How do people stay in Relationships???

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How do u make it last

Doesn’t it get boring after u know everything about the other person?

Maybe 1 month max, how the fuck people do years together jfl
 
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How do u make it last

Doesn’t it get boring after u know everything about the other person?

Maybe 1 month max, how the fuck people do years together jfl
Cus it’s a commitment
 
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Over for Tik Tok addicts with small attention spans and fried dopamine receptors.
 
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wdym, elaborate
Like the whole point is that after a couple months the honeymoon phase ends because you’re not discovering anything new/as many new things but if your in a relationship the whole point is your committed it’s a choice you have to make and some days you may feel like it’s shit what’s the point etc but that’s kinda just how it work could be more fun to meet someone new I.e cheating or just breaking up but then you realise you just be put back in the same cycle so you kind of just have to be content with where you are because it most likely won’t be better
 
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Like the whole point is that after a couple months the honeymoon phase ends because you’re not discovering anything new/as many new things but if your in a relationship the whole point is your committed it’s a choice you have to make and some days you may feel like it’s shit what’s the point etc but that’s kinda just how it work could be more fun to meet someone new I.e cheating or just breaking up but then you realise you just be put back in the same cycle so you kind of just have to be content with where you are because it most likely won’t be better
View it as short term over long term I guess you can weigh out what you gain and lose from making either choice in your head
 
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How do u make it last

Doesn’t it get boring after u know everything about the other person?

Maybe 1 month max, how the fuck people do years together jfl
I’ve been with my girlfriend for three years and everyday I wake up excited to see her. It’s easy when you’re in love.
 
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I’ve been with my girlfriend for three years and everyday I wake up excited to see her. It’s easy when you’re in love.
Already mentally prepare for when she dumps you eventually.
 
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Already mentally prepare for when she dumps you eventually.
I don’t need to, I trust her and love her and I know that she loves me.
 
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How do u make it last

Doesn’t it get boring after u know everything about the other person?

Maybe 1 month max, how the fuck people do years together jfl
This is something I find very, very interesting.

Basically, I believe that from a evolutionary standpoint, men are not supposed to be in relationships. It makes no sense for us, because we can spread our genes as far as we can without committing. We have a high sex drive. We want to fuck different women all the time. But we also fall in love.

A man has three options:

A. Get girlfriend and stay faithful forever.

B. Get girlfriend, but cheat.

C. Stay single, do whatever you want (no happy family, can still get children but they will be raised by cucks)

I believe that for some men, A is the best course of action. If sex drive is reasonably low / you can satisfy your urges with your gf/wife, you're golden. This is the picturesque story we are told as children.

B is the best course of action for those who do not feel too much guilt / remorse, and whose life circumstance allows them to cheat.

Option C is imo also extremely viable for certain individuals. While having children is great and all, I think a lot of men would honestly rather just fuk around and stay free. But this might backfire hard later on in life due to loneliness.

I think that its perfectly reasonable to say that most men in committed relationships love their girlfriend a lot, regardless of if they cheat on her or not. Cheating for men is simply satisfying a sexual urge. Women has these urges too, but are less willing to act on them. Watch the movie Eyes Wide Shut, its a masterpiece of a movie that deals with these subjects.

At the end of the day though, cheating will hurt your girlfriend and it will hurt the relationship permanently if/when it gets discovered. If she really loves you, she might stay. But its still going to fuk it up, especially long term. And honestly, if you cheated once you'll cheat again. If you're a cheater, its likely C is actually the best option.

I think that it basically boils down to this:

Every man has an urge to cheat on their gf, because its simply rooted into our biology to sleep with different women. Some men are not attractive enough to cheat. Other men are attractive enough, but skilled at coping with their urges through other means. These people can reap the rewards of a happy relationship and family life, with extremely deep connections to their gf and later on children. Lets not forget the financial benefits, too (easier to get loans, more disposable income etc).

Those who cannot contain their urges, should try to do so as far as they can. If they cannot, it will inevitibly ruin their relationship. And I think at that point, its option C no matter what.

OP, it sounds like you're probably either an option C guy, or just a young guy that hasn't experienced "love". Not "falling in love" but "love". Personally, I stayed single until I was 26. I had experienced crushes etc, but never love. I fell in love with my current gf and I still love her. But I definitely feel strong urges to cheat. And I feel a bit caught in this dilemma.
 
The question is for how long.
You don’t know anything about my relationship. I don’t know what made you so untrusting in your life but that’s not the case for me.
 
You don’t know anything about my relationship. I don’t know what made you so untrusting in your life but that’s not the case for me.
Trust me, she is gonna leave your ass sooner or later unless she is unattractive and no other guy wants to fuck her.
 
Trust me, she is gonna leave your ass sooner or later unless she is unattractive and no other guy wants to fuck her.
You are embarrassing bro
 
You don’t know anything about my relationship. I don’t know what made you so untrusting in your life but that’s not the case for me.
No it’s just the reality of the situation it’s not about being untrusting anybody is capable of cheating
 
No it’s just the reality of the situation it’s not about being untrusting anybody is capable of cheating
He is just a bluepilled idiot.
 
He is just a bluepilled idiot.
It’s better to live with that cope for as long as possible too be honest thinking about it is pointless it doesn’t change the outcome
 
No it’s just the reality of the situation it’s not about being untrusting anybody is capable of cheating
Ya anybody is capable, but thats where the trust part comes in. I don’t worry when she gets hit on every day because i trust her, she doesn't worry that I’ll cheat when i get hit on because she trusts me.
 
Why one would leave a woman that cooks well and is good looking?

All the mystery halo stuff is BS. No human being is mysterious as much as they want it to be like that.
 
Ya anybody is capable, but thats where the trust part comes in. I don’t worry when she gets hit on every day because i trust her, she doesn't worry that I’ll cheat when i get hit on because she trusts me.
Which is a good thing I’m just simply saying it is always a possibility and you don’t need to be mogged by the other guy or she doesn’t need to be fogged it can happen for other external reasons
 
Which is a good thing I’m just simply saying it is always a possibility and you don’t need to be mogged by the other guy or she doesn’t need to be fogged it can happen for other external reasons
I dont agree, but i see what you’re saying. I keep her feeling appreciated, loved, seeing, valued and she does the same for me and all is well.
 
I dont agree, but i see what you’re saying. I keep her feeling appreciated, loved, seeing, valued and she does the same for me and all is well.
Again those things can change at a whim don’t need to agree with me but I would stand to say this is a more objective view point
 
I’m confused, is love not human nature? Elaborate
as in the fact that emotions rule a lot of people and the way in which they act and those things can change at a whim one day you guys may be the fine the other day not and those are the days she may be more likely to consider doing something ie breaking up with you cheating etc if she is in a position to do so it also makes it easier
 
How do u make it last

Doesn’t it get boring after u know everything about the other person?

Maybe 1 month max, how the fuck people do years together jfl
Either they have no time for/ don't care about experiencing with multiple people.

Or they think they won't get anything better and don't wanna risk it
 
Love is just a made up word
 
How do u make it last

Doesn’t it get boring after u know everything about the other person?

Maybe 1 month max, how the fuck people do years together jfl
Relationships are Haram, become muslim and get married ASAP
 
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