How do i partymaxx/socialmaxx

[matteoo06]

So...

I turn 20 in a month, i have some good friends (4 or 5 max) and a gf. I improved my looks, my body and everything, but i'm still fucking ND (not joking, im not diagnosed but i'm pretty weird is social situations. It might be because growing up i was kinda bullied and i had terrible social anxiety due to my looks and short stature ( i was malnourished, but i managed to grow to 5'9 in the last years, 5'10 with shoes lmao)).

I go to the gym, i have some friends there as well, and i hang out in the weekends with friends/gf. But it doesn't feel like it's enough. I spend 90% of my days locked up in my room at my pc working ( i do yt videos) and when i finish working, i just doomscroll and watch yt videos.

My goal would be to start hanging out more, maybe start going to parties since where i live there's not much to do other than that. The problem is, i'm very high inhibition, and alcohol is def not the solution. I will try out some compounds like pregab tho. The other problem is that i don't really like the idea of a crowded place with high volume music. What do i even do there? Dance? How tf do ppl dance at the clubs? How am i supposed to move? I already know that if i go there i'd look like a retard.

Any tips? What do you guys do when you hang out? just so i can get some ideas...

 

[Vireon]

Never drink alcohol, you're looksminimizing, and parties suck, just talk to strangers, I'd recommend volunteering at something like giving food to the homeless, it makes you feel better and helps your social anxiety

 

[guyfromfinland1]

Lmao

 

[sebynx]

So...

I turn 20 in a month, i have some good friends (4 or 5 max) and a gf. I improved my looks, my body and everything, but i'm still fucking ND (not joking, im not diagnosed but i'm pretty weird is social situations. It might be because growing up i was kinda bullied and i had terrible social anxiety due to my looks and short stature ( i was malnourished, but i managed to grow to 5'9 in the last years, 5'10 with shoes lmao)).

I go to the gym, i have some friends there as well, and i hang out in the weekends with friends/gf. But it doesn't feel like it's enough. I spend 90% of my days locked up in my room at my pc working ( i do yt videos) and when i finish working, i just doomscroll and watch yt videos.

My goal would be to start hanging out more, maybe start going to parties since where i live there's not much to do other than that. The problem is, i'm very high inhibition, and alcohol is def not the solution. I will try out some compounds like pregab tho. The other problem is that i don't really like the idea of a crowded place with high volume music. What do i even do there? Dance? How tf do ppl dance at the clubs? How am i supposed to move? I already know that if i go there i'd look like a retard.

Any tips? What do you guys do when you hang out? just so i can get some ideas...

Took a selfie

 

[boxing-cel]

Why would you party?

I don’t party.

It’s a waste of time.

 

[jcwkrz]

if you have a friend just tell your friend to bring a mutual friend and slowly hangout with them more and more, and then repeat, you will eventually get alot more friends

 

[xenovia]

If you have to ask it’s already over

 

[Navity]

Why would you party?

To slay foids left and right.

 

[matteoo06]

if you have a friend just tell your friend to bring a mutual friend and slowly hangout with them more and more, and then repeat, you will eventually get alot more friends

thank you

 

[matteoo06]

Why would you party?

I don’t party.

It’s a waste of time.

i go to the gym, i work, what else am i supposed to do. The only thing missing to my life rn is the fun side

 

[boxing-cel]

To slay foids left and right.

He has a girlfriend

And he’s also 5’10

I don’t think he’s gonna slay man

 

[matteoo06]

Took a selfie

i'm NOT posting myself on this shit forum, i'd say im MTN tho, maybe even HMTN when i'm lean and debloated

 

[italianltn]

If you want to socialmaxx at a party, it depends on how NT you are. If you are completely sociable then just go, if not you'd need to rely on something to increase your sociability. Select alcohols are good for this, you can also take some pharmas if you want to steer clear from alcohol. However to increase your overall sociability I recommend you start doing more things that require you to be out the house. There's no hidden trick to becoming sociable, it's repeated social interactions over a period of time.

 

[matteoo06]

If you want to socialmaxx at a party, it depends on how NT you are. If you are completely sociable then just go, if not you'd need to rely on something to increase your sociability. Select alcohols are good for this, you can also take some pharmas if you want to steer clear from alcohol. However to increase your overall sociability I recommend you start doing more things that require you to be out the house. There's no hidden trick to becoming sociable, it's repeated social interactions over a period of time.

grazie del consiglio boss

 

[randiswipess/11]

So...

I turn 20 in a month, i have some good friends (4 or 5 max) and a gf. I improved my looks, my body and everything, but i'm still fucking ND (not joking, im not diagnosed but i'm pretty weird is social situations. It might be because growing up i was kinda bullied and i had terrible social anxiety due to my looks and short stature ( i was malnourished, but i managed to grow to 5'9 in the last years, 5'10 with shoes lmao)).

I go to the gym, i have some friends there as well, and i hang out in the weekends with friends/gf. But it doesn't feel like it's enough. I spend 90% of my days locked up in my room at my pc working ( i do yt videos) and when i finish working, i just doomscroll and watch yt videos.

My goal would be to start hanging out more, maybe start going to parties since where i live there's not much to do other than that. The problem is, i'm very high inhibition, and alcohol is def not the solution. I will try out some compounds like pregab tho. The other problem is that i don't really like the idea of a crowded place with high volume music. What do i even do there? Dance? How tf do ppl dance at the clubs? How am i supposed to move? I already know that if i go there i'd look like a retard.

Any tips? What do you guys do when you hang out? just so i can get some ideas...

i mean if i was you i would just watch the ppl and see what they do and then just copy

 

[matteoo06]

i mean if i was you i would just watch the ppl and see what they do and then just copy

yeah i guess that's the way

 

[dota2]

man 20 feels too old for a question like this.
but still try to contact a psychologist if you think it is severe.

 

[matteoo06]

man 20 feels too old for a question like this.
but still try to contact a psychologist if you think it is severe.

it's not severe, it's just that i've never been exposed to a highly social environment because of the way i grew up. Exposure therapy will be enough. But yeah 20 is too old for a question like this, i guess better late than never...

 

[dota2]

dont take responsibility for being not talkative. js hope for the better and try socializing through small chats w people, start doing smth about it and that is the best thing you could do rn

 

[foidslayer727]

take pregablin