How do I solve this cognitive dissonance problem with blackpill vs redpill?

[thecel]

“Exceptions don’t proov the rool” is a drooler argument. Sub5 guys with hot girls are more common than Chads.

If you go outside, you’ll see more sub5–Stacylite pairs than Chads. When I go outside I almost never see Chads, and I do see 5'5" ethnic manlet banging 5'9" big booty Stacy.

Oofy-Doofy theory doesn’t adequately explain this phenomenon because this occurs in cold approaches and one-night stands too. Oofy-Doofy might explain why a young girl’s 1st relationship isn’t with a boy of the highest caliber she can get. It doesn’t explain why Britney at the nightclub chooses to go home with a PUA Indian manlet when she could’ve easily gotten a White tall Chad.

I think the exceptions occur more frequently in cold environments than in LTRs. It’s rarer to see sub5s and Stacies in relationships than to see sub5s banging Stacies from nightclubs, bars, and parties.

Everyone has seen 5'5" Latino cashier slay a moderate number of HTBs, Stacylites, and Stacies.

Ask any male who’s lived in a university dorm, and he’ll say he’s seen ugly manlets take home and bang women way out of their leagues. Can’t be due to wealth; they’re in uni.

Help me understand how these exceptions can be consistent with the blackpill. I really love the blackpill and want to continue believing it for the rest of my life, but I repeatedly find myself drawn towards the direction of redpill because of the sheer number of exceptions. This is why I believe in the blackpill dogmatically. I can’t find logical ways to deal with these exceptions without contradicting the blackpill, so I ignore them and tell myself the blackpill must be the truth. Cognitive dissonance.

 

[fukmylyf]

legit, Chads always date down.

 

[slayer69]

because the amount of chads out there is limited

while the amount of "hot girls" (depending on ur standards) is way way way higher

 

[thecel]

because the amount of chads out there is limited

while the amount of "hot girls" (depending on ur standards) is way way way higher

The limitation is pretty much irrelevant when it comes to one-night stands. Monogamy isn’t part of the equation.

 

[Gengar]

legit, Chads always date down.

If chad dates down then so does stacy.

 

[slayer69]

The limitation is pretty much irrelevant when it comes to one-night stands. Monogamy isn’t part of the equation.

chad takes 2 quality girls home not the whole groupie crew who have been railed 100 times

 

[Deleted member 23399]

Recency bias. 6 psl people are 1 out of 20 000, you’ve probably never even seen a true 6 psl guy irl ever before.

But girls fraud to stacylite with fake up and body easily and they have to date somebody hence why you see the latter far more often.

 

[traveler]

on paper theory vs reality pill

females get with the best available option to them not the best ideal options

if it's only ethnic males trying to fuck the white women and she is horny she will fuck the ethnic male

the idea that men online come up with that 10/10 will find each other is more of a movie fantasy than reality

 

[Deleted member 17872]

Don't take pills without doctor's prescription, OP.

 

[Gengar]

Recency bias. 6 psl people are 1 out of 20 000, you’ve probably never even seen a true 6 psl guy irl ever before.

But girls fraud to stacylite with fake up and body easily and they have to date somebody hence why you see the latter far more often.

Not to me, bhai. I have "Fake-up Remover" eyes so I rate women for their true lookslevel. This has led .org aspies to believe that "I can't rate."

 

[thecel]

chad takes 2 quality girls home not the whole groupie crew who have been railed 100 times

Yeah but the blackpill says it’s impossible for 5'5" Indians to take home the groupie crew of roasties railed 100 times.

 

[thecel]

But girls fraud to stacylite with fake up and body easily and they have to date somebody hence why you see the latter far more often.

What explains their choices? They obviously could’ve gotten Chadlites or HTNs at the very least.

inb4 “Oofy Doofy” “beta provider” “alpha fux & beta bux”

All of them can get more attractive boyfriends who’re just as nice and providing.

 

[thecel]

If chad dates down then so does stacy.

What is this crap. Wheat Waffles’s signature catchphrase is “women only date up”.

 

[Gengar]

What is this crap. Wheat Waffles’s signature catchphrase is “women only date up”.

Why one rule for chad and another for stacy?

 

[fukmylyf]

Recency bias. 6 psl people are 1 out of 20 000, you’ve probably never even seen a true 6 psl guy irl ever before.

But girls fraud to stacylite with fake up and body easily and they have to date somebody hence why you see the latter far more often.

meaningless numbers and made up concepts.

 

[Deleted member 23399]

What explains their choices? They obviously could’ve gotten Chadlites or HTNs at the very least.

Every good looking girl I known in my life dated a mogger guy (relative to other guys) and got their heart broken by cheating. So they learn their lesson and afterwards dates people she mogs for the power and ego dynamics

 

[Gengar]

Every good looking girl I known in my life dated a mogger guy (relative to other guys) and got their heart broken by cheating. So they learn their lesson and afterwards dates people she mogs for the power and ego dynamics

My HS oneitis was 5'7" and dated a 5'0" manlet. Blackpill is a joke.

 

[thecel]

Why one rule for chad and another for stacy?

Men and women’s psychologies are different.

Example: Women find money appealing, but men are totally indifferent about women’s wealth.

Women only date up. Men want to date all the women.

 

[slayer69]

Yeah but the blackpill says it’s impossible for 5'5" Indians to take home the groupie crew of roasties railed 100 times.

thats not what the blackpill says

 

[Gengar]

Men and women’s psychologies are different.

Example: Women find money appealing, but men are totally indifferent about women’s wealth.

That's cap. Chads have better personalities due to positive reinforcement in their lives. Stacies have better personalities due to positive reinforcement in their lives. Thus good-looking people, regardless of gender, are the same. If chad dates down, so does stacy--if stacy dates up, so does chad. They are a different species so your silly made-up rules don't even apply here. So what is it chief? Up or down? Note: your answer applies to both, so answer carefully.

 

[thecel]

thats not what the blackpill says

The blackpill says it can’t happen unless a tremendous amount of money is involved, e.g. Indian PUA man spends $50k on club VIP wine bottle aged older than Gandy’s grandpa. And the blackpill says this doesn‘t count because leading with your wallet isn’t real attraction.

Clearly the money thing happens in only a minority of the slaying-sub5 cases.

 

[slayer69]

The blackpill says it can’t happen unless a tremendous amount of money is involved, e.g. Indian PUA man spends $50k on club VIP wine bottle aged older than Gandy’s grandpa. And the blackpill says this doesn‘t count because leading with your wallet isn’t real attraction.

ur question comes with a preconceived notion

 

[thecel]

ur question comes with a preconceived notion

thats not what the blackpill says

What do you think the blackpill says about the (actually occurred IRL) scenario involving the 5'5" Indian nightgame pickup artist and the Blonde party girl Stacy?

 

[Deleted member 23399]

@thecel this sub is not worthy of your knowledge. What do you study or plan to study for degreecel

 

[slayer69]

What do you think the blackpill says about the (actually occurred IRL) scenario involving the 5'5" Indian nightgame pickup artist and the Blonde party girl Stacy?

the blackpill disregards all pua in the first place and says game is cope.

not that a guy cant pick up a woman.

stop confusing and mixing everything

 

[thecel]

@thecel this sub is not worthy of your knowledge.

Am I worthy of the forum’s knowledge?

I’m desperate to fix the cognitive dissonance. I’ve been caught between blackpill and redpill for too long.

What do you study or plan to study for degreecel

CS cus it’s the last (correct me if I’m coping) industry to get completely nuked by the bots. Everything will get fucked by AI, just a matter of time. I think CS will be one of the longest-lasting ones.

 

[thecel]

the blackpill disregards all pua in the first place and says game is cope.

not that a guy cant pick up a woman.

stop confusing and mixing everything

The guy not being able to pick up the woman is the logical conclusion that follows from “game is cope”. The blackpill says that since game is cope, the sub5 male can’t pick up the hot woman by using game.

 

[slayer69]

The guy not being able to pick up the woman is the logical conclusion that follows from “game is cope”. The blackpill says that since game is cope, the sub5 male can’t pick up the hot woman by using game.

no no no
u r using a major fallacy here, "if it is not left, it must be right". false.

blackpill says all forms of relationships can be attributed to attraction, via ur lookz, money, or status.
and ideally u need all 3 to have the best chances of having a woman attracted to u, especially lookz having the highest weightage

 

[thecel]

no no no
u r using a major fallacy here, "if it is not left, it must be right". false.

blackpill says all forms of relationships can be attributed to attraction, via ur lookz, money, or status.
and ideally u need all 3 to have the best chances of having a woman attracted to u, especially lookz having the highest weightage

What if a man has sub5 looks, low money, and regular status? How can he pick up Stacies in clubs/bars/parties? If he does it just once, “it’s an exception” is a sensible answer. But he manages to repeat his success ad infinitum. Once an exception has occurred a high number of times, the endless collection of exceptions forms a rule.

 

[slayer69]

What if a man has sub5 looks, low money, and regular status? How can he pick up Stacies in clubs/bars/parties? If he does it just once, “it’s an exception” is a sensible answer. But he manages to repeat his success ad infinitum. Once an exception has occurred a high number of times, the endless collection of exceptions forms a rule.

its relative to the other guys in the club

if he is better than the others in a given circle/environment, then yes, he will surely outperform and be successful.
that is the blackpill.

in an average school, u will have maybe 1 chadlite, not even a chad, yet all girls will want the chadlite, since he is the best available option for them.

 

[thecel]

if he is better than the others in a given circle/environment, then yes, he will surely outperform and be successful.
that is the blackpill.

Can you address the events that happen every night in the real world? Manlet Indians pulling Stacies in clubs and taking them home. The manlets are worse (looks-wise) than the other men at the club (tall Chads).

 

[slayer69]

Can you address the events that happen every night in the real world? Manlet Indians pulling Stacies in clubs and taking them home. The manlets are worse (looks-wise) than the other men at the club.

stacies mirin big dravidian cock what else

sure as hell not pua or redpill crap btw

 

[Deleted member 4362]

The bluepill is the truth

 

[thecel]

The bluepill is the truth

 

[AspiringMogger]

“Exceptions don’t proov the rool” is a drooler argument. Sub5 guys with hot girls are more common than Chads.

If you go outside, you’ll see more sub5–Stacylite pairs than Chads. When I go outside I almost never see Chads, and I do see 5'5" ethnic manlet banging 5'9" big booty Stacy.

Oofy-Doofy theory doesn’t adequately explain this phenomenon because this occurs in cold approaches and one-night stands too. Oofy-Doofy might explain why a young girl’s 1st relationship isn’t with a boy of the highest caliber she can get. It doesn’t explain why Britney at the nightclub chooses to go home with a PUA Indian manlet when she could’ve easily gotten a White tall Chad.

I think the exceptions occur more frequently in cold environments than in LTRs. It’s rarer to see sub5s and Stacies in relationships than to see sub5s banging Stacies from nightclubs, bars, and parties.



Help me understand how these exceptions can be consistent with the blackpill. I really love the blackpill and want to continue believing it for the rest of my life, but I repeatedly find myself drawn towards the direction of redpill because of the sheer number of exceptions. This is why I believe in the blackpill dogmatically. I can’t find logical ways to deal with these exceptions without contradicting the blackpill, so I ignore them and tell myself the blackpill must be the truth. Cognitive dissonance.

Men see beauty in ugliness. It’s that simple. I highly doubt Indian Janitors are slaying Meghan Roche looking hoes. It’s probably a MTB with slight body halo.

 

[Zer0/∞]

My HS oneitis was 5'7" and dated a 5'0" manlet. Blackpill is a joke.

She got DWARFED

 

[thecel]

Men see beauty in ugliness. It’s that simple. I highly doubt Indian Janitors are slaying Meghan Roche looking hoes. It’s probably a MTB with slight body halo.

ok but the blackpill says these guys can’t get these girls!

 

[Foreverbrad]

So much focus on height in here. Chadlite+ manlets can and do slay.
You just like to obsess height because you’re autistic and it’s quantifiable. And you like to shit on ethnics because you’re racist.

 

[sibience]

This is one of the greatest threads of all time.

 

[looksmaxxed]

it's easy to reconcile this, foid brains are mush and normies are very suggestible. however biology still drives the overall trend.

 

[Meteor21]

What explains their choices? They obviously could’ve gotten Chadlites or HTNs at the very least.

inb4 “Oofy Doofy” “beta provider” “alpha fux & beta bux”

All of them can get more attractive boyfriends who’re just as nice and providing.

You'll find a lot of cognitive dissonance on this site. They have no real argument, they'll just try to shame you