Discussion How do you date a girl while knowing that is all about looks? (1 Viewer)

[John Cracovizk]

When I dated a girl that asked me out, I already knew a little bit about the blackpill and when I was out with her I was just trying to have a good time, but she just rubbed it in my face all the theory I see here.

Told me about a guy she rejected because he was short while laughing, I wore a "mask" and laughed along, but deep inside (I think because I'm not in the tall zone and also the ventings that some short men wrote that I've read) I felt some empathy for the short guy I didn't knew. Like, height is just cards given, and is hard af (almost impossible) to change. Also, she would talk about how she felt attraction to me because she thought I was like her (in appearence) so our kids would be look like her.

How do you just enjoy a date while knowing that all that matters is looks? Like, man, if I looked like someone else or was short like that guy she would NEVER be with me, relationships are fake as fuck, there is no such thing as love.

I think my problem is that I don't see my appearence as ME, that's just my body that I didn't even had the chance to choose, it's the cards I was given. Me = my mind, if I had a robot body I still would think of me as me.

Please, tell me, do you just ignore that and try to forget the theory to enjoy a date? Or you don't listen to any of their shit and just fuck them and leave?

 

[SidharthTheSlayer]

Dnrd ur blog but nice avi

 

[John Cracovizk]

Dnrd ur blog but nice avi

Thanks, and well if you don't want to read all of the text, just answer the title, I think it's enough.

 

[Dr. Bludy]

Ez u dont

 

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[John Cracovizk]

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When I'm here I mostly read.

 

[Gonthar]

Told me about a guy she rejected because he was short while laughing, I wore a "mask" and laughed along, but deep inside (I think because I'm not in the tall zone and also the ventings that some short men wrote that I've read) I felt some empathy for the short guy I didn't knew.

She seems like a superficial bitch, it's probably better to avoid her.

she would talk about how she felt attraction to me because she thought I was like her (in appearence) so our kids would be look like her.

If you bang her, use a condom so she won't get pregnant

 

[John Cracovizk]

She seems like a superficial bitch, it's probably better to avoid her.

If you bang her, use a condom so she won't get pregnant

Not only I used a condom, made sure to dispose it myself. I will probably make a post talking about how important is not to trust woman with your seed.

 

[ChileanMaxxer]

You just embrace it, if she's dating you chances are that you're better looking than her so you should feel fine mogging her

 

[AngryShane]

How old is she, if you don't' mind me asking?

 

[brutalbull]

I understand your point, while it can be kinda hard to accept the fact that the girl you're dating is only into you for your looks and not for who you are, it's just a reality that you need to accept that most women are superficial in nature.

 

[John Cracovizk]

How old is she, if you don't' mind me asking?

I think 19

 

[AngryShane]

I think 19

This is normal. This is the age that looks matter the most for women due to them be at their peak of fertility...

 

[John Cracovizk]

I understand your point, while it can be kinda hard to accept the fact that the girl you're dating is only into you for your looks and not for who you are, it's just a reality that you need to accept that most women are superficial in nature.

You just embrace it, if she's dating you chances are that you're better looking than her so you should feel fine mogging her

You and Chilean had the similar idea of embracing and accepting reality, I agree with both of you. But knowing how shallow she was just killed the vibe I had of enjoying the date, even if she was cute, it's like seeing a dark side of her. I can go fuck her and shit, but talking to her after that just felt empty af, I'd rather just do something else than spending anymore time with her.

Chilean suggested having the thought "mog her and feel fine about it" but it just doesn't make me feel any better, but it may help someone else who reads this thread.

 

[John Cracovizk]

This is normal. This is the age that looks matter the most for women due to them be at their peak of fertility...

I don't think it gets any better the older they are, they just start valuing other superficial shit (money, status and etc)

 

[AlexBrown84]

live by the knife die by the knife

 

[Kamui]

Most young foids are all superficial besides looks lol, all they are is just holes for your usage, nothing past that nigga

 

[AngryShane]

I don't think it gets any better the older they are, they just start valuing other superficial shit (money, status and etc)

They start to date down in looks as the world begins to humble them...

 

[khvirgin]

By knowing that it's not all about looks

 

[Joe Rogancel]

all they are is just holes for your usage

This is why i'd rather be incel than stacy, at least i'm not just a toilet for chad to cum in.

 

[brutalbull]

You and Chilean had the similar idea of embracing and accepting reality, I agree with both of you. But knowing how shallow she was just killed the vibe I had of enjoying the date, even if she was cute, it's like seeing a dark side of her. I can go fuck her and shit, but talking to her after that just felt empty af, I'd rather just do something else than spending anymore time with her.

Chilean suggested having the thought "mog her and feel fine about it" but it just doesn't make me feel any better, but it may help someone else who reads this thread.

All women are inherently shallow. Some are very open about it and you'll instantly know it within five minutes of being with her, while others are good at hiding it and pretending that she is into you for who you are. You just need to find/do other stuff that makes you feel good and accept that women will never really care for who you are.

 

[John Cracovizk]

All women are inherently shallow. Some are very open about it and you'll instantly know it within five minutes of being with her, while others are good at hiding it and pretending that she is into you for who you are. You just need to find/do other stuff that makes you feel good and accept that women will never really care for who you are.

Yeah, I think that's the way it is, thanks for the advice.

 

[AngryShane]

All women are inherently shallow.

Humans are shallow...

 

[Shogun]

She is a redflag

 

[IAMNOTANINCEL]

She seems like a superficial bitch, it's probably better to avoid her.

all women are like this tho

 

[HOLYFUARK]

Yes but dont fool yourself, you also would take a STACY any day, men are just as shallow , if you hate women you also hate yourself .

 

[Guba]

I'm good looking so I don't worry too much.

 

[blackpillius]

how tall are you just out of curiosity

 

[John Cracovizk]

how tall are you just out of curiosity

5'9. But I don't live in USA and neither Europe. The short guy was like 5'3.

 

[blackpillius]

5'9. But I don't live in USA and neither Europe. The short guy was like 5'3.

same height, personally i havent been directly rejected for it that often so i dont think its that bad. did you claim 5'9 to her too?

 

[Eli]

5'3 is brutal

 

[John Cracovizk]

same height, personally i havent been directly rejected for it that often so i dont think its that bad. did you claim 5'9 to her too?

No, she didn't ask for my height

 

[blackpillius]

No, she didn't ask for my height

just to answer your question, i think it really depends on the girl. young girls are gonna be a lot more immature and also we as men judge a womens appearence too. im sure women dont just look at men just as robots and only mate with who is more attractive but yeah there are a lot of superficial women

 

[LampPostPrime]

For real tho. Embarrassing to admit but one of my fav activities before blackpill was romantic fantasies, but ever since blackpill they just feel fake and shallow.

 

[John Cracovizk]

For real tho. Embarrassing to admit but one of my fav activities before blackpill was romantic fantasies, but ever since blackpill they just feel fake and shallow.

Yeah, I've been searching a little bit and this concept may help you Idk

Suspension of disbelief - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

 

[Richard_Hungwell]

Well...I don't know...

I'm a short guy, so by default most women aren't into me...but there have been a few that were in my lifetime...

Basically, I've just learned to not question a good thing...and to know my limitations. Cold approach is absolutely brutal for short guys, but they may have some luck with warm approach from a social circle.

Everyone takes whatever advantages they have in life anyways... Some will be better off than you, some will be worse off. It's just how it is (unfortunately...or fortunately...depends how you see it). Just be happy with what you have.

 

[gribsufer1]

When I dated a girl that asked me out, I already knew a little bit about the blackpill and when I was out with her I was just trying to have a good time, but she just rubbed it in my face all the theory I see here.

Told me about a guy she rejected because he was short while laughing, I wore a "mask" and laughed along, but deep inside (I think because I'm not in the tall zone and also the ventings that some short men wrote that I've read) I felt some empathy for the short guy I didn't knew. Like, height is just cards given, and is hard af (almost impossible) to change. Also, she would talk about how she felt attraction to me because she thought I was like her (in appearence) so our kids would be look like her.

How do you just enjoy a date while knowing that all that matters is looks? Like, man, if I looked like someone else or was short like that guy she would NEVER be with me, relationships are fake as fuck, there is no such thing as love.

I think my problem is that I don't see my appearence as ME, that's just my body that I didn't even had the chance to choose, it's the cards I was given. Me = my mind, if I had a robot body I still would think of me as me.

Please, tell me, do you just ignore that and try to forget the theory to enjoy a date? Or you don't listen to any of their shit and just fuck them and leave?

id only date a girl who looks like me so its fair

 

[gribsufer1]

Like, man, if I looked like someone else or was short like that guy she would NEVER

the goal is to find someone like you? the gitl is super based here

 

[gribsufer1]

bro i only have a oneitis cos she looks like me? i wasnt swayed by her personality haha, i didnt even know her and fell in love, i told her this too , why tf do we need do all this fake shit when we can just rnjoy each others genetics wtf . im sute her personality is as good as any girls+ we have culture in common

 

[DarkLoner94]

Interesting

 

[John Cracovizk]

bro i only have a oneitis cos she looks like me? i wasnt swayed by her personality haha, i didnt even know her and fell in love, i told her this too , why tf do we need do all this fake shit when we can just rnjoy each others genetics wtf

Feels superficial to me, being superficial means my emotional investiment can be taken away if she finds another more good looking/better genetics guy, but that's just me, if you feel good then that's ok.

 

[gribsufer1]

Feels superficial to me, being superficial means my emotional investiment can be taken away if she finds another more good looking/better genetics guy, but that's just me, if you feel good then that's ok.

i somt think u unserstand you should aim to get the female you, youre lucky, the femsle me is cold to me , this girl will never leave you for a 'better" man , she thinks u r opposite gender version of her, unless shes delusional and doesnt look like u

 

[John Cracovizk]

i somt think u unserstand you should aim to get the female you, youre lucky, the femsle me is cold to me , this girl will never leave you for a 'better" man , she thinks u r opposite gender version of her, unless shes delusional and doesnt look like u

Wouldn't be so sure, maybe she saw me as her male version but I can't see myself on her.

 

[DarkLoner94]

Lucky, You have the magical powers of Chad.

 

[gribsufer1]

Wouldn't be so sure, maybe she saw me as her male version but I can't see myself on her.

dm pics?

 

[DarkLoner94]

i somt think u unserstand you should aim to get the female you, youre lucky, the femsle me is cold to me , this girl will never leave you for a 'better" man , she thinks u r opposite gender version of her, unless shes delusional and doesnt look like u

Your a chad right ?? could u give some of the attractive power.

 

[gribsufer1]

Your a chad right ?? could u give some of the attractive power.

im a mtn imo