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TheNigreriaNigtmare

TheNigreriaNigtmare

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I’ve been struggling with how much looksmaxxing culture has exploded lately. With “looksflation” getting worse every year, it feels like the bar for attractiveness keeps rising while my own genetics feel… lacking.

Because of that, I’ve kind of accepted that finding love might be a long shot for me, at least for a while. My plan has been to focus on making money and improving my lifestyle since that seems like the only lever I can reliably pull.

But I’m curious how others in similar situations cope.

How do you deal with feeling like you were dealt a bad genetic hand?

How do you handle the idea that you might not find love or companionship anytime soon?

I’m genuinely looking for honest perspectives from people who’ve been through this mentally and found ways to keep going.
 

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I’ve been struggling with how much looksmaxxing culture has exploded lately. With “looksflation” getting worse every year, it feels like the bar for attractiveness keeps rising while my own genetics feel… lacking.

Because of that, I’ve kind of accepted that finding love might be a long shot for me, at least for a while. My plan has been to focus on making money and improving my lifestyle since that seems like the only lever I can reliably pull.

But I’m curious how others in similar situations cope.

How do you deal with feeling like you were dealt a bad genetic hand?

How do you handle the idea that you might not find love or companionship anytime soon?

I’m genuinely looking for honest perspectives from people who’ve been through this mentally and found ways to keep going.
Im fat atm, so i just cope by saying i got potential.
 
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I look forward to the future because my present is ass.
 
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I’ve been struggling with how much looksmaxxing culture has exploded lately. With “looksflation” getting worse every year, it feels like the bar for attractiveness keeps rising while my own genetics feel… lacking.

Because of that, I’ve kind of accepted that finding love might be a long shot for me, at least for a while. My plan has been to focus on making money and improving my lifestyle since that seems like the only lever I can reliably pull.

But I’m curious how others in similar situations cope.

How do you deal with feeling like you were dealt a bad genetic hand?

How do you handle the idea that you might not find love or companionship anytime soon?

I’m genuinely looking for honest perspectives from people who’ve been through this mentally and found ways to keep going.
I've never been a looksmaxxer, so I'm just content to sit back and watch the show.
 
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understand that not everyone lives a complete life in all aspects. Some people have disabilities, some people are born in slums, some people are orphans, etc. All you can do is try to make up for your shortcomings through focusing on improving what's in your control. Life sucks but we all have to make the most of what we have and try to build the best possible future for ourselves and the people we care about.
 
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understand that not everyone lives a complete life in all aspects. Some people have disabilities, some people are born in slums, some people are orphans, etc. All you can do is try to make up for your shortcomings through focusing on improving what's in your control. Life sucks but we all have to make the most of what we have and try to build the best possible future for ourselves and the people we care about.
Even if you do mog in the future.
The mogging brings in the haters/copers (naturally the cause of attracting attention = being attractive).
Even Amnesia gets shit from literal sub 5s death tier people here.
 
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Even if you do mog in the future.
The mogging brings in the haters/copers (naturally the cause of attracting attention = being attractive).
Even Amnesia gets shit from literal sub 5s death tier people here.
I'm too old for my face to significantly change at this point. I've made peace with my LTN life and I'm just focusing on making money and retiring my parents
 
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I'm too old for my face to significantly change at this point. I've made peace with my LTN life and I'm just focusing on making money and retiring my parents
If you've really tried your hardest (idk what've you've done looksmax wise).
No reason to not wave the white flag.
Focus on other shit that fulfills you as a human being.
Also very based for caring about your family (and not some dumb foid).
 
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I focus on building genuine relationships with people and overall trying to be more caring and likeable
 
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I’ve been struggling with how much looksmaxxing culture has exploded lately. With “looksflation” getting worse every year, it feels like the bar for attractiveness keeps rising while my own genetics feel… lacking.

Because of that, I’ve kind of accepted that finding love might be a long shot for me, at least for a while. My plan has been to focus on making money and improving my lifestyle since that seems like the only lever I can reliably pull.

But I’m curious how others in similar situations cope.

How do you deal with feeling like you were dealt a bad genetic hand?

How do you handle the idea that you might not find love or companionship anytime soon?

I’m genuinely looking for honest perspectives from people who’ve been through this mentally and found ways to keep going.
my height
 
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