How do I ward off haters

[Deleted member 15164]

How do I ward off haters aka people trying to tease me while I'm saving up for surgeries. They don't mind their business and they are irritating.

 

[Koroshiya]

users of this forum?

 

[Deleted member 15164]

users of this forum?

No irl

 

[Tonymontana]

How do I ward off haters aka people trying to tease me while I'm saving up for surgeries. They don't mind their business and they are irritating.

Stop telling people about your personal plans, and ambitions.

It's in our nature to do so because when we're fixated on a goal, it's the only thing on our mind, and we want to express it. But nobody gives a fuck about your success, and many see the successes of others as a threat to their lack of progression in life.

Plus you've gotta realize that outside of this community, cosmetic surgeries seem bizarre as fuck to normal people. People don't obsess over their looks that much, and by you talking about it openly, you're just alienating yourself from them

 

[Deleted member 18694]

How do I ward off haters aka people trying to tease me while I'm saving up for surgeries. They don't mind their business and they are irritating.

stop telling people you're getting surgery?

 

[Deleted member 15164]

stop telling people you're getting surgery?

I don't but they still find time to harass me or something. Especially my dad it's like he is trying to out alpha me at his old age. I hope he does soon tbh. I don't like with him anymore though

 

[Deleted member 15164]

They want to try and peg me as a loser cause I have trouble with women.

 

[Seth Walsh]

wards off me

 

[Deleted member 15164]

I just got to accept that I am going to receive hell for this shit.

 

[Deleted member 15164]

Why do we have to receive the shit in life but when try to improve we get shitted on even more