How do other people perceive me?

[danielzis]

My views on how I look are constantly contorted every day, in a lot of lightings i look amazing whereas if i go outside and the sun hits me in a weird way, or i go to a place with certain lighting I check my phone camera and look terrible, especially my undereyes. Do other people see this version of me or is my constant need for perfection twisting my perception and making my views of myself more harsh than they should be?
Don't even know why I'm posting this whenever I know that affirmations probablyaren't gonna change anything for me anyways lol

 

[horseman.]

Idk

 

[ethnic_coper67]

My views on how I look are constantly contorted every day, in a lot of lightings i look amazing whereas if i go outside and the sun hits me in a weird way, or i go to a place with certain lighting I check my phone camera and look terrible, especially my undereyes. Do other people see this version of me or is my constant need for perfection twisting my perception and making my views of myself more harsh than they should be?
Don't even know why I'm posting this whenever I know that affirmations probablyaren't gonna change anything for me anyways lol

you’d be suprised how little anyone cares about you. Even your family forgets about you completely after 3 months

 

[horseman.]

Even your family forgets about you completely after 3 months

just you bro

 

[ethnic_coper67]

just you bro

literally proven statistically you fucking idiot…3 months after you die

 

[horseman.]

literally proven statistically you fucking idiot…3 months after you die

Send the source then, plus you didn’t specify that

 

[LiteralChud]

you’d be suprised how little anyone cares about you. Even your family forgets about you completely after 3 months

completely?

 

[danielzis]

Holy fuck you guys are more useless than i thought

 

[ethnic_coper67]

Send the source then, plus you didn’t specify that

 

[horseman.]

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Yh ur a fucking retard

 

[ethnic_coper67]

Yh ur a fucking retard

all you

 

[Peter.FortniteHate]

Holy fuck you guys are more useless than i thought

Negroid, you have 0 reps.

 

[Kazey]

My views on how I look are constantly contorted every day, in a lot of lightings i look amazing whereas if i go outside and the sun hits me in a weird way, or i go to a place with certain lighting I check my phone camera and look terrible, especially my undereyes. Do other people see this version of me or is my constant need for perfection twisting my perception and making my views of myself more harsh than they should be?
Don't even know why I'm posting this whenever I know that affirmations probablyaren't gonna change anything for me anyways lol

There's no single correct way to deduce how you are perceived socially (imo) but I think one of the best way to know is just by how other people treat you. Like it doesn't matter if you don't really talk to people, they're just gonna start warming up and be nice to you first. Or if you notice that they feel and behave "more insecure" around (jealousy of sort).


And yea, constantly checking yourself out only feed more to your insecurity (less you planned on fixing your specific flaw).

Though this might be water.

 

[danielzis]

Negroid, you have 0 reps.

Let me know how far ur org rep gets u irl