how do you bring yourself to do shit

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i literally wake up and lie in bed for 5 hours before getting up scrolling because i have nothing to look forward to. i want to lock in and take steps toward ascending but i just cant bring myself to do anything. im totally stuck in inaction. How are all of you taking steps to ascending? How are you making yourself take action? Is it because you have friends? i dont so maybe thats the problem i also have dysfunctional family. I dont know what to do i am totally socially isolated and i also cant bring myself to do anything. Do i seek therapy? Take medicines that make you do shit? SHould i try mushrooms? I dont even feel pain anymore somehow i feel a comfortableness in waking up and doing nothing all day deep down if im being honest.

I dont understand how my life got to this point genueinly i dont get it i used to have NT friends and everything and now im 19 alone no job no education i sit at home do nothing all day cant bring myself to do anything.

how to do shit? should i do therapy or is that cope. is there any drugs i can take to make myself do shit and not be lazy
 
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Nothing the earth will forever stay shit you just have to cope with it and get on with life that’s my advice
 
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Same man I have the most important exam of my life coming up in October and I haven't even studied anything at all. My teachers even threatened to kick me out of the class because I'm not serious
 
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worst part is looking yourself in the mirror knowing your not even subhuman your a 6 foot 4 recessed lmtn-mmtn. i dont know what the fuck is wrong with me everybody else my age around me is so normal

i dont even have friends on this forum like most people in my situation would

i literally have negative rep ratio rofl
 
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Same man I have the most important exam of my life coming up in October and I haven't even studied anything at all. My teachers even threatened to kick me out of the class because I'm not serious
im starting my GED in october lol (unless i find a job or soemthing) (probably wont)

i would tell you to push through but that would be hypocritical as i would probably do the exact same thing tbh



i've sort of i think realized that its easier for "normal" people to be productive because they look good, have social gatherings to look forward to at the end of the weekend, etc

its almost impossible for people like us to be productive since we have no reward system. So unless we are forced to do shit from the outside like a slave we just do nothing
 
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im starting my GED in october lol (unless i find a job or soemthing) (probably wont)

i would tell you to push through but that would be hypocritical as i would probably do the exact same thing tbh



i've sort of i think realized that its easier for "normal" people to be productive because they look good, have social gatherings to look forward to at the end of the weekend, etc

its almost impossible for people like us to be productive since we have no reward system. So unless we are forced to do shit from the outside like a slave we just do nothing
I have my A-Levels in October

Lowk being introduced to these looksmaxxing/BP communities have definitely affected my mental health by a bit. I used to be super disciplined and productive but I legit feel worthless these days and LDAR all day. I don't even enjoy anything I do throughout the day but I keep autopiloting for some reason.

Yeah I definitely agree on that part. Everything feels pointless to do because I genuinely look forward to nothing in my life anymore.
 
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i literally wake up and lie in bed for 5 hours before getting up scrolling because i have nothing to look forward to. i want to lock in and take steps toward ascending but i just cant bring myself to do anything. im totally stuck in inaction. How are all of you taking steps to ascending? How are you making yourself take action? Is it because you have friends? i dont so maybe thats the problem i also have dysfunctional family. I dont know what to do i am totally socially isolated and i also cant bring myself to do anything. Do i seek therapy? Take medicines that make you do shit? SHould i try mushrooms? I dont even feel pain anymore somehow i feel a comfortableness in waking up and doing nothing all day deep down if im being honest.

I dont understand how my life got to this point genueinly i dont get it i used to have NT friends and everything and now im 19 alone no job no education i sit at home do nothing all day cant bring myself to do anything.

how to do shit? should i do therapy or is that cope. is there any drugs i can take to make myself do shit and not be lazy
Vyvanse or adderall helps
 
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I have zero friends and I constantly do all the shit I need to do everyday

I simply have insomnia, if I do nothing all day I simply don't even sleep at night

and rotting always feels bad to me, I feel better mentally when I move my body
 
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I have my A-Levels in October

Lowk being introduced to these looksmaxxing/BP communities have definitely affected my mental health by a bit. I used to be super disciplined and productive but I legit feel worthless these days and LDAR all day. I don't even enjoy anything I do throughout the day but I keep autopiloting for some reason.

Yeah I definitely agree on that part. Everything feels pointless to do because I genuinely look forward to nothing in my life anymore.
yeah when one used to be bluepilled you had that NT drive for real. I wish i could have kept that somehow. ive always struggled with discipline though

good for you having the autopilot i dont even have that :ROFLMAO:

how to download autopilot i need it
 
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I have zero friends and I constantly do all the shit I need to do everyday

I simply have insomnia, if I do nothing all day I simply don't even sleep at night

and rotting always feels bad to me, I feel better mentally when I move my body
wish i was like this
 
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I dont do shit
 
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i literally wake up and lie in bed for 5 hours before getting up scrolling because i have nothing to look forward to. i want to lock in and take steps toward ascending but i just cant bring myself to do anything. im totally stuck in inaction. How are all of you taking steps to ascending? How are you making yourself take action? Is it because you have friends? i dont so maybe thats the problem i also have dysfunctional family. I dont know what to do i am totally socially isolated and i also cant bring myself to do anything. Do i seek therapy? Take medicines that make you do shit? SHould i try mushrooms? I dont even feel pain anymore somehow i feel a comfortableness in waking up and doing nothing all day deep down if im being honest.

I dont understand how my life got to this point genueinly i dont get it i used to have NT friends and everything and now im 19 alone no job no education i sit at home do nothing all day cant bring myself to do anything.

how to do shit? should i do therapy or is that cope. is there any drugs i can take to make myself do shit and not be lazy
U COULD to therapy for professional advice.

Or you could listen to stupid 15 year olds like me who doesn't have any friends. :lul:

1. Try getting real sun for the first 30 mins of the day to REALLY wake yourself up.

2. Don't go on your phone until you had breakfast and maybe coffee for more energy over the day (with 300-400 mgs of caffeine.)

3. Set sum goals for the day.
Try learning stuff like coding. Skills like coding will be helpful for you whole life.
There's so many things to do. Find something that you wanna lern.

4. Act like shit is rainbow and sunshine
Jusy coping and acting like life is sunshine and rainbows dosent make it better.
But neither does it make it worse. :feelshmm:

5. Join sum random discord server
Even if they aren't your "real friends".
its still better talking yo SOMEONE then to Noone.

6. Get rid of bad habits
(stop listening to incel music.)
And find any kind kf habits that makes you feel worse.

I dont do most of those myself, cuz im in a shit state of my life (pretty much always been.:feelswhy:)
 
You're living the ideal life, "ascending" and "taking action" is just goyim propaganda

Keep doing what you're doing
 
U COULD to therapy for professional advice.

Or you could listen to stupid 15 year olds like me who doesn't have any friends. :lul:

1. Try getting real sun for the first 30 mins of the day to REALLY wake yourself up.

2. Don't go on your phone until you had breakfast and maybe coffee for more energy over the day (with 300-400 mgs of caffeine.)

3. Set sum goals for the day.
Try learning stuff like coding. Skills like coding will be helpful for you whole life.
There's so many things to do. Find something that you wanna lern.

4. Act like shit is rainbow and sunshine
Jusy coping and acting like life is sunshine and rainbows dosent make it better.
But neither does it make it worse. :feelshmm:

5. Join sum random discord server
Even if they aren't your "real friends".
its still better talking yo SOMEONE then to Noone.

6. Get rid of bad habits
(stop listening to incel music.)
And find any kind kf habits that makes you feel worse.

I dont do most of those myself, cuz im in a shit state of my life (pretty much always been.:feelswhy:)
What the actual fuck did I just read

Back to reddit faggot
 
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U COULD to therapy for professional advice.

Or you could listen to stupid 15 year olds like me who doesn't have any friends. :lul:

1. Try getting real sun for the first 30 mins of the day to REALLY wake yourself up.

2. Don't go on your phone until you had breakfast and maybe coffee for more energy over the day (with 300-400 mgs of caffeine.)

3. Set sum goals for the day.
Try learning stuff like coding. Skills like coding will be helpful for you whole life.
There's so many things to do. Find something that you wanna lern.

4. Act like shit is rainbow and sunshine
Jusy coping and acting like life is sunshine and rainbows dosent make it better.
But neither does it make it worse. :feelshmm:

5. Join sum random discord server
Even if they aren't your "real friends".
its still better talking yo SOMEONE then to Noone.

6. Get rid of bad habits
(stop listening to incel music.)
And find any kind kf habits that makes you feel worse.

I dont do most of those myself, cuz im in a shit state of my life (pretty much always been.:feelswhy:)
i already know most of this but cant bring myself to do anything
 
dont know how to
It has to become part of your routine.
I have started going to the gym recently and its still kinda annoying cuz I went from doing nothing all day to going to the gym 5 times a week for over 2 hrs.

But I've noticed feeling ans looking better so I keep going :feelshmm:
 
It has to become part of your routine.
I have started going to the gym recently and its still kinda annoying cuz I went from doing nothing all day to going to the gym 5 times a week for over 2 hrs.

But I've noticed feeling ans looking better so I keep going :feelshmm:
ait good luck
 

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