HOW DO I STOP BEING SHY. PLEASE HELP.

[deadroses]

So my next semester starts soon and I’m tired of being quiet, I want to make some friends and get my reputation up.

Any tips on how I can present myself better, start conversations, and seem more approachable and confident?

 

[ikramy]

Just stop giving a fuck you’re giving people more respect than they deserve

 

[Bölþorn.Anabolic]

Inject Testosterone

 

[Node]

Stfu

 

[deadroses]

Stfu

You’re very negative, but I still love you stranger. Have a good day

 

[Node]

You’re very negative, but I still love you stranger. Have a good day

Suck a cock faggot

 

[deadroses]

Just stop giving a fuck you’re giving people more respect than they deserve

So just have an uncaring mindset?

 

[ikramy]

So just have an uncaring mindset?

Yah

 

[Sacrimoon]

Just stop giving a fuck you’re giving people more respect than they deserve

It’s really not that easy

 

[ikramy]

It’s really not that easy

I know

 

[deadroses]

It’s really not that easy

Have any tips, it’s not so much fear of what people think. It’s more so a fear of starting conversations and not saying the wrong things.

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

Stop thinking and stop resisting. The waves will carry you to shore if you rest on the surface, but they will kill you if you struggle against them. The wise man learns without studying, he finds without searching, and he hears without listening.

 

[deadroses]

Stop thinking and stop resisting. The waves will carry you to shore if you rest on the surface, but they will kill you if you struggle against them. The wise man learns without studying, he finds without searching, and he hears without listening.

Inspiring tbh

 

[Sacrimoon]

Have any tips, it’s not so much fear of what people think. It’s more so a fear of starting conversations and not saying the wrong things.

Sorry but i really don’t man. Only part of my life where i wasn’t socially anxious, was when i was horribly depressed, because i simply didn’t give a fuck about anything or anyone.

But there are meds to calm this down, that’s the only thing i could think of.

 

[Sacrimoon]

Stop thinking and stop resisting. The waves will carry you to shore if you rest on the surface, but they will kill you if you struggle against them. The wise man learns without studying, he finds without searching, and he hears without listening.

“Just stop thinking bro” Brutal

 

[turkcelfatcel]

So my next semester starts soon and I’m tired of being quiet, I want to make some friends and get my reputation up.

Any tips on how I can present myself better, start conversations, and seem more approachable and confident?

You cant just be unshy
Its highly genetic

 

[atra_]

So my next semester starts soon and I’m tired of being quiet, I want to make some friends and get my reputation up.

Any tips on how I can present myself better, start conversations, and seem more approachable and confident?

just be confident

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

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Inspiring tbh

Sorry but i really don’t man. Only part of my life where i wasn’t socially anxious, was when i was horribly depressed, because i simply didn’t give a fuck about anything or anyone.

But there are meds to calm this down, that’s the only thing i could think of.

“Just stop thinking bro” Brutal

Nobody is anxious about walking, or thinks about how to walk, you just start walking because it is natural. You dont focus on walking and moving each leg forward, instead, it is effortless and organic, and your body naturally uses as little effort as it can for each leg movement. Socialization is similar. When you first start, you will make mistakes, but if you do it enough, and stop resisting, and let the social customs become a part of your behavior, you will act like a total normie and say “hey whats up man never seen you here before whats your name?” This is the true taoist wisdom that the gyno-zog machine doesnt want you to know

 

[chickencalves]

Stop thinking and stop resisting. The waves will carry you to shore if you rest on the surface, but they will kill you if you struggle against them. The wise man learns without studying, he finds without searching, and he hears without listening.

Sadly all that Confucius bullshit is done for once the dork gets asked "okay who asked tho"