How do people talk to women

[underatedgreycel]

Title. I can only talk to them if I have a friend with me and when I have a friend with me I’m mainly talking to them bc I can’t directly talk to the woman

 

[The Grinch]

By using your mouth and voice

 

[underatedgreycel]

By using your mouth and voice

I should solution this

 

[underatedgreycel]

Notice how no one clicked on this thread. Highinhibition.org

 

[The Grinch]

I should solution this

You have to pretend they‘re just humans (believe it or not, they literally are just humans)

 

[underatedgreycel]

You have to pretend they‘re just humans (believe it or not, they literally are just humans)

I think I have neurodivergence so my brain doesn’t work that way unfortunately

 

[The Grinch]

I think I have neurodivergence so my brain doesn’t work that way unfortunately

What do you mean by that?

 

[Latinus]

By using your mouth and voice

 

[underatedgreycel]

What do you mean by that?

When I talk to woman my amygdala signals anxiety and shuts down my ability to talk or keep eye contact. I also get panic attacks

 

[The Grinch]

When I talk to woman my amygdala signals anxiety and shuts down my ability to talk or keep eye contact. I also get panic attacks

Why are you scared of women? Do you feel like you don’t deserve talking to them?

 

[underatedgreycel]

Why are you scared of women? Do you feel like you don’t deserve talking to them?

No. It’s not just women too but it’s people with higher social status. Any time I try talking to them I think they are judging every word I say and action I do. Btw I’m going to bed so I won’t be replying to anything else u say until tmmrw. Thanks for tryna help tho

 

[Lewisleslie]

You dont need to if you look good

 

[The Grinch]

Any time I try talking to them I think they are judging every word I say and action I do.

Oh they do that, it’s not your paranoia imagining it. But the question is, why do you care if they like you or not? You will never be liked by everyone, no matter who you are. Man, you could be a saint and still have people hating on you and judging you for things that they personally dislike on you. You want to be liked, that’s why you are scared of being judged. You need to free yourself from this mentality, because this will keep you from living a normal life. Everyone constantly judges others, you do that as well, but some people don’t give a fuck if you judge or like them and you should learn from them.

Remember, even the people you feel intimidated by aren’t liked or even respected by everyone, they also have experiences where they got rejected, judged or were disrespected by someone for all kinds of reasons or they will in the future, there’s always someone cooler or has a higher status, someone with a high status will still be mogged by someone with a even higher status. They aren’t superhumans, most of the cool kids will also end up doing a shitty job later, speaking from experience, they aren’t part of the mighty elite that rules the world, they are just slaves of the system, just like you and me and everyone else, so there‘s no reason to put them on a pedestal

You will naturally attract people that are meant for you and also repulse the people that aren’t meant to be your friends and you can’t do anything to control the first or the later, when someone likes you, they like your flaws as well and when someone dislike you, they will even dislike your good traits

 

[Chadmog]

I can’t even look at them in the face. I just avoid them. And even if a girl tries to talk to me i reply without looking at her. We are high inhibitors