How do people actually get the desire to meet girls?

[ascension]

I am dead srs when I say these are my goals

1. Get ripped
2. Get to purple belt BJJ and judo blackbelt
3. Do my masters
4. Get into med school
5. Work in USA as some sort of doctor, earning a lot
6. Build wealth to the point where I can retire and don't really have to work
7. From there on, I have a base to work with and try running in politics
8. Go travelling around the world a lot too

I feel like a total loser cuz I've done none of that shit. I'm low value af man. I just want fucking money and power. I understand some of these goals aren't achievable and some of these goals will take a lifetime. But there's always someone above me, and it drives me nuts and makes me feel depressed thinking about it. Idc if guys outslay me, or look better than me. I do care on the other hand when guys work better jobs, live in bigger houses, live lower stress lives, have more status, etc.

1. Get ripped - No rip for your face
2. Get to purple belt BJJ and judo blackbelt - No blackbelt for your face
3. Do my masters - No masters for your face
4. Get into med school - No med school for your face
5. Work in USA as some sort of doctor, earning a lot - No job for your face
6. Build wealth to the point where I can retire and don't really have to work - No wealth for your height
7. From there on, I have a base to work with and try running in politics - No politics for your face
8. Go travelling around the world a lot too - No travelling for your face

 

[Gargantuan]

I legit have 0 desire to meet up with girls these days.

Dating apps took a bit of a toll on my mental health and I've felt better since I deleted them. Might give it another shot in 2023 but I'm definitely not keen on reinstalling them now.

I already know that the same thing is going to happen all over again, matching with HTBs and MTBs only to get ghosted by them leaving me with a bunch of LTB matches that I have no intention of meeting up with.