proxxyy11
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I had a friend since elementary school and we've been best friends ever since. we've never been to the same school but we were always close.
Recently for like the past year, he's been growing more and more distant. and I just constantly text him and get left on delivered for like 3 days before he responds like a one sentence reply.
He's gotten new friends, and he was always a nerd and a fucking bum with academics. He was always kind of autistic and wasn't social at all, except he was with me and he was my best friend.
I'm going to a good college now and I have an actual life, but for some reason even though I know he's trying to grow more distant, I can't stop texting him. Because he's really my only friend at the moment. I have lots of other friends, but not ones that I texted or were close to electronic-wise.
It's kind of embarrassing and it's like I'm his bitch, but I don't know why he's trying to grow distant - kinda makes me sad but I respect it and I want to completely ignore him.
I was thinking about blocking him, but if he ever found out he'd probably just think i'm a low T pussy cuck (also I don't want to completely ghost him and make it look like it's out of spite for like a year), but if he texts me I usually text/reply very fast and I can't help it.
I'm not sure what to do, should I just block him and move on? What do you guys think?
My last straw: He lied to me about being at work when he wasn't when I texted him and he never replied, and then he said he was doing something when I know he's a bum and doesn't do shit all day.
Any advice? I think I really want to text him because I hate losing friendships, especially one I've committed to for so fucking long. It's really sad, and maybe because I have a tendency to text him about everything because of how close we used to be.
Recently for like the past year, he's been growing more and more distant. and I just constantly text him and get left on delivered for like 3 days before he responds like a one sentence reply.
He's gotten new friends, and he was always a nerd and a fucking bum with academics. He was always kind of autistic and wasn't social at all, except he was with me and he was my best friend.
I'm going to a good college now and I have an actual life, but for some reason even though I know he's trying to grow more distant, I can't stop texting him. Because he's really my only friend at the moment. I have lots of other friends, but not ones that I texted or were close to electronic-wise.
It's kind of embarrassing and it's like I'm his bitch, but I don't know why he's trying to grow distant - kinda makes me sad but I respect it and I want to completely ignore him.
I was thinking about blocking him, but if he ever found out he'd probably just think i'm a low T pussy cuck (also I don't want to completely ghost him and make it look like it's out of spite for like a year), but if he texts me I usually text/reply very fast and I can't help it.
I'm not sure what to do, should I just block him and move on? What do you guys think?
My last straw: He lied to me about being at work when he wasn't when I texted him and he never replied, and then he said he was doing something when I know he's a bum and doesn't do shit all day.
Any advice? I think I really want to text him because I hate losing friendships, especially one I've committed to for so fucking long. It's really sad, and maybe because I have a tendency to text him about everything because of how close we used to be.
