how do normies do it so effortlessly?

[superpsycho]

as somebody who used to be a normie and probably would've gone onto do these things had I not turned NEET, NT things do indeed come natural to normies

I recall that I acted purely on instinct and without any thought out deliberate plan, and these would usually net positive results
I was never NT, but was high functioning so I knew what was expected of me and didn't have awkward moments
Lookswise I was MTN so I could more or less do what other normies could do

so they just don't question to themselves "is it normal (NT) to to/wear/say this?"

they just know by default?

 

[superpsycho]

They have the right circumstances and contexts

They are not just them as individuals, but they carry behind them a lot of things that make and have made them what they are now (the city where they were born, the exact location where they live, their parents, extended family, neighbors, family friends, the community they are part of, etc. all these things contribute to them with ways of being, opportunities they have had or will have, etc.)

There was a line from a song from my country, a very true one: ''When you have a family of gangsters (wealthy, with lots of networking, with a very large extended family, with lots of resources of all kinds), you don't have stony roads''

What you see in them is a conclusion, a result, not a product from 0 that has become something regardless of obstacles, so that you can compare yourself to them and think that they made the right decisions and you made the wrong ones

Each individual is unique and will carry his universal existence in a totally personalized way

From the average teenager born and stuck in the slums of Mumbai to spending the rest of his life in a garbage dump..

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Up to the average teenager born into a family of millionaires, who spends his entire life in the most exclusive cars, constantly sleeping in the most luxurious hotels, always eating the best food made by the best chefs in the most exclusive vacation locations on the planet, being on vacation 24/7, 365 days a year, continuously moving across the meridians of the globe to stay year round on the beach and in the heat, unaware of the concept of cold, wind, rain, or any other form of discomfort..

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I conclude this text with this image..

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every molecule

brutal uncontrollable circumstances pill.

 

[vevcred2_0]

They aren't real

 

[rira1]

we need more self loathing threads bhai

 

[superpsycho]

They aren't real

they are copy and pastes of eachother

successful copy-and-pastes at that.

 

[superpsycho]

we need more self loathing threads bhai

why

 

[Stormman]

so they just don't question to themselves "is it normal (NT) to to/wear/say this?"

they just know by default?

yea. pretty much.

 

[superpsycho]

yea. pretty much.

ok well in that case im a fucking idiot

 

[Dаniel]

finally a post where im not self-loathing, but rather taking things into consideration

im sitting in this shitty tech class

and like 4 normies who sit ahead of me are hitting their ugly ass vapes and talking about and comparing the bitches they fucked, their ex’s, their jobs, what they did over spring break, and their sports, some of the fights they’ve been in over the years. mind you these fuckers are all 1-2 grades below me and they already have all this life experience while im an 18 year old kissless, handholdless, hugless, jobless, friendless, socially isolated, high inhib virgin.

do these NT things and experiences just come natural to normies or are these guys in particular just tryhards? i swear almost every normie at this point has a decent social circle and has experienced some sort of love with the opposite gender at this point. i did everything by the book in my teen years like they did, found a faggoty haircut that modern appeal, stylemaxxed, attempted to social-lifemaxx (didn’t work due to circumstances out of my control sadly), even got into the gym at one point, tried talking to girls, yet they still have everything i dont. everything ive tried to acquire to climb the social hierarchy, they’ve got for free just from existing. even the ugly ones.

im so lost. they make it look so fucking easy.

I genually dont get how they have such a good life. They are litterslly such ugly losers but manage to slay stacies

 

[superpsycho]

I genually dont get how they have such a good life. They are litterslly such ugly losers but manage to slay stacies

i dont care about stacies. i just want a high ltb at minimum.

 

[Stormman]

ok well in that case im a fucking idiot

Brooooootal pill to swallow that not even your personality is yours to make

 

[quantitativePSL]

im just tryna figure out what the fuck is wrong with me as a person before i transition to college. (apart from my obvious lack of looks and iq). i feel like theres an outlying issue

I feel like the three main categories are looks, iq and nt so it must be NT since ugly idiots still have friends. Digging your profile jfl, so is this a thing that has always happened throughout life or just recently? Because I know you have a bad rep at your school so ofc nobody is gonna fw you now

 

[R@m@]

Yes its called being on autopilot, you barely have 2nd toughts and everything comes naturally

 

[Part-Time Chad]

It's like sex and relationships just fall on their lap as if they're inevitable. It blows my mind because it's the opposite of what I've experienced my whole life.

 

[Primalsplit]

The main difference might be that they  enjoy being social and being around each other. Maybe you just find most other people boring so they don't really like hanging out with you just like you don't actually like hanging out with them.

 

[superpsycho]

Brooooootal pill to swallow that not even your personality is yours to make

i tried being myself and got sent my own way

 

[superpsycho]

I feel like the three main categories are looks, iq and nt so it must be NT since ugly idiots still have friends. Digging your profile jfl, so is this a thing that has always happened throughout life or just recently? Because I know you have a bad rep at your school so ofc nobody is gonna fw you now

kinda throughout life. but it worsened in my teen years

and yea my rep at school is fucked

however i still struggled even when my rep was decent.

 

[superpsycho]

Yes its called being on autopilot, you barely have 2nd toughts and everything comes naturally

it blows my mind how it is all just second nature to them.

 

[superpsycho]

It's like sex and relationships just fall on their lap as if they're inevitable. It blows my mind because it's the opposite of what I've experienced my whole life.

exactly how i feel

i just dont understand what im lacking that they arent lacking

even the ugly ducklings are doing fine socially and in the dating department.

 

[quantitativePSL]

kinda throughout life. but it worsened in my teen years

and yea my rep at school is fucked

however i still struggled even when my rep was decent.

NT pill I'd say. At my highschool even the socially awkward weird ass niggas had friends they just grouped up together jfl

 

[superpsycho]

The main difference might be that they  enjoy being social and being around each other. Maybe you just find most other people boring so they don't really like hanging out with you just like you don't actually like hanging out with them.

i do find most normie interactions pretty annoying, they’re all copy and pastes of each other

i can tolerate it though

 

[superpsycho]

NT pill I'd say. At my highschool even the socially awkward weird ass niggas had friends they just grouped up together jfl

bro i didnt even fit in with them. i didnt share any interests or anything in common with them

the thing is i have NT interests and hobbies but i think i cant relate to or think as an NT would at all. but even then i see some socially successful people act autistic as shit and its seen as a halo, but when i do something similar, its seen as retarded.

 

[User28823]

ngl it was pretty effortless in my teen years

but i self-sabotaged all my relationships so its over anyway

r u ugly ?

 

[quantitativePSL]

bro i didnt even fit in with them. i didnt share any interests or anything in common with them

the thing is i have NT interests and hobbies but im not socially NT

Oh so you just can't talk to people like a normal person can which is like a lot of social outcasts but then you aren't actually into shit they are so you just find yourself in this weird zone of nothingness socially?

 

[superpsycho]

ngl it was pretty effortless in my teen years

but i self-sabotaged all my relationships so its over anyway

mogs me

r u ugly ?

yea

 

[superpsycho]

Oh so you just can't talk to people like a normal person can which is like a lot of social outcast but then you aren't actually into shit they are so you just find yourself in this weird zone of nothingness socially?

apart from a mild stutter, in my own mind, i sound pretty NT to myself when i talk with people but i dont think they think the same way about the way i talk. ive worked on some bad habits over the years in my speech such as talking too fast, talking over people sometimes because my shit brain has a thing of saying whatever comes to my head immediately but idk what i continue to lack.

when it comes to interests, i kinda go through phases, i dont stick with most of my hobbies except for a select few

 

[segmt]

apart from a mild stutter, in my own mind, i sound pretty NT to myself when i talk with people but i dont think they think the same way about the way i talk. ive worked on some bad habits over the years in my speech such as talking too fast, talking over people sometimes because my shit brain has a thing of saying whatever comes to my head immediately but idk what i continue to lack.

when it comes to interests, i kinda go through phases, i dont stick with most of my hobbies except for a select few

Non ntness, also

normies are chads in their minds lmao I hate alot of normfags, some are chill
You have friends though bro. Not having friends is a severely nd level, at that point unless youre cl+ nothing is saving you.

they talk about people but all those girls turn out to be ltb lol and in their minds theyre chad, they talk about hypocritical shit all the time, you can't really 100% nt fraud only to a certain extent

 

[Pento]

finally a post where im not self-loathing, but rather taking things into consideration

im sitting in this shitty tech class

and like 4 normies who sit ahead of me are hitting their ugly ass vapes and talking about and comparing the bitches they fucked, their ex’s, their jobs, what they did over spring break, and their sports, some of the fights they’ve been in over the years. mind you these fuckers are all 1-2 grades below me and they already have all this life experience while im an 18 year old kissless, handholdless, hugless, jobless, friendless, socially isolated, high inhib virgin.

do these NT things and experiences just come natural to normies or are these guys in particular just tryhards? i swear almost every normie at this point has a decent social circle and has experienced some sort of love with the opposite gender at this point. i did everything by the book in my teen years like they did, found a faggoty haircut that modern appeal, stylemaxxed, attempted to social-lifemaxx (didn’t work due to circumstances out of my control sadly), even got into the gym at one point, tried talking to girls, yet they still have everything i dont. everything ive tried to acquire to climb the social hierarchy, they’ve got for free just from existing. even the ugly ones.

im so lost. they make it look so fucking easy.

As someone who had that experience in early hs its literally all connections/friends. Just be a complete fucknut and some of them will fuck with you and find you funny. Its obviously not worth it, but your honestly not missing out, I'd rather have a gf and not be a degen dicking around. What shocks me is how some of these guys could manage school and fucking around though

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

finally a post where im not self-loathing, but rather taking things into consideration

im sitting in this shitty tech class

and like 4 normies who sit ahead of me are hitting their ugly ass vapes and talking about and comparing the bitches they fucked, their ex’s, their jobs, what they did over spring break, and their sports, some of the fights they’ve been in over the years. mind you these fuckers are all 1-2 grades below me and they already have all this life experience while im an 18 year old kissless, handholdless, hugless, jobless, friendless, socially isolated, high inhib virgin.

do these NT things and experiences just come natural to normies or are these guys in particular just tryhards? i swear almost every normie at this point has a decent social circle and has experienced some sort of love with the opposite gender at this point. i did everything by the book in my teen years like they did, found a faggoty haircut that modern appeal, stylemaxxed, attempted to social-lifemaxx (didn’t work due to circumstances out of my control sadly), even got into the gym at one point, tried talking to girls, yet they still have everything i dont. everything ive tried to acquire to climb the social hierarchy, they’ve got for free just from existing. even the ugly ones.

im so lost. they make it look so fucking easy.

Tbh most people at my school could easily be on this forum

It's a community College tbf

But 50% ethnics, the rest people don't talk that much

I dont see these types much

 

[davidlaidisme67]

finally a post where im not self-loathing, but rather taking things into consideration

im sitting in this shitty tech class

and like 4 normies who sit ahead of me are hitting their ugly ass vapes and talking about and comparing the bitches they fucked, their ex’s, their jobs, what they did over spring break, and their sports, some of the fights they’ve been in over the years. mind you these fuckers are all 1-2 grades below me and they already have all this life experience while im an 18 year old kissless, handholdless, hugless, jobless, friendless, socially isolated, high inhib virgin.

do these NT things and experiences just come natural to normies or are these guys in particular just tryhards? i swear almost every normie at this point has a decent social circle and has experienced some sort of love with the opposite gender at this point. i did everything by the book in my teen years like they did, found a faggoty haircut that modern appeal, stylemaxxed, attempted to social-lifemaxx (didn’t work due to circumstances out of my control sadly), even got into the gym at one point, tried talking to girls, yet they still have everything i dont. everything ive tried to acquire to climb the social hierarchy, they’ve got for free just from existing. even the ugly ones.

im so lost. they make it look so fucking easy.

Trust me that’s exactly how I felt last year and it’s going to get worse in college

 

[segmt]

i do find most normie interactions pretty annoying, they’re all copy and pastes of each other

i can tolerate it though

yea exactly lmao
this is what im saying
Though theres a chance some of them just fraud that shit to be copy pastes, thats literally a staple normfag characteristic

and as other people on this thread have mentioned alot of people have degenerate parents who cucked their personality (and if you think about it, the parents were going to do that, so their nd personality had to have passed down to you genetically)

Now the compensating factor here is your looks, as a normie if someone simply looks good they will have higher status and be accepted by more people by simply existing
If youre a sub5 but you somehow end up being hella good at a sport, youll be popular in the same way

This is water though, and isnt the case for both of us probably. So what happens is youre just the fucker that has no presence, there will be a few people who enjoy being around you, but the most nt ones and the thing you always sought after? not likely to happen

its why the ugly nd people group sometimes and theyre seen as a nerd group by alot of other people (staple normfag trait here)

All water

 

[quantitativePSL]

apart from a mild stutter, in my own mind, i sound pretty NT to myself when i talk with people but i dont think they think the same way about the way i talk. ive worked on some bad habits over the years in my speech such as talking too fast, talking over people sometimes because my shit brain has a thing of saying whatever comes to my head immediately but idk what i continue to lack.

when it comes to interests, i kinda go through phases, i dont stick with most of my hobbies except for a select few

You're probably worse than you think not in sound but just overall behavior like body language your family will probably lie to you if you genuinely ask them about it, would need a NTmaxxed friend

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

You're probably worse than you think not in sound but just overall behavior like body language your family will probably lie to you if you genuinely ask them about it, would need a NTmaxxed friend

My brother is absolutely pitiful in his demeanor and the softest nigga alive

But idk how to say this nicely

I try to criticize his victim mindset

But he's a liberal he'd get mad if I called him low T

 

[quantitativePSL]

My brother is absolutely pitiful in his demeanor and the softest nigga alive

But idk how to say this nicely

I try to criticize his victim mindset

But he's a liberal he'd get mad if I called him low T

Just be chill and sincere like bro im looking out for you so don't get mad then indirectly call him a pussy nigga and see what he says, if he's comfortable being that way that's his terrible decision jfl

 

[greycelzoomer]

I hate most normal people i geniunely wish they get cartel tortured

Even me?

 

[segmt]

You're probably worse than you think not in sound but just overall behavior like body language your family will probably lie to you if you genuinely ask them about it, would need a NTmaxxed friend

this yeah

I have a terrible mumbling habit, bad posture

But it's all water and cope, if your face was better, frame better, whatever better etc these would be seen as a positive trait for you instead of negative, or at least neutral. You fit in due to how your presence is, and your looks dictate a large part of it

Water (again)

 

[quantitativePSL]

this yeah

I have a terrible mumbling habit, bad posture

But it's all water and cope, if your face was better, frame better, whatever better etc these would be seen as a positive trait for you instead of negative, or at least neutral. You fit in due to how your presence is, and your looks dictate a large part of it

Water (again)

usually bad traits become neutral not positive but yes you're right everything starts with looks, if you don't have that you need to be cool which you can do in many ways but all require you to be NT. I like the mention of parents nerfing you, my family played a huge role in making sure I was NT like I'm actually ND but I have excellent social skills and know how to act and get a bit of a halo if I do act ND because I'm not subhuman. Having a blackpilled mom helped me a lot

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Just be chill and sincere like bro im looking out for you so don't get mad then indirectly call him a pussy nigga and see what he says, if he's comfortable being that way that's his terrible decision jfl

I'm gonna show him by example soon saar

 

[JeanneDArcAlter]

Even me?

 

[whitebitchslayer]

finally a post where im not self-loathing, but rather taking things into consideration

im sitting in this shitty tech class

and like 4 normies who sit ahead of me are hitting their ugly ass vapes and talking about and comparing the bitches they fucked, their ex’s, their jobs, what they did over spring break, and their sports, some of the fights they’ve been in over the years. mind you these fuckers are all 1-2 grades below me and they already have all this life experience while im an 18 year old kissless, handholdless, hugless, jobless, friendless, socially isolated, high inhib virgin.

do these NT things and experiences just come natural to normies or are these guys in particular just tryhards? i swear almost every normie at this point has a decent social circle and has experienced some sort of love with the opposite gender at this point. i did everything by the book in my teen years like they did, found a faggoty haircut that modern appeal, stylemaxxed, attempted to social-lifemaxx (didn’t work due to circumstances out of my control sadly), even got into the gym at one point, tried talking to girls, yet they still have everything i dont. everything ive tried to acquire to climb the social hierarchy, they’ve got for free just from existing. even the ugly ones.

im so lost. they make it look so fucking easy.

Shits not fair

 

[superpsycho]

Non ntness, also

normies are chads in their minds lmao I hate alot of normfags, some are chill
You have friends though bro. Not having friends is a severely nd level, at that point unless youre cl+ nothing is saving you.

they talk about people but all those girls turn out to be ltb lol and in their minds theyre chad, they talk about hypocritical shit all the time, you can't really 100% nt fraud only to a certain extent

yea normfags are giga narcy

i think narcissism is just a normal character trait tbh jfl i hate myself too much to be narcissistic though. and yea they are giga hypocritical. they also love listening to themselves speak.

just have degenerate character traits and you’ll fit in fine theory

also i havent made a good friend in years. i go to school and dont say a single word at this point unless im spoken to (which is not very often )

 

[superpsycho]

As someone who had that experience in early hs its literally all connections/friends. Just be a complete fucknut and some of them will fuck with you and find you funny. Its obviously not worth it, but your honestly not missing out, I'd rather have a gf and not be a degen dicking around. What shocks me is how some of these guys could manage school and fucking around though

i dont wanna be a degen

also i came into highschool with 2 friends. by my shitty fucking luck they both moved away during my freshman year in the span of 5 months. then i became desperate to find a new friend group and started becoming a jesterfag but that was not successful at all. (looking back, i wish i knew bp at this time because i have some cringe memories from jestering )

i also LDARed school, didnt give a fuck about my work had 0 extracirriculars, just did the bare minimum. but so did a lot of other people who did just fine.

 

[superpsycho]

Tbh most people at my school could easily be on this forum

It's a community College tbf

But 50% ethnics, the rest people don't talk that much

I dont see these types much

i walk by people everyday who are perfect candidates for this forum.

 

[superpsycho]

Trust me that’s exactly how I felt last year and it’s going to get worse in college

really? even if i fraud inhib with drugs and ascend a little bit? even with frat halo?

 

[davidlaidisme67]

really? even if i fraud inhib with drugs and ascend a little bit? even with frat halo?

Oh frat halo? You might get some girls every once in a while. I’ve seen subhumans in frats who have had some slays so frat is a good idea

 

[superpsycho]

yea exactly lmao
this is what im saying
Though theres a chance some of them just fraud that shit to be copy pastes, thats literally a staple normfag characteristic

if some of them fraud, they are doinf a hell of a good job.

and as other people on this thread have mentioned alot of people have degenerate parents who cucked their personality (and if you think about it, the parents were going to do that, so their nd personality had to have passed down to you genetically)

Now the compensating factor here is your looks,

as a normie if someone simply looks good they will have higher status and be accepted by more people by simply existing
If youre a sub5 but you somehow end up being hella good at a sport, youll be popular in the same way

i wasnt blessed in the looks desperate. my dumb fucking ass quit sports at 13 because my stupid fucking ass couldnt take the pressure and shitty coaches (biggest thing i regret JFL )

This is water though, and isnt the case for both of us probably. So what happens is youre just the fucker that has no presence, there will be a few people who enjoy being around you, but the most nt ones and the thing you always sought after? not likely to happen

its why the ugly nd people group sometimes and theyre seen as a nerd group by alot of other people (staple normfag trait here)

All water

you are right about me having 0 presence. even the nd groups dont deem me fit enough to hang around with them, ive been in one of them at one point but it wasnt long lasting. they wouldnt invite me to shit and id be the punchline of every joke.

 

[superpsycho]

You're probably worse than you think not in sound but just overall behavior like body language your family will probably lie to you if you genuinely ask them about it,

yea my parents always tell me i look fine

would need a NTmaxxed friend

they are ultra bluepilled and can easily fuck you over though. u would need to make friends with a realist and those are hard to find.

 

[superpsycho]

My brother is absolutely pitiful in his demeanor and the softest nigga alive

But idk how to say this nicely

I try to criticize his victim mindset

But he's a liberal he'd get mad if I called him low T

i have 0 political affiliation (no politics for your bones),

but as a male, if ur a liberal/democraft/left any sort of that shit,

if you can call yourself a liberal with how fucking gynocentric some of their ideology is and how degenerate some of their values are, you are essentially outing yourself as either gay or a cuck.

but thats a conversation most male liberals are not ready for.

 

[superpsycho]

this yeah

I have a terrible mumbling habit, bad posture

But it's all water and cope, if your face was better, frame better, whatever better etc these would be seen as a positive trait for you instead of negative, or at least neutral. You fit in due to how your presence is, and your looks dictate a large part of it

Water (again)

yea everything is a halo with a good enough face.

 

[superpsycho]

usually bad traits become neutral not positive but yes you're right everything starts with looks, if you don't have that you need to be cool which you can do in many ways but all require you to be NT. I like the mention of parents nerfing you, my family played a huge role in making sure I was NT like I'm actually ND but I have excellent social skills and know how to act and get a bit of a halo if I do act ND because I'm not subhuman. Having a blackpilled mom helped me a lot

a good family is everything bro.

my parents are fucking terra bluepilled and expected everything to fall in place for me as long as i put myself out there and worked my ass off