How do you deal with resentment stemming from lookism?

[Danish_Retard]

Having gone from 110kg -> 80kg -> 100kg, the difference in how people treated me was fucking massive.

When I first lost 30kg I realised that it wasn't because I was socially retarded unloveable trash but just ugly, well the same thing really, but you get the point. And now that I became fat again because of depression and SSRI's people treat me like shit again.

How do you get past this resentment? It's hard to have empathy or even just connect with someone when people are like.

@larsanova69 @FailedNormieManlet idk other ascenders...

 

[Deleted member 17829]

you tagged failednormiemanlet as an ascender?

niggas like 22 and never kissed a girl

 

[Danish_Retard]

you tagged failednormiemanlet as an ascender?

niggas like 22 and never kissed a girl

He ascended in looks and socially.

Also please respect this for this thread, I'm trying to get some new perspectives here.

 

[Foreverbrad]

The worst part is that it's comparative not objective, so even though I am now at all time highs in my looks I'm treated worse than in the past because everyone is looksmaxing now and I had a bad base.

You can at least cope that you brought it on yourself by getting fat.

The only way out is looksmaxing, your brain will eventually rewire to be like a normie with enough positive reinforcement but if you're MTN or below that will never happen.

 

[Lev Peshkov]

Just looksmax unironically is your answer

And as for ur depression

 

[Deleted member 15977]

Be as cold and unbothered as this nigga

 

[Aesthetics_III]

have you ever tried to date or even be friends with a girl who looks hideous? Have you ever approached a land whale?

if no then realise your just the same as everyone else and you can’t blame someone for wanting to mind their business and not put in the effort with someone they don’t find attractive.

if you have done those things then RIP your mental health you’re too pure for this world

 

[Deleted member 14774]

Just have to accept that humans judge other humans based on everything, like financial status, race, etc.

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Having gone from 110kg -> 80kg -> 100kg, the difference in how people treated me was fucking massive.

When I first lost 30kg I realised that it wasn't because I was socially retarded unloveable trash but just ugly, well the same thing really, but you get the point. And now that I became fat again because of depression and SSRI's people treat me like shit again.

How do you get past this resentment? It's hard to have empathy or even just connect with someone when people are like.

@larsanova69 @FailedNormieManlet idk other ascenders...

It’s hell but forced me to embrace the BlackPill

I went from the guy girlsnused to chase in school to the invisible guy. I ascend from one haircut, a girl will always pop up when I upload a video on snap chat after a haircut EVERY TIME and I pull in nightclubs with ease. But whenever I haven’t had a haircut and I look unkempt I lose looks points and go to Normie level and the treatment is night and day Beckie’s are cold to me it’s hell

 

[Danish_Retard]

Just looksmax unironically is your answer

no shit lol, but I still can't stop viewing normies so negatively. But perhaps this is the solution lol, the first time when I lost weight it caused so much cognitive dissonance that I was suddenly treated good despite having the same social skills. Meanwhile now I have already experienced it so perhaps it wont effect me so negatively.

I've lost 5kg the last ~4 weeks, just 20 more weeks to go

have you ever tried to date or even be friends with a girl who looks hideous? Have you ever approached a land whale?

Never approached any girl, I've befriended very ugly people before, still did that when I wasn't fat myself. Looks never really influenced my decisions much... Then again I'm getting tested for autism because a psychiatrist thinks I have it.

Just have to accept that humans judge other humans based on everything, like financial status, race, etc.

Yeah it is what it is, I just can't help but too, judge people for this.

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Just have to accept that humans judge other humans based on everything, like financial status, race, etc.

Spoken like a true fire lord Ozai

 

[Deleted member 18840]

It’s hell but forced me to embrace the BlackPill

I went from the guy girlsnused to chase in school to the invisible guy. I ascend from one haircut, a girl will always pop up when I upload a video on snap chat after a haircut EVERY TIME and I pull in nightclubs with ease. But whenever I haven’t had a haircut and I look unkempt I lose looks points and go to Normie level and the treatment is night and day Beckie’s are cold to me it’s hell

What haircut n whats ur faceshape

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

What haircut n whats ur faceshape

Short back and sides hair on top spikey.

Diamond shape or mayeb heart but my massive Gook zygos push me to diamond I also get facial hair trimmed as well so that helps add to my look I am overweight so I don’t feel bad beard frauding

 

[Deleted member 15569]

i hate every norman for no reason but it helps me cope that im alone
just stop caring tbh its hard but just think about it every time u get upset

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

I have diamond and short sides is failo or to be precise u need hair on top of the sides to hide temples but near fade around zygos

Whats ur weight

Yeah I have hair in on the top of the sides my barbers are good. I’m 90kg currently I think but I’m around 22-24% bodyfat so I’m a fat cunt but still mogg most normies

 

[Deleted member 2729]

Everythingmaxx is the only thing you can do

 

[the BULL]

i do nothing. ldar all day like me

 

[FailedNormieManlet]

Having gone from 110kg -> 80kg -> 100kg, the difference in how people treated me was fucking massive.

When I first lost 30kg I realised that it wasn't because I was socially retarded unloveable trash but just ugly, well the same thing really, but you get the point. And now that I became fat again because of depression and SSRI's people treat me like shit again.

How do you get past this resentment? It's hard to have empathy or even just connect with someone when people are like.

@larsanova69 @FailedNormieManlet idk other ascenders...

Your issue along with everyone else on this forum is thinking women will love us unconditionally. A woman's love is ALWAYS conditional

you tagged failednormiemanlet as an ascender?

niggas like 22 and never kissed a girl

JFL you larper, you still haven't posted your so called 90kg 5'5 gymcelled physique

 

[Danish_Retard]

Everythingmaxx is the only thing you can do

i do nothing. ldar all day like me

But how will either of these help me get rid of this resentment toward normies?

Your issue along with everyone else on this forum is thinking women will love us unconditionally. A woman's love is ALWAYS conditional

It isn't about being loved or romantic/sexual relations, it's about being treated like trash when I'm ugly and treated well when I'm not. I can't get over the superficiality.

Normies feel like mindless animals to me... Yet at the same time not, because I know they choose to treat someone worse for their looks, they always have the choice not to treat someone like a subhuman, they have the choice not to be racist, etc.

 

[FailedNormieManlet]

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But how will either of these help me get rid of this resentment toward normies?


It isn't about being loved or romantic/sexual relations, it's about being treated like trash when I'm ugly and treated well when I'm not. I can't get over the superficiality.

Normies feel like mindless animals to me... Yet at the same time not, because I know they choose to treat someone worse for their looks, they always have the choice not to treat someone like a subhuman, they have the choice not to be racist, etc.

Are you white? Normies are racist bro, believe it or not, but normies act weird around minorities. If I walk into a room and see another ethnic, they'll shake my hand and talk to me, whites will ignore me. So no bro, normies do treat me worse for being non white.

But that's besides the point, you expect people to just accept you because you breathe, shit and eat. It's fucked that most people don't value human life unless it serves them, but that's how these soul-less fucks operate.

 

[the BULL]

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But how will either of these help me get rid of this resentment toward normies?


It isn't about being loved or romantic/sexual relations, it's about being treated like trash when I'm ugly and treated well when I'm not. I can't get over the superficiality.

Normies feel like mindless animals to me... Yet at the same time not, because I know they choose to treat someone worse for their looks, they always have the choice not to treat someone like a subhuman, they have the choice not to be racist, etc.

Doesn't go away, only grows bigger and bigger and then you don't want to see everyone at all. I have a whole virtual reality where i can listen to millions of ppl or talk here like it's the bar why the fuck would i want to spend my time with brain fried chimps

 

[Lars]

the only lifefuel i always think: when i am leanmaxxed again life will be so much better, food feels nice for 10 minutes getting treated good in society because looks feels the best

 

[Deleted member 15569]

the only lifefuel i always think: when i am leanmaxxed again life will be so much better, food feels nice for 10 minutes getting treated good in society because looks feels the best

do you have cheat days now? or only cheat meals?

 

[Deleted member 15569]

@Danish_Retard start eating sugar free jello, 1 calorie per 100 grams. 0 sugar energy drinks and soda too, snack on that. easier to get lean.

i dont know if u feel this way but for me seeing how misanthropic i am it makes me loose motivation to leanmaxx sometimes and iget urges to binge but i just binge on 0 sugar jello and diet soda + energy drinks, and 0 sugar lollipops. you can also have designated cheat days when youre done dieting.

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

 

[Lars]

do you have cheat days now? or only cheat meals?

Hmmm not planned sometimes i eat more one day when i go out with friends but i dont care

 

[Danish_Retard]

Are you white? Normies are racist bro, believe it or not, but normies act weird around minorities. If I walk into a room and see another ethnic, they'll shake my hand and talk to me, whites will ignore me. So no bro, normies do treat me worse for being non white.

lol I understand bro, I have a Spanish friend that's gotten denied entry into clubs and shit like that. So much for med moggers lol

But that's besides the point, you expect people to just accept you because you breathe, shit and eat.

Is it really too much to ask for, to not be treated like a subhuman?

it's fucked that most people don't value human life unless it serves them, but that's how these soul-less fucks operate.

It is. Do you feel resentment towards them for it? How do you get the motivation to socialise with them? To waste your earning potential to teach them? I wanted to go into medicine, here in Denmark we have a bachelor's where if you get in you'll be almost guaranteed to get into the candidate degree which makes you a doctor.
But I don't know if I even want to do that anymore... Because of this resentment, I don't feel like sacrificing so much of my youth and potential income just to help normies.

 

[Danish_Retard]

the only lifefuel i always think: when i am leanmaxxed again life will be so much better, food feels nice for 10 minutes getting treated good in society because looks feels the best

Tbh while the looksmax is somewhat a motivation because of how much I resent normies I'm mostly leanmaxxing for my own wellbeing, to know that I'm not a fat slob means more to me than normie validation currently ngl. Feel like a redditor saying this because the first time I leanmaxxed I said the same while not meaning it at all. But the first time I hated every second gymmaxxing because of it while I appreciate building myself up this time around.

@Danish_Retard start eating sugar free jello, 1 calorie per 100 grams. 0 sugar energy drinks and soda too, snack on that. easier to get lean.

i dont know if u feel this way but for me seeing how misanthropic i am it makes me loose motivation to leanmaxx sometimes and iget urges to binge but i just binge on 0 sugar jello and diet soda + energy drinks, and 0 sugar lollipops. you can also have designated cheat days when youre done dieting.

For an exam project I designed some calorie free gummy bears with some friends using seaweed hydrocolloid with the same purpose but I've never actually made some for myself. I'll have to try and find some of that in supermarkets here, if not I'll use the recipe we made in the project lol.

Here in Denmark, only boomers are fat so there isn't really any 0 calorie stuff in stores.

 

[Lars]

Tbh while the looksmax is somewhat a motivation because of how much I resent normies I'm mostly leanmaxxing for my own wellbeing, to know that I'm not a fat slob means more to me than normie validation currently ngl. Feel like a redditor saying this because the first time I leanmaxxed I said the same while not meaning it at all. But the first time I hated every second gymmaxxing because of it while I appreciate building myself up this time around.


For an exam project I designed some calorie free gummy bears with some friends using seaweed hydrocolloid with the same purpose but I've never actually made some for myself. I'll have to try and find some of that in supermarkets here, if not I'll use the recipe we made lol.

Here in Denmark only boomers are fat so there isn't really any 0 calorie stuff in stores.

good mindset bro, in the end you need to be the biggest fan of yourself, i also kinda want to work on my chin just to mirin it myself

 

[Deleted member 19301]

amphetamine binges

 

[Deleted member 17829]

He ascended in looks and socially.

Dude just got a perm and is in uni.

Everyone has a social life in education lol

 

[alriodai]

Having gone from 110kg -> 80kg -> 100kg, the difference in how people treated me was fucking massive.

When I first lost 30kg I realised that it wasn't because I was socially retarded unloveable trash but just ugly, well the same thing really, but you get the point. And now that I became fat again because of depression and SSRI's people treat me like shit again.

How do you get past this resentment? It's hard to have empathy or even just connect with someone when people are like.

@larsanova69 @FailedNormieManlet idk other ascenders...

I realized the same OP
I always though back then that I was socially retarded but oh boy I was wrong?
If you're deemed attractive, girls and guys will force interactions with you, even if you're socially retarded, they won't judge you too much if you're autistic in social situations and just take it as you being funny or sarcastic
If you're ugly or just normal? No one want to talk to you unless they need something

How can I blame them? I unconsciously do the same things with girls. I only like and talk to girls I deem attractive and don't care about girls I think are unattractive

It's people's nature. I learned to treat every guy the same, and help them, some dudes are really good people.