How do you approach tinder dates?

[DildoFaggins]

Could someone give me an aspie guide on how to acutally approach/introduce yourself to a girl for the first time after matching on dating apps? I want to try them out but I'm so high inhib it's insane. Mentalceldom is truly brutal, can only talk to foids when severely inebriated in the clubs. Are you supposed to hug them? Shake hands? Fucking brutal for autist genetic failures like me. I'm afraid I will manage to totally fraud online and get good matches thanks to my height only to be a complete embarrasment when meeting irl due to social retardation.

 

[Willmogulater]

Could someone give me an aspie guide on how to acutally approach/introduce yourself to a girl for the first time after matching on dating apps? I want to try them out but I'm so high inhib it's insane. Mentalceldom is truly brutal, can only talk to foids when severely inebriated in the clubs. Are you supposed to hug them? Shake hands? Fucking brutal for autist genetic failures like me. I'm afraid I will manage totally fraud online and get good matches thanks to my height only to be a complete embarrasment when meeting irl due to social retardation.

Drugs before date

 

[DildoFaggins]

Drugs before date

yeah I'm thinking some beta blockers to avoid a panic attack and some phenibut to loosen me up but it doesn't solve the fact that I have zero social skills.

 

[DildoFaggins]

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[Napoleon de Geso]

Ask about Kemono Friends

 

[DildoFaggins]

Ask about Kemono Friends

nfdl, this is life or death for me

 

[Napoleon de Geso]

nfdl, this is life or death for me

No life without kemono friends

 

[apocalypse]

Just be yourself
But srs hugging them is best

 

[ReinhardRacist]

nfdl, this is life or death for me

Over for you, too nervous to approach. Is your fashion not enough my nigga

 

[IanIachimoe2491]

yeah I'm thinking some beta blockers to avoid a panic attack and some phenibut to loosen me up but it doesn't solve the fact that I have zero social skills.

idk just try to be urself, as bullshit as it sounds if they went out with you and found you attractive in the first place they should put up with you and anyway later into the date both of you should be more comfortable to talk I feel like.

and a major part of not sperging out in a conversation is getting into a social flow before, just like example saying have a nice day to the store clerk, having a quick conversation with your neighbor or calling a someone you know on phone.

 

[DildoFaggins]

Appreciate the advice

a major part of not sperging out in a conversation is getting into a social flow before, just like example saying have a nice day to the store clerk, having a quick conversation with your neighbor or calling a someone you know on phone.

This is rough for me. Been on one date previously and what happened was that my social "masking" kicked in and I was bascially just talking to her in the same way as I would on a job interview. Very non-intimidating/dominant and way too polite, think it was a big turn off. I think I need therapy tbh.

 

[IanIachimoe2491]

Just be yourself
But srs hugging them is best

oh yeah and I heard that you should initiate physical contact with first impression on a date just like jokingly lightly punching each other or lightly pushing each other as a joke and if she is into you she will want to be closer to you (seemingly on accident) so I think a hug might be the best option for greeting Ig

 

[IanIachimoe2491]

Appreciate the advice


This is rough for me. Been on one date previously and what happened was that my social "masking" kicked in and I was bascially just talking to her in the same way as I would on a job interview. Very non-intimidating/dominant and way too polite, think it was a big turn off. I think I need therapy tbh.

I feel u, I havent had much social interaction as a kid and was always the outcast and im "not normal" compared to others aswell, though imo therapy is bullshit its just jews making money off u

 

[DildoFaggins]

I feel u, I havent had much social interaction as a kid and was always the outcast and im "not normal" compared to others aswell, though imo therapy is bullshit its just jews making money off u

probably true, I think the best way to go about it is probably to get ugly foid friends that don't make you as nervous since you're not interested in them. That way you can interact with them and slowly but surely get used to interacting with women in general.

 

[Deleted member 45942]

Could someone give me an aspie guide on how to acutally approach/introduce yourself to a girl for the first time after matching on dating apps? I want to try them out but I'm so high inhib it's insane. Mentalceldom is truly brutal, can only talk to foids when severely inebriated in the clubs. Are you supposed to hug them? Shake hands? Fucking brutal for autist genetic failures like me. I'm afraid I will manage to totally fraud online and get good matches thanks to my height only to be a complete embarrasment when meeting irl due to social retardation.

Cheek kiss

 

[DildoFaggins]

Cheek kiss

 

[Deleted member 45942]

Cucked by your custom

 

[DildoFaggins]

Cucked by your custom

wym custom

 

[Deleted member 45942]

wym custom

traditions of your country, here we kiss each other on the cheeks to greet people

 

[DildoFaggins]

traditions of your country, here we kiss each other on the cheeks to greet people

Where?

 

[Deleted member 45942]

Where?

Eu

 

[Deleted member 20370]

grab them by the pussy

 

[DildoFaggins]

@fluoxetine So do I

 

[OGJBSLAYER]

Pull out your dick and ask her to suck on it

Never fails

 

[DildoFaggins]

Pull out your dick and ask her to suck on it

Never fails

Nfdl

 

[Deleted member 5467]

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