How Do I Talk Sense into My Bluepilled Homie?

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So I was having the classic ‘looks vs personality/status” debate with my homie. We were mostly debating in terms of dating, and which matters most.

He believed that status and personality mattered more than looks. His main arguments surrounded these ideas:
1. You see chopped dudes with hot girls
2. Personality will keep you with a girl for longer no matter how you look
3. If you’re good to a girl, she will tell her friends and her circles, inclining more girls to wanna be with you, no matter how you look.

Clearly these are all bullshit little outlier anecdotes that don’t apply to the norm.

What other arguments can I make or how can I convert him. He is so bluepilled and genuinely thinks personality is more important than looks.

I literally said personality matters a shit ton, however looks are more important and told him all about first impressions, opening doors, and attraction. He wasn’t having any of it.

What do yall think?
 
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"hot girls don't really love their ugly boyfriends... its super brutal brah":soy::feelswah::ogre:
 
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Only way is to show him, he won't ever believe just words he has to see it
 
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Let him live in fantasyland
 
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why do you need to argue your autist points with someone whos content and normal :lul:
 
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Only way is to show him, he won't ever believe just words he has to see it
How exactly do I “show him”. I pulled up the classic ‘personality perception based on looks’ graph but he didn’t acknowledge it at all.
 
He’d want an explanation
"think about it, it makes more sense for a girl to just use their ugly partner for money or status, why would you love an ugly guy?"
"men don't have inherent value, women do"
"look at all of these blackpoll stats, brah":feelsgood::feelsgood::ogre:
 
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Let him live in fantasyland
It’s not really like he’s victim to it though lol. He’s average if not slightly above average looking.

Normies are just fucking oblivious
 
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"think about it, it makes more sense for a girl to just use their ugly partner for money or status, why would you love an ugly guy?"
"men don't have inherent value, women do"
"look at all of these blackpoll stats, brah":feelsgood::feelsgood::ogre:
I need to show him that BOTB thread ‘personality pill debunked’ lol
 
I need to show him that BOTB thread ‘personality pill debunked’ lol
JFL, frame your argument like a discussion between two people who use statistics, make it a "he said he said" type of argument, its easier to argue simple points using that framework :feelsgood::ogre:
 
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Let him be
 
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What if he brings it up again, I must defend my point.
Of course, just bring up lookism

And say looking good and having a good personality are not mutually exclusive
 
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