How do y'all even make friends?

[larpslayer1488]

I struggle with making new friends. I only have and had one bro that I've known since kindergarten, and I trust him with my life, but it's so fucking hard making new friends. No matter how hard I try, nobody wants to talk w me, and it's not just real life I can't make friends online because I'm an unsociable piece of shit.
I genuinely need tips on ts.

 

[abzz!]

i can be your friend man

 

[larpslayer1488]

i can be your friend man

hell yeah

 

[Joeseminate]

Shit on them

 

[easternpill]

I struggle with making new friends. I only have and had one bro that I've known since kindergarten, and I trust him with my life, but it's so fucking hard making new friends. No matter how hard I try, nobody wants to talk w me, and it's not just real life I can't make friends online because I'm an unsociable piece of shit.
I genuinely need tips on ts.

How old are you? Just registered for a sport or sum if you ain’t in school

 

[mcmentalonthemic]

Bro, making friends is something you fall into
It's naturally easy
Like 2 magnets hitting each other, it needs no push, they just connect [unless they're too weak to, then it isn't meant to be]
If you're finding hard making friends
Then you're probably aspie
And it's over
You should probably get support for your neurodivergency

 

[Panchitosbroncs]

dunno. the only friends I have tried a year to be my friend so idk

 

[abzz!]

hell yeah

the thing about friendships irl, you just have to be relatable. adjust your humour and conversation to the people you want to be friends with. like, a big black dude who plays basketball isn't gonna find the n word funny or wanna speak about femboys. weird example but you get the point

 

[rraymond]

I struggle with making new friends. I only have and had one bro that I've known since kindergarten, and I trust him with my life, but it's so fucking hard making new friends. No matter how hard I try, nobody wants to talk w me, and it's not just real life I can't make friends online because I'm an unsociable piece of shit.
I genuinely need tips on ts.

yea man real
i envy those who get to be normal and fit in with 0 effort but i get completely ignored no matter what and treated like im not human because my brain works different
ive lost most of my past friends
i cant talk to people like i just cant

 

[larpslayer1488]

How old are you? Just registered for a sport or sum if you ain’t in school

i am in school and the bro i mentioned is my classmate but i cant make new friends from my classmates and i also go to gym but don't have time to socialize

 

[larpslayer1488]

the thing about friendships irl, you just have to be relatable. adjust your humour and conversation to the people you want to be friends with. like, a big black dude who plays basketball isn't gonna find the n word funny or wanna speak about femboys. weird example but you get the point

i get yo point but i can't have conversations with people i'm awkward as fuck even though I've improved my looks i can't unfuck my confidence

 

[tunisianropemaxxer]

I struggle with making new friends. I only have and had one bro that I've known since kindergarten, and I trust him with my life, but it's so fucking hard making new friends. No matter how hard I try, nobody wants to talk w me, and it's not just real life I can't make friends online because I'm an unsociable piece of shit.
I genuinely need tips on ts.

Just talk to people man
I litteraly have friends that are uber drivers pushing 30
just talk to people

 

[larpslayer1488]

Bro, making friends is something you fall into
It's naturally easy
Like 2 magnets hitting each other, it needs no push, they just connect [unless they're too weak to, then it isn't meant to be]
If you're finding hard making friends
Then you're probably aspie
And it's over
You should probably get support for your neurodivergency

yeah neurodivergency might be the problem

 

[abzz!]

i get yo point but i can't have conversations with people i'm awkward as fuck even though I've improved my looks i can't unfuck my confidence

instead of going to group settings, it's easier to communicate one to one. if you're in class just make some shitty excuses to speak to someone. im sure there are plenty of guides and tutorials to larp nt and be a good friend

 

[larpslayer1488]

instead of going to group settings, it's easier to communicate one to one. if you're in class just make some shitty excuses to speak to someone. im sure there are plenty of guides and tutorials to larp nt and be a good friend

it's about time i larp nt on professional level

 

[sub5_needhelp]

Be attractive

 

[abzz!]

it's about time i larp nt on professional level

good luck i wish you the best my new friend

 

[CD34]

I struggle with making new friends. I only have and had one bro that I've known since kindergarten, and I trust him with my life, but it's so fucking hard making new friends. No matter how hard I try, nobody wants to talk w me, and it's not just real life I can't make friends online because I'm an unsociable piece of shit.
I genuinely need tips on ts.

Extremely difficult im carried by day one friends

 

[abzz!]

Be attractive

su retard

 

[larpslayer1488]

Extremely difficult im carried by day one friends

Day ones are goated

 

[kwk3998]

I struggle with making new friends. I only have and had one bro that I've known since kindergarten, and I trust him with my life, but it's so fucking hard making new friends. No matter how hard I try, nobody wants to talk w me, and it's not just real life I can't make friends online because I'm an unsociable piece of shit.
I genuinely need tips on ts.

The only reason I’ve made new friends is that I have an OG Friend group and I meet mutual friends thru them. I don’t go out of my way to talk to new ppl tho

 

[sub5_needhelp]

it’s the truth especially in high school

 

[xzylecrey]

You will not click with a lot of people so you dont want to force it and blame it on you when you guys simply had way different interests humour etc. I wouldnt actively seek friends out but if im going out maybe ill start a convo or ask a question to the guy next to me and if he seems annoyed or bothered ill end the convo after that. Did you mean irl or online cus online theres no rules really just be nice.

 

[xzylecrey]

dunno. the only friends I have tried a year to be my friend so idk

Meanwhile ours took 1 jfl reaction were goated twin

 

[rraymond]

yeah neurodivergency might be the problem

yeah man it's a curse
completely fucks you up socially

 

[idnap]

I struggle with making new friends. I only have and had one bro that I've known since kindergarten, and I trust him with my life, but it's so fucking hard making new friends. No matter how hard I try, nobody wants to talk w me, and it's not just real life I can't make friends online because I'm an unsociable piece of shit.
I genuinely need tips on ts.

hop on beats i prod

 

[Panchitosbroncs]

Meanwhile ours took 1 jfl reaction were goated twin

frfr

 

[larpslayer1488]

You will not click with a lot of people so you dont want to force it and blame it on you when you guys simply had way different interests humour etc. I wouldnt actively seek friends out but if im going out maybe ill start a convo or ask a question to the guy next to me and if he seems annoyed or bothered ill end the convo after that. Did you mean irl or online cus online theres no rules really just be nice.

i really struggle with both, online I've made 2 friends my entire life and both of them snaked me in less than 2 years. i only have one real friend and ive had him for 10+ years

 

[C3PO]

everyone gets bored of you eventually. all will just move on and dump u

 

[trump]

everyone gets bored of you eventually. all will just move on and dump u

exactly. having friends is so fake at least on the internet

 

[xzylecrey]

i really struggle with both, online I've made 2 friends my entire life and both of them snaked me in less than 2 years. i only have one real friend and ive had him for 10+ years

good old saying id rather have 4 quarters than 100 pennies. Anyway for irl the first thing is just exposing yourself to people if you mostly stay inside you wont have friends. If your always out then your probably gonna interact more with people even not on purpose just by being out and about. Its exposure and practice, the practice being experience. For online im not really sure its kind of either
1.be nice
2. Be funny
3. Be relateable
4. Take initiative
5. Listen
But if you think abt it these also translate to real life so socialising is just those things

 

[Outlander]

I haven't made a new friend in many years. Was hard enough in school but once you're in your 20s then it gets exponentially harder. Can't tell you much advice because I can't socialize easily