How do I stop being attracted to every woman I meet?

[Sprinkles]

I recently watched the video "Is It Valid To Hate Men?" by a YouTuber called Snitchery. Feel free to watch it for context.

In the video, she makes several points about men and I felt horrible as she seemed to nail every point. I now feel quite disgusted with myself and want to figure out how to fix my behavior. I will go point by point:

1. Men have imagined themselves in bed with just about all of their female friends. It's true. I'd be lying if I said I haven't imagined it with basically all of my female friends when horny. I always thought those sorts of thoughts were natural and came to both genders, but I guess it's a male only thing?
2. Men would get with their female friends if they could. I always tell myself this isn't true, but when I think about it further I think it is. If one of my close female friends came on to me and wanted to sleep with me, to be completely honest... I'd probably do it. I don't think I'd have the self control not to, especially as a guy who has very little luck in the dating world.

These are the big ones, but several points made in the video also described me and I felt ashamed how on-the-head it was. Am I just another disgusting man? Am I part of the problem? I don't know how else to deal with being horny when I'm a relatively unattractive dude who hasn't had a girlfriend in years. How do I not find "everything with tatas," as it was described in the video, attractive? I feel like I've had moments of attraction with basically every woman I've met and I don't want to be this way but I don't know how to stop.

Any advice or Dr K videos around this sort of topic is greatly appreciated.

 

[Suimaxxer]

Stop meeting women

 

[Deleted member 19174]

Never leave your room

 

[thereallegend]

it's natural

 

[Deleted member 21048]

 

[ihatereddit]

male sexuality is... le bad

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Move to Canada
You’d only see pajeetas outside

 

[Copeful]

male sexuality is... le bad

it is for incels
ugly incel men should castrate themselves to avoid unnecessary suffering
only NT normies+ should have sex