How do I tell her "look we need some space" without hurting her feelings or making her feel insecure. I dont wanna say stuff like that but sometimes I

[Reciprocated]

How do I tell her "look we need some space" without hurting her feelings or making her feel insecure. I dont wanna say stuff like that but sometimes I come home and I just feel really tired. These classes are hard and the lectures are boring. When I'm stressed all I want to do is sleep.

I entire my apartment and the first thing she does is help me bring my back to my room and lead me there. Then she insists that we order lunch from this food delivery service. Whatever, its normal.

While waiting, she wants to cuddle and willingly oblige. The food comes, we eat, have talks, whatever. We clean the dishes, throw out the trash and replace the bin lining and close all the windows because as it slowly gets dark moths might fly into the light of the pantry area.

By this time she insists we just spend more time talking and cuddling, like why? I don't think I have the heart to say no. If the roles were reversed and she straight up tells me, I'd feel REALLY insecure.

"This was how she felt all this time?"
"Am I the annoying one?"
"Is it falling apart"

These thoughts will enter my mind and I'm sure it'll enter hers. I really do like her so can someone please tell me what and what not to do?

Thanks.

@cromagnon @ey88 @Kroker @Iooksmax

 

[ey88]

Idk I’ve never talked to a girl before

 

[Deleted member 114545]

Fuck that hoe

 

[Reciprocated]

Idk I’ve never talked to a girl before

@Iooksmax Why'd he say that? ^

Fuck that hoe

@ey88 Why'd he say that? ^

 

[Deleted member 114545]

Why'd he say that? ^

He was just being real with you...

 

[Zanecels.]

Maybe you could say something like, “Hey, I’ve been really stressed lately, and sometimes when I get home I just need a little time to myself to chill. I really like spending time with you, but I get a bit overwhelmed if I don’t have that space to relax first.” That way, she gets why you need it, but it doesn’t feel like you're rejecting her. thanks to me later nigger

 

[shredded4summer]

How do I tell her "look we need some space" without hurting her feelings or making her feel insecure. I dont wanna say stuff like that but sometimes I come home and I just feel really tired. These classes are hard and the lectures are boring. When I'm stressed all I want to do is sleep.

I entire my apartment and the first thing she does is help me bring my back to my room and lead me there. Then she insists that we order lunch from this food delivery service. Whatever, its normal.

While waiting, she wants to cuddle and willingly oblige. The food comes, we eat, have talks, whatever. We clean the dishes, throw out the trash and replace the bin lining and close all the windows because as it slowly gets dark moths might fly into the light of the pantry area.

By this time she insists we just spend more time talking and cuddling, like why? I don't think I have the heart to say no. If the roles were reversed and she straight up tells me, I'd feel REALLY insecure.

"This was how she felt all this time?"
"Am I the annoying one?"
"Is it falling apart"

These thoughts will enter my mind and I'm sure it'll enter hers. I really do like her so can someone please tell me what and what not to do?

Thanks.

@cromagnon @ey88 @Kroker @Iooksmax

the age old tale

when you look back on this you will undestand what you are missing out on this is exactly what i would want from a relationship..

i do my own work, go outside, spend time with friend; when i come back home ready to sleep thats when i would want to relax with a girl

i relate to this hard asf tho every time i have this with a girl i get bored cause i only want stacy