I often feel frustrated and bitter towards women a lot because of my failures in dating. I’ve never had a girl like me and I’m still a virgin at 21 both of these make me feel awful about myself. I wouldn’t say that I hate women on the level of other incels, but I’d be lying if I said I didn’t often feel resentment.
I find myself wondering why I can’t just be a chad and why women are so shallow when I know that’s not exactly rational. I have really shitty self esteem, and have been shown and in some cases have sought out incel beliefs. I’ve looked through incel forums since I was 14.
I feel like I constantly see confirmation of things about women I’ve read online through the girls around me. Specifically in my close female friends and female bullies.
I really don’t want to be an incel but I feel myself sliding on a slippery slope to that.
How do I not be one?
