How do I stay interested in a girl?

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Something is wrong with my brain

A girl will blatantly flirt with me or I will be on a dating/chat app and whenever the girl shows too much interest I get bored and move on to the next endeavour

This is literally ruining my life because I keep running away from any girl who shows affection.

I will be interested for a day and then the next day, a switch gets flipped and I get annoyed by them.

What is wrong with my brain JFL
 
I used to have this problem, I still do tho, what I've realized is that is a coping mechanism to avoid getting your lil feelings hurt, probably you've been fucked in the past
 
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Brag thread
 
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Abused dog syndrome

I share the same feeling
 
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Abused dog syndrome

I share the same feeling
I used to have this problem, I still do tho, what I've realized is that is a coping mechanism to avoid getting your lil feelings hurt, probably you've been fucked in the past
Brutal. I think it’s caused by having no dad and my mom being very cold and abusive to me as a kid. Never began for familycels
 
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Brutal. I think it’s caused by having no dad and my mom being very cold and abusive to me as a kid. Never began for familycels
man i know for sure that this shit does mess up with your life, I can't even get involved with girls that I do like and who have/had an interest in me as well. NT pill is true as heck.
Fucking over if you're not NTmaxxing.
 
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Would you say the same if they were 7+ /10, or have you lowered your standards a bit to get matches, then once you realize you can, you actually want better options?
 
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man i know for sure that this shit does fuck you hard in the ass, I can't even get involved with girls that I do like and who have/had an interest in me as well. NT pill is true as heck.
Fucking over if you're not NTmaxxing.
I read that love styles are influenced by parents, so if your parents are warm and loving, you will be warm and loving to others, but if you grow up like me in a cold environment with only yelling and chores, then you have no clue how to show affection to anyone.

Brutal how your whole life can be determined by birth of what family and situation you were put into, bad childhood causes a non NT brain 99% of the time.

Would you say the same if they were 7+ /10, or have you lowered your standards a bit to get matches, then once you realize you can, you actually want better options?
Yea this is definitely an issue with me, I have trouble lowering my standards.
 
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I heard electric chairs are a good way to treat homosexuality
 
Inject kisspeptine and oxytocin
 

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