How do you cope with not being enough?

[germanlooks]

Seriously how do you cope with this?
The fact that you need to improve your looks, that you need to search for dating advice, that you need to force yourself to be more confident and better your personality etc.

All this just to get what you should get completely naturally: a girlfriend, female attention etc.

Other men get this without even thinking about it or changing anything but you have to change your whole character and body because your aren’t enough the way you are.

 

[BigBiceps]

You either learn to cope or have your genetics WIPED OUT! Nature doesn't forgive.

 

[ageistheblackestpill]

Shut up you’re 6’3

 

[Deleted member 4430]

There is no point in worrying about it, it's hard, but 99% of people cant influence it in any way, because some random genetic dice roll and the current aesthetic requirements have decided for you anyway. There is still no one formula to make you like by everyone.

In my opinion, the worst thing is to have a legitimate disability, deformity, mental health problems when your IQ is high enough to be able to perceive emotional perceptions, because thats a real game over when you are dependent on others and most functions or social, physical activities are like far far fantasy idea.

 

[sorrowfulsad]

Seriously how do you cope with this?
The fact that you need to improve your looks, that you need to search for dating advice, that you need to force yourself to be more confident and better your personality etc.

All this just to get what you should get completely naturally: a girlfriend, female attention etc.

Other men get this without even thinking about it or changing anything but you have to change your whole character and body because your aren’t enough the way you are.

coping with mental illness rn