Who gives a fck if you weren’t he first And took her virginity? It only matters that you are her first choice. As in favorite. If she has a bf and drops him for me I’m first choice. Nice. On the other hand if her bf drops her and then she try’s to score with me I’m second choice. Fck off with that btch. I wouldn’t allow that shit
Surprised you mentioned LTR, most guys are against LTRs and just wanna have sex with different women for the rest of their lives.
i actually like LTRs a lot, i want someone good quality that i can spend my life with. i'm generally not interested in sex unless im emotionally attracted. the only time when i'd hookup is if i've given up on finding an ltr, bored, or if the woman isnt good quality
Yeap LTRS for me as well.
It's funny because LTR isn't coping at all. It's extremely hard to find someone that's physically/mentally attractive and that you can stay together for long. Most "slayers" do indeed slay trash women as the good quality ones don't sleep around a lot. Also, slaying is cope. Most men who lack the self-confidence to find a woman he actually likes ends up sleeping around with women he doesn't like to cope with the fact that he's lonely and needs an ego boost. Same for women who sleep around. They claim they don't want LTR because chad won't LTR them.
Couldn't agree any more. Spitting facts.
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She won’t be my first either. So it’s a wash.
but you're chad bro
Generally, there's no cut rule. You should look at how she acts instead of worrying about what she says or did in the past. If she lies that's a red flag anyway.
It depends. Virgins can be extremely malleable. If she likes you the way that she should then she will be very eager to do it the way you like. She'll think whatever you're into is normal. You can show her porn to give her an idea while guiding/shaping her to be whatever you want her to become. If you know what you're doing a virgin is just a blank slate that's eager to please.
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Agreed , I couldn't imagine myself banging a random girl from craiglist without having any solid emotional connection with her too.
Yeah. That's true. You see someone as physically attractive based on the emotional connection you have with them. You'd only be attracted to someone based on looks alone if they're PSL 7+.
Comparing a high quality man and a high quality women the matches aren't likely to be similar tbh unless the guy had a "man whore " phase in his teens.
just larp as virgin theory
What are you saying, that they aren't virgin anymore, they have documents from doctors, you could probably check them too first...
ok but what does being virgins has to do with this?
I don't believe a man can be fulfilled with just sex alone with random women. No matter how hard they try to say they're happy with it, I think most just cope with the fact that they can't land the women they want long term wise, so they just 'slay' low quality sluts as @whitecel slayed.
She doesn't have to be a virgin. Having experience is better for hookups. And if it's LTR, as long as she doesn't sleep around, her not being a virgin isn't a bad thing. It's a useless thing to look into. Just look at their actual personality instead. Animals are gonna be animals regardless of whether you want someone to be a virgin or not.
There's something to this as well. Ideally, I'd have both. But best would be stealing a girl from her bf before she loses it to him and then beating the fuck out of him when confronted
no one is any girls first
