How do incels(21+ year old virgins) deal with the boardom?

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I work as an Engineer. I work at home almost every day now. I live in an apartment. I lost my virginity at the age of 25, after I graduated from my masters degree. Before that I was an incel.

One of the only pleasures I really get besides eating, are from my girlfriend. We hangout on most Thursdays/Fridays/Saturdays and Sundays. I was lucky because I was able to do well on online dating and now i'm dating a college girl. W/o online dating, I may still be a virgin.

I couldn't even imagine doing nothing besides working from home and having no girlfriend and having few , if any friends. No offense to my incel friends, but it would feel like I live for nothing. The only thing that I would enjoy is working out and food.

How do you guys deal with that shit? At least when you are really young (say before 21) its easy as fuck to make friends with other guys and hangout or even sleep over. After that, many men go their own way.
 
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get into graffiti
 
I cum
 
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I am 21 and a neet i guess jerk of and lookmax and youtube
 
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Just hire a prostitute
 
I am 21 and a neet i guess jerk of and lookmax and youtube
Exactly. We just do random dopamine inducing activities tbh. Games, hanging out, watching shit.
 
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Exactly. We just do random dopamine inducing activities tbh. Games, hanging out, watching shit.
True, but after 21, it gets tough to hangout with other guys. Many guys get girlfriends of their own or get married and focus on their own family. They stop caring.
 
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Most just play videogames.
 
Adult life is a scam. You just work your whole life and maybe get some pussy if you are lucky. Then you have kids who will probably just end up doing the same shit.
 
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Adult life is a scam. You just work your whole life and maybe get some pussy if you are lucky. Then you have kids who will probably just end up doing the same shit.
Yeah, but at least most people get to have sex for fun and get those "gay feelings" around their boyfriend/girlfriend.

Incels just work, come home and don't do shit. Pretty much eating is their only real pleasure.
 
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Op is a Chadpreet
 
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I work as an Engineer. I work at home almost every day now. I live in an apartment. I lost my virginity at the age of 25, after I graduated from my masters degree. Before that I was an incel.

One of the only pleasures I really get besides eating, are from my girlfriend. We hangout on most Thursdays/Fridays/Saturdays and Sundays. I was lucky because I was able to do well on online dating and now i'm dating a college girl. W/o online dating, I may still be a virgin.

I couldn't even imagine doing nothing besides working from home and having no girlfriend and having few , if any friends. No offense to my incel friends, but it would feel like I live for nothing. The only thing that I would enjoy is working out and food.

How do you guys deal with that shit? At least when you are really young (say before 21) its easy as fuck to make friends with other guys and hangout or even sleep over. After that, many men go their own way.
If you only get satisfaction from that your life is pathetic
no offense
 
Looksmax, YouTube, gym once a day, and cooming. Nothing else to do really unless you're cucked and have kids for selfish reasons.
 
If you only get satisfaction from that your life is pathetic
no offense
Once you get a job, almost every day is the same, at least for me. Wake up, get on my computer work, get a lunch break, work again until 5:00. Take a walk, go to the gym etc.

Its one of the few things that I take satisfaction in.
 
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You're telling me bro. I broke my arm in July and legit can't do anything on top of being incel. Makes things worse and more boring than ever.

I seem to get the most enjoyment out of my schizoid behaviors. Living out fake interactions between people I know or used to know. Pretending one day I'll have a family, a wife, or be a popular person. Playing guitar and Japanese video games keeps me entertained too. 4 years of living on my own without even a shred of positive female attention (on top of the 22 years before) makes the empty house feel huge. Basically, living in my own fantasy world keeps me going.

Also, besides JBE, how did you get a gf? I have an engineering degree and all the money in the world but I can't find even one woman to give me a chance.
 
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You're telling me bro. I broke my arm in July and legit can't do anything on top of being incel. Makes things worse and more boring than ever.

I seem to get the most enjoyment out of my schizoid behaviors. Living out fake interactions between people I know or used to know. Pretending one day I'll have a family, a wife, or be a popular person. Playing guitar and Japanese video games keeps me entertained too. 4 years of living on my own without even a shred of positive female attention (on top of the 22 years before) makes the empty house feel huge. Basically, living in my own fantasy world keeps me going.

Also, besides JBE, how did you get a gf? I have an engineering degree and all the money in the world but I can't find even one woman to give me a chance.
I spent hours taking good pictures and used a bit of photoshop on top of that. Then I used a fake picture or 2. When foids saw me in real life , they never seemed to care.

Do you work from the office or from home? Do you have any friends?
 
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You're telling me bro. I broke my arm in July and legit can't do anything on top of being incel. Makes things worse and more boring than ever.

I seem to get the most enjoyment out of my schizoid behaviors. Living out fake interactions between people I know or used to know. Pretending one day I'll have a family, a wife, or be a popular person. Playing guitar and Japanese video games keeps me entertained too. 4 years of living on my own without even a shred of positive female attention (on top of the 22 years before) makes the empty house feel huge. Basically, living in my own fantasy world keeps me going.

Also, besides JBE, how did you get a gf? I have an engineering degree and all the money in the world but I can't find even one woman to give me a chance.
Ok Chad
 
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You guys are so fucking boring dont you have any hobbys, dreams, anything you really like to do ?
Its so sad.
"dreams"
True, but fantasizing gets boring when you get older.

"hobbys"


There are only so many hobbies you can do
 
I work as an Engineer. I work at home almost every day now. I live in an apartment. I lost my virginity at the age of 25, after I graduated from my masters degree. Before that I was an incel.

One of the only pleasures I really get besides eating, are from my girlfriend. We hangout on most Thursdays/Fridays/Saturdays and Sundays. I was lucky because I was able to do well on online dating and now i'm dating a college girl. W/o online dating, I may still be a virgin.

I couldn't even imagine doing nothing besides working from home and having no girlfriend and having few , if any friends. No offense to my incel friends, but it would feel like I live for nothing. The only thing that I would enjoy is working out and food.

How do you guys deal with that shit? At least when you are really young (say before 21) its easy as fuck to make friends with other guys and hangout or even sleep over. After that, many men go their own way.
Boredom strikes just as hard, and as frequent, no matter how much sex you have. Before you were 25 I imagine boredom only aggravated your resentment for not having ever had sex. Maybe you feared that you would die with your virginity intact.

It's like that with everybody. Boredom only allows people the time (or luxury) to dwell on the things that make them most unhappy in life.
 
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Boredom strikes just as hard, and as frequent, no matter how much sex you have. Before you were 25 I imagine boredom only aggravated your resentment for not having ever had sex. Maybe you feared that you would die with your virginity intact.

It's like that with everybody. Boredom only allows people the time (or luxury) to dwell on the things that make them most unhappy in life.
True, but life is a lot better now that I have sex.

Before the age of 25, I felt sexually frustrated quite often. But at least before the age of 21, I used to hangout with a lot of guys, experienced dorm life, high school etc. Life was always changing. Worst was from 22-25. Most men were graduating and going their own way so I never hungout with many people. I couldn't imagine living my entire life like that, but worse, because everyday is the same because you work rather than take classes.

Thats why I support the incel community. I feel sorry for these guys. I even donate to FACE and LMS because I know that they must live a tough life.
 
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I used to keep myself busy with hobbies such as history/geography, photography, travelling, learning about cryptos, philosophy, graphic design, strategy games, etc.

I did that for a couple years and I couldn't understand people feeling bored when unemployed. Now i'm 25 and pretty much everything bores me.

The most fun I get now is from interactions with people and looksmaxing

I think once i've satisfied my ego (or killed it), I can go back to my hobbies and lead a peaceful life, but for now i'm just a slave of my dopamine rushes.
 
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I used to keep myself busy with hobbies such as history/geography, photography, travelling, learning about cryptos, philosophy, graphic design, strategy games, etc.

I did that for a couple years and I couldn't understand people feeling bored when unemployed. Now i'm 25 and pretty much everything bores me.

The most fun I get now is from interactions with people and looksmaxing

I think once i've satisfied my ego (or killed it), I can go back to my hobbies and lead a peaceful life, but for now i'm just a slave of my dopamine rushes.
Nice, thanks
 
I work as an Engineer. I work at home almost every day now. I live in an apartment. I lost my virginity at the age of 25, after I graduated from my masters degree. Before that I was an incel.

One of the only pleasures I really get besides eating, are from my girlfriend. We hangout on most Thursdays/Fridays/Saturdays and Sundays. I was lucky because I was able to do well on online dating and now i'm dating a college girl. W/o online dating, I may still be a virgin.

I couldn't even imagine doing nothing besides working from home and having no girlfriend and having few , if any friends. No offense to my incel friends, but it would feel like I live for nothing. The only thing that I would enjoy is working out and food.

How do you guys deal with that shit? At least when you are really young (say before 21) its easy as fuck to make friends with other guys and hangout or even sleep over. After that, many men go their own way.
Boar Dom.
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ngl you can just tell most of you guys never had loving families, brutally over
 
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I work as an Engineer. I work at home almost every day now. I live in an apartment. I lost my virginity at the age of 25, after I graduated from my masters degree. Before that I was an incel.

One of the only pleasures I really get besides eating, are from my girlfriend. We hangout on most Thursdays/Fridays/Saturdays and Sundays. I was lucky because I was able to do well on online dating and now i'm dating a college girl. W/o online dating, I may still be a virgin.

I couldn't even imagine doing nothing besides working from home and having no girlfriend and having few , if any friends. No offense to my incel friends, but it would feel like I live for nothing. The only thing that I would enjoy is working out and food.

How do you guys deal with that shit? At least when you are really young (say before 21) its easy as fuck to make friends with other guys and hangout or even sleep over. After that, many men go their own way.
There's this thing called gaming networks. Xbox - Playstation - Military Utopia 3000 Elite Pipeline (ugh, it's a classified gaming network, ;)). So they're staying social on such. They don't need face-to-face friends. And when it's time for closeness, they wacky-jacky to images, usually, the moving kind. Ugh.

It's sad. I know. But who do you trust? Right? Ugh.

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25 years later...

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ldar and conplain here
 
ALSO, I should also point out that my job is more boring than average. I work as an Engineer from mostly all the time (sometimes I have to come to the office) so I never really see anyone besides my girlfriend.

Some incels work customer service or at least from the office so their jobs require social interaction.
 
really unless you're cucked and have kids for selfish reasons.
BASED. Reproducing is retarded unless you can almost guarantee that the child will have a good life.
 
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BASED. Reproducing is retarded unless you can almost guarantee that the child will have a good life.
True, but even if your bitch wife cheats on you with Chad and you divorcee,you at least have the "normie" experence of having a wife/kids.
 
Gatekeeping with age meanwhile i have been rotting in my room since i was 12 (outside of school), even when i did attend school had death tier attendance and neet rotting since i left highschool - failed my last year of highschool in 2020 due to attendance. But to answer the question i started consuming content from lots of different communities (games, music genres, creators etc), in doing so i focus heavily on 1 community, and by the time i cycle back to said community there will be new content and it feels fresh.
 
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Gatekeeping with age meanwhile i have been rotting in my room since i was 12 (outside of school), even when i did attend school had death tier attendance and neet rotting since i left highschool - failed my last year of highschool in 2020 due to attendance. But to answer the question i started consuming content from lots of different communities (games, music genres, creators etc), in doing so i focus heavily on 1 community, and by the time i cycle back to said community there will be new content and it feels fresh.
thanks
 
I spent hours taking good pictures and used a bit of photoshop on top of that. Then I used a fake picture or 2. When foids saw me in real life , they never seemed to care.

Do you work from the office or from home? Do you have any friends?
You photoshopped pics? CAGE. I'm impressed it worked, jbe is unstoppable. What can you even shop?

I haver always worked in an office (even during peak chinavirus) and I have but they live in other states (FL and MI). I suppose I have some acquaintances I'll see once in a while here.
 
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You photoshopped pics? CAGE. I'm impressed it worked, jbe is unstoppable. What can you even shop?

I haver always worked in an office (even during peak chinavirus) and I have but they live in other states (FL and MI). I suppose I have some acquaintances I'll see once in a while here.
@subhuman incel
 
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I’m basically a 20 year old neet with no friends, and I feel like killing myself every second of the day ngl. I have no friends, never had a gf. I am training for work, but I skip many days because I just feel nothing, work for nothing. As you said, working and coming home to nothing just feels so worthless and unrewarding. Even at 20, which is supposedly young, I feel great frustration about not having friends and never having had a gf. If I don’t find friends or a gf soon I might go crazy. I already am depressed and suicidal as fuck
 
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I’m basically a 20 year old neet with no friends, and I feel like killing myself every second of the day ngl. I have no friends, never had a gf. I am training for work, but I skip many days because I just feel nothing, work for nothing. As you said, working and coming home to nothing just feels so worthless and unrewarding. Even at 20, which is supposedly young, I feel great frustration about not having friends and never having had a gf. If I don’t find friends or a gf soon I might go crazy. I already am depressed and suicidal as fuck
just remember your are not alone dude and try to make the best out of your situation
 
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I’m basically a 20 year old neet with no friends, and I feel like killing myself every second of the day ngl. I have no friends, never had a gf. I am training for work, but I skip many days because I just feel nothing, work for nothing. As you said, working and coming home to nothing just feels so worthless and unrewarding. Even at 20, which is supposedly young, I feel great frustration about not having friends and never having had a gf. If I don’t find friends or a gf soon I might go crazy. I already am depressed and suicidal as fuck
You are only 20.

You have an extra year before you are an incel.
 
You guys are so fucking boring dont you have any hobbys, dreams, anything you really like to do ?
Its so sad.
>dreams

lmao what are you 12?

life isnt one piece you arent gonna become the pirate king lmao :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:
 
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