How do you actually go about trying to get a gf

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I'm 17 now and rarely speak to girls and I feel like I should start trying to but I just don't know how to.

I just don't have any reason to spark up a convo with one so I genuinely don't understand how people do
 
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Gfs are just a waste of time, spend your time doing smth productive

It will never end up in marriage
 
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show her your rep count on .org and she'll fall in love
 
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Gfs are just a waste of time, spend your time doing smth productive

It will never end up in marriage
There's nothing to do that's productive in life tbhtbh
 
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Gfs are just a waste of time, spend your time doing smth productive

It will never end up in marriage
I'm bricked up 24/7 and I need a living outlet, It would also be nice to hang out with one even if it doesn't end up in marriage the memories will still be there
 
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There's nothing to do that's productive in life tbhtbh
True to an extent but learning about making money online would be way more beneficial for instance

Would actually benefit you in the long run
 
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I feel like right now you should not get a gf the only thing I care about in a gf is personally and her not being sub 3 but the personality is the deciding factor for me and I'd rather not have a gf than have one in this day and age
 
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True to an extent but learning about making money online would be way more beneficial for instance
Ah well yeah if you don't have a fair amount of money or are in shitty shape physically there are productive things to do
 
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I feel like right now you should not get a gf the only thing I care about in a gf is personally and her not being sub 3 but the personality is the deciding factor for me and I'd rather not have a gf than have one in this day and age
BoogaBooga

She's the worst pick in Toradora btw
^- VN she is under Minori by a long shot
 
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Exposure therapy and gradually getting more comfortable with bitches, at some point you will get so good your actions rn will seem comical.

They love having guy friends to string along so you can try just befriending some sluts and talking to them and going from there. Eventually you can start flirting with them and shit even if they turn you down who cares there's so many other bitches.

Eventually you'll find one that's into you. Just be nice to her for a couple of weeks and she'll let you hit ez
 
It should happen effortlessly ngl, the fact youre acknowledging this means something my be wrong bro(your looks)
 
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you don't try it comes effortlessly lol
 
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Exposure therapy and gradually getting more comfortable with bitches, at some point you will get so good your actions rn will seem comical.

They love having guy friends to string along so you can try just befriending some sluts and talking to them and going from there.
But how do I befriend them
 
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show her your rep count on .org and she'll fall in love
my girl knows abt .org:feelswhy:
I'm 17 now and rarely speak to girls and I feel like I should start trying to but I just don't know how to.

I just don't have any reason to spark up a convo with one so I genuinely don't understand how people do
snapchat bru just start adding bitches(that yk so u dont get with no slut) and snapping them and if ygs go back and forth then js start a convo
 
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But how do I befriend them
Hand On Shoulder GIF
 
my girl knows abt .org:feelswhy:

snapchat bru just start adding bitches(that yk so u dont get with no slut) and snapping them and if ygs go back and forth then js start a convo
I have hundreds of girls added on snap. the problem is that if I snap one they will tell their whole friend group, I feel like that only works if ur good looking
 
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@Big Boss and @Jason Voorhees have both said things along the lines of entering friend groups and, through proximity and time, becoming close with them and finding a way from that.

I've been wondering the same thing, but of course the importance of looks, even just to get your foot in the door, cannot be overstated.
 
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@Big Boss and @Jason Voorhees have both said things along the lines of entering friend groups and, through proximity and time, becoming close with them and finding a way from that.

I've been wondering the same thing, but of course the importance of looks, even just to get your foot in the door, cannot be overstated.
Lets think autistically since that helps most .org users.

Ltn who puts up pure numbers will find a gf

Htn who rots on .org 24/7 at home wont find a gf

Beet advice is get offline
 
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Lets think autistically since that helps most .org users.

Ltn who puts up pure numbers will find a gf

Htn who rots on .org 24/7 at home wont find a gf

Beet advice is get offline
i never interacted with that thread of yours which was titled something like the importance of getting off social media for mental health, but i've been thinking about it a lot recently because instagram makes my oneitis fevers so FUCKING PAINFUL

i'm not actively working towards getting off it, but i learned the hard way how bad it can get for you
 
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Lets think autistically since that helps most .org users.

Ltn who puts up pure numbers will find a gf

Htn who rots on .org 24/7 at home wont find a gf

Beet advice is get offline
Htn has the girls coming to him
 
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having you tried raping them
 
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Just have a large social circle with lots of girls in them and eventually as you socialize with them and spend more time with some of them. You will get approached by one of the girls without you trying. You can also approach girls and get a gf by numbers game but that's a form of self humilation. So warm approach is the best
 

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