How do you ask for the number of a girl serving you at a cafe, shop etc?

[Deleted member 16501]

 

[Deleted member 16501]

Bumo

 

[DwayneWhite55]

Is that your voice

 

[Deleted member 16501]

Is that your voice

Yea

 

[poopmaster22]

You’ll probably tell me what I’m gonna say is retarded so I’ll withhold that info

 

[Deleted member 15004]

@TeenAscender is this an ultra-NT accent and speaking style

 

[LightSkinNoob]

It’s not an IOI it’s their job

 

[TeenAscender]

@TeenAscender is this an ultra-NT accent and speaking style

hella NT sounds like a tall fat good pheno'd aussie definetely the goofy guy in NT events nam syain

 

[DwayneWhite55]

It’s not an IOI it’s their job

I work in customer service ,and I have to be fake nice to everyone most the time unless they are an asshole.

I wouldn't call any girl in customer service a ioi whatever that means,even a lot of women have learned to flirt for tips. I'm not saying picking up a waitress or cashier would be impossible, but you got to be seen as attractive.

Oh and on the reverse side I've had women call me babe, or act extra nice with flirty eye contact before. And I've made a move and they still say oh I have a boyfriend.

 

[Deleted member 16501]

It’s not an IOI it’s their job

Possibly but I'm not certain about this because when women aren't attracted to me they have no trouble being very rude and dismissive I've seen it with myself and other men. This is exactly what I'm trying to find out

 

[Deleted member 16501]

You’ll probably tell me what I’m gonna say is retarded so I’ll withhold that info

Go ahead.

 

[Oberyn]

The only ioi is when a girl approaches you.

 

[Bonez]

The only ioi is when a girl approaches you.

trust me eye contact is enough , if she keep looking or a least keep eye contact for 3 sec then go approach also focus on her facial expression , today i got 3 numbers from iois and i approached first

 

[Deleted member 16501]

trust me eye contact is enough , if she keep looking or a least keep eye contact for 3 sec then go approach also focus on her facial expression , today i got 3 numbers from iois and i approached first

You see guys, THIS is a user who actually gets the whole picture.

Thanks man, really appreciate it. I gotta show the same courage and start approaching

You approach with "I noticed your facial expression was ___, it looks like you are in a ___ mood"?

 

[Bonez]

You see guys, THIS is a user who actually gets the whole picture.

yeah cause if she's not interested or have someone she wouldn't even look at you ''invisible to her ''

I gotta show the same courage and start approaching

only approach from iois or otherwise you gon face a lot of rejection , practice & time makes anyone a low inhib mogger

You approach with "I noticed your facial expression was ___, it looks like you are in a ___ mood"?

No i approached with ''hey''how you doing "" you look beautiful what's your name '' basic shit , also don't extend the convo more than 2 min , exchange infos and leave

 

[germanlooks]

Tell her she only gets a tip of she gives you her number

 

[AlexBrown84]

Why ask for number when Instagram exists. It’s not 2005 no more

 

[Deleted member 16501]

Why ask for number when Instagram exists. It’s not 2005 no more

I am not good looking, don't have a good body, and I have no social life

 

[6’1cel]

by being gl

 

[6’1cel]

I am not good looking, don't have a good body, and I have no social life

then dont ask.
she will never call u or add u back on snap

 

[Deleted member 17578]

It's honestly sad that a lot of men have to ask stuff like this instead of just doing it and not giving a fuck.

Society has truly dissapointed in male development.

 

[linkcel]

you sound like a boomer oldcel

 

[hebbewem]

She is nice because its her job. If you want her number go their often and if she likes you she will ask