How do people delude themself successfully and be happy with it?

[Zenis]

Me personallly whenever i try i just get hurt, my heart aches, i cant cope. i really envy those who can do it no issue and it makes them happy

 

[Zenis]

I envy those delusional sub 5 right wingers who tell themselves "oh bro this girl is with us, she with me trust bro, trust" and belives in it 100% , belives that she is with him. i could never do something like that

 

[catastropy]

The brain always tends to develop a coping mechanism, in order to fight off the chronic stress signals
So its mainly an evolutionary thing

 

[Niujy]

I envy those delusional sub 5 right wingers who tell themselves "oh bro this girl is with us, she with me trust bro, trust" and belives in it 100% , belives that she is with him. i could never do something like that

the more stupid and gullible you are the happier you are

 

[Zenis]

The brain always tends to develop a coping mechanism, in order to fight off the chronic stress signals
So its mainly an evolutionary thing

so why was i not born with this trait???