How do I recover from my soulmate cheating on me with her ex

[lstar2005]

I've recently gotten out of an 11 month relationship with a girl I've genuinely been planning to marry.
She was my first and I was her first. We were planning to move in together and have children once I finish police academy. She was a beautiful girl, with traditional values, no male friends, Christian, well-paying job, always smiling, intelligent, commited to making me happy. My parents adored her. My friends liked her. Everything a man could want.
Then one day I find her messaging her ex from 3 years ago. He was from.another country. They knew each other for one day, and continued talking about a month before she got into a relationship with me. I was so disturbed when I saw those messages. They were (sex)texting like they were a couple. She admitted to sending nudes. Worse yet, he came here to see her while I was in the academy. She took 3 days off. He slept at her place.
Recently I've been going to clubs for easy slays and searching for ons on tinder, but nothing can satisfy the feeling I had with her. That shit was real. I don't even know how to describe that relationship to you. On our one year anniversary I would gift her an engagement ring. That's how sure I was she was the one. I just wanted to be loved as much as I loved, man.

 

[Sprinkles]

she’s never yours, it’s just your turn

 

[heartptv]

Your real soulmate would never do that she wasn’t for you

 

[Sujumh]

11 month relationship and " soulmate "

 

[Gilly998]

that isnt your solemate thats a cheating whore who you should be very thankful is gone sooner than later and that you found out what happened

"Christian" yet sexting and sending nudes and sleeping with a ex and also sleeping with you without waiting till marriage, that is not a practicing christian thats pure perversion and degeneracy, just a Lukewarm/Nominal Christian (someone who identifies as Christian in name only, but doesn’t actively practice the faith), you better not be considering yourself to be a practicing christian aswell "I've been going to clubs for easy slays and on tinder"

 

[BonesmashFinalBoss]

"soulmate"

 

[AforB]

You were her first but she also had an ex? Tales of Reddit?

 

[youraveragehtn]

I've recently gotten out of an 11 month relationship with a girl I've genuinely been planning to marry.
She was my first and I was her first. We were planning to move in together and have children once I finish police academy. She was a beautiful girl, with traditional values, no male friends, Christian, well-paying job, always smiling, intelligent, commited to making me happy. My parents adored her. My friends liked her. Everything a man could want.
Then one day I find her messaging her ex from 3 years ago. He was from.another country. They knew each other for one day, and continued talking about a month before she got into a relationship with me. I was so disturbed when I saw those messages. They were (sex)texting like they were a couple. She admitted to sending nudes. Worse yet, he came here to see her while I was in the academy. She took 3 days off. He slept at her place.
Recently I've been going to clubs for easy slays and searching for ons on tinder, but nothing can satisfy the feeling I had with her. That shit was real. I don't even know how to describe that relationship to you. On our one year anniversary I would gift her an engagement ring. That's how sure I was she was the one. I just wanted to be loved as much as I loved, man.

I feel you bro but you probably needed this shit. Never get too comfortable with a bitch. Only thing to do now is to ascend and show her what she lost.

 

[chillmap2736]

All roads lead to the BBC bro, BBC fatality proves itself again

 

[chillmap2736]

It probably wasn't the first time though, if she admitted that she cheated once she probably did it dozens of times

 

[lstar2005]

You were her first but she also had an ex? Tales of Reddit?

They knew each other for one day nga
And I had exes yet never slept with any of them

 

[sub22]

I've recently gotten out of an 11 month relationship with a girl I've genuinely been planning to marry.
She was my first and I was her first. We were planning to move in together and have children once I finish police academy. She was a beautiful girl, with traditional values, no male friends, Christian, well-paying job, always smiling, intelligent, commited to making me happy. My parents adored her. My friends liked her. Everything a man could want.
Then one day I find her messaging her ex from 3 years ago. He was from.another country. They knew each other for one day, and continued talking about a month before she got into a relationship with me. I was so disturbed when I saw those messages. They were (sex)texting like they were a couple. She admitted to sending nudes. Worse yet, he came here to see her while I was in the academy. She took 3 days off. He slept at her place.
Recently I've been going to clubs for easy slays and searching for ons on tinder, but nothing can satisfy the feeling I had with her. That shit was real. I don't even know how to describe that relationship to you. On our one year anniversary I would gift her an engagement ring. That's how sure I was she was the one. I just wanted to be loved as much as I loved, man.

lock in and show her what she threw away, then when she wants to come back- decline and your misery regarding her will be over

 

[AsymmetricalCel]

You were her first but she also had an ex? Tales of Reddit?

I think he meant sex

 

[permafreshie]

soulmate

 

[slaters]

I've recently gotten out of an 11 month relationship with a girl I've genuinely been planning to marry.
She was my first and I was her first. We were planning to move in together and have children once I finish police academy. She was a beautiful girl, with traditional values, no male friends, Christian, well-paying job, always smiling, intelligent, commited to making me happy. My parents adored her. My friends liked her. Everything a man could want.
Then one day I find her messaging her ex from 3 years ago. He was from.another country. They knew each other for one day, and continued talking about a month before she got into a relationship with me. I was so disturbed when I saw those messages. They were (sex)texting like they were a couple. She admitted to sending nudes. Worse yet, he came here to see her while I was in the academy. She took 3 days off. He slept at her place.
Recently I've been going to clubs for easy slays and searching for ons on tinder, but nothing can satisfy the feeling I had with her. That shit was real. I don't even know how to describe that relationship to you. On our one year anniversary I would gift her an engagement ring. That's how sure I was she was the one. I just wanted to be loved as much as I loved, man.

How old are you

 

[lstar2005]

19 ½

 

[CEO]

Bumping to help a nigga out, sorry bro.

 

[heartptv]

19 ½

You’re young you’ll have more chances in life to date other women I hope you find the right one I wish you luck

 

[Vultus Tui Res]

I've recently gotten out of an 11 month relationship with a girl I've genuinely been planning to marry.
She was my first and I was her first. We were planning to move in together and have children once I finish police academy. She was a beautiful girl, with traditional values, no male friends, Christian, well-paying job, always smiling, intelligent, commited to making me happy. My parents adored her. My friends liked her. Everything a man could want.
Then one day I find her messaging her ex from 3 years ago. He was from.another country. They knew each other for one day, and continued talking about a month before she got into a relationship with me. I was so disturbed when I saw those messages. They were (sex)texting like they were a couple. She admitted to sending nudes. Worse yet, he came here to see her while I was in the academy. She took 3 days off. He slept at her place.
Recently I've been going to clubs for easy slays and searching for ons on tinder, but nothing can satisfy the feeling I had with her. That shit was real. I don't even know how to describe that relationship to you. On our one year anniversary I would gift her an engagement ring. That's how sure I was she was the one. I just wanted to be loved as much as I loved, man.

You just have to give it time, she’s not a true christian if she cheated on you.

 

[Nahil]

homicide or suicide , it's the only way bro

 

[AforB]

They knew each other for one day nga
And I had exes yet never slept with any of them

You never slept with them because they wouldn’t allow it. You were there for their emotional support so they could have someone to complain about chad who isn’t responding.

 

[wollet2]

but imagine how good her pussy felt, if she was your soulmate you should get joy from that

 

[wollet2]

she was not your soulmate judging from your writings, you just needed a devout toy not a human being to love, filthy lier cuck

 

[vzaat]

just murder her simple fix

 

[Foreverbrad]

How could she be your soulmate if she had an ex. Dumbass.

 

[Orthognathic]

Not your soulmate bro

 

[.kaiser]

I've recently gotten out of an 11 month relationship with a girl I've genuinely been planning to marry.
She was my first and I was her first. We were planning to move in together and have children once I finish police academy. She was a beautiful girl, with traditional values, no male friends, Christian, well-paying job, always smiling, intelligent, commited to making me happy. My parents adored her. My friends liked her. Everything a man could want.
Then one day I find her messaging her ex from 3 years ago. He was from.another country. They knew each other for one day, and continued talking about a month before she got into a relationship with me. I was so disturbed when I saw those messages. They were (sex)texting like they were a couple. She admitted to sending nudes. Worse yet, he came here to see her while I was in the academy. She took 3 days off. He slept at her place.
Recently I've been going to clubs for easy slays and searching for ons on tinder, but nothing can satisfy the feeling I had with her. That shit was real. I don't even know how to describe that relationship to you. On our one year anniversary I would gift her an engagement ring. That's how sure I was she was the one. I just wanted to be loved as much as I loved, man.

first of all she was never your soulmate, and you need to heal first, remember it's not your fault that she cheated on you, foids will cheat even if u're a chad jfl, don't try to hook up with other women to fill the void she left bc you can't fill it with other women no matter how many u slay (as u already have realized), give it time and focus on yourself, if youre still religious focus on it as well, hope the best for u man

 

[baked]

I've recently gotten out of an 11 month relationship with a girl I've genuinely been planning to marry.
She was my first and I was her first. We were planning to move in together and have children once I finish police academy. She was a beautiful girl, with traditional values, no male friends, Christian, well-paying job, always smiling, intelligent, commited to making me happy. My parents adored her. My friends liked her. Everything a man could want.
Then one day I find her messaging her ex from 3 years ago. He was from.another country. They knew each other for one day, and continued talking about a month before she got into a relationship with me. I was so disturbed when I saw those messages. They were (sex)texting like they were a couple. She admitted to sending nudes. Worse yet, he came here to see her while I was in the academy. She took 3 days off. He slept at her place.
Recently I've been going to clubs for easy slays and searching for ons on tinder, but nothing can satisfy the feeling I had with her. That shit was real. I don't even know how to describe that relationship to you. On our one year anniversary I would gift her an engagement ring. That's how sure I was she was the one. I just wanted to be loved as much as I loved, man.

i didnt read but lets be honest, she was not all that bro. it will take time. the more you get away from it time wise the more it can be viewed objectively. time will let you see it for what it really was.

 

[Alex_notmogging]

Not your soulmate if she did something like that

 

[lstar2005]

You never slept with them because they wouldn’t allow it. You were there for their emotional support so they could have someone to complain about chad who isn’t responding.

No nigga i was 14-17 and didn't have my place