how do you earn respect?

[glittereverywhere]

i lived in my own bubble till like 13 so now im just an insecure skinny dude and a loser, for some time i could pull people by jestermaxxing but the moment i actually tried to take life serious i just started running into constant disrespect, especially around groups of guys.

i got the basic traits of any normal dude, i can talk to people, im pretty outgoing, on paper i shouldnt even have social problems but this insecurity just eats me alive from the inside and stops me every time i try to level up

im not a loser in the classic closed off awkward teen way, im actually pretty outgoing and like idk ive had relationships, but this shit lowkey killing me

what do i do besides looksmaxx

 

[valentine]

respect is cope

 

[manhattanbound]

respect is cope

how?

 

[mrr]

if u are ugly or short u will never get it

 

[glittereverywhere]

respect is cope

i don’t think so

 

[Jimcel]

if u are ugly or short u will never get it

sad reality but very true

 

[sub5nd]

i lived in my own bubble till like 13 so now im just an insecure skinny dude and a loser, for some time i could pull people by jestermaxxing but the moment i actually tried to take life serious i just started running into constant disrespect, especially around groups of guys.

i got the basic traits of any normal dude, i can talk to people, im pretty outgoing, on paper i shouldnt even have social problems but this insecurity just eats me alive from the inside and stops me every time i try to level up

im not a loser in the classic closed off awkward teen way, im actually pretty outgoing and like idk ive had relationships, but this shit lowkey killing me

what do i do besides looksmaxx

this is almost exactly how i feel i cut myself off and lost almost all of my friends just because of how much i seem to hate myself and want to see myself suffer lmk if u find a way out

 

[Sprinkles]

i lived in my own bubble till like 13 so now im just an insecure skinny dude and a loser, for some time i could pull people by jestermaxxing but the moment i actually tried to take life serious i just started running into constant disrespect, especially around groups of guys.

i got the basic traits of any normal dude, i can talk to people, im pretty outgoing, on paper i shouldnt even have social problems but this insecurity just eats me alive from the inside and stops me every time i try to level up

im not a loser in the classic closed off awkward teen way, im actually pretty outgoing and like idk ive had relationships, but this shit lowkey killing me

what do i do besides looksmaxx

height issue

 

[L88]

Be respectful to others

 

[glittereverywhere]

if u are ugly or short u will never get it

im average/tall enough for my age and crew, and btw literally said what else i can do besides lookmaxxing

 

[_Zygomatic_]

people respect value, if ur rich, handsome, tall, smart etc anything of value will earn respect. if you have nothing of value you have no respect

 

[Sub5MichalFotbal]

im average/tall enough for my age and crew, and btw literally said what else i can do besides lookmaxxing

moneymaxx, get big, or learn a martial art easy as that

 

[glittereverywhere]

people respect value, if ur rich, handsome, tall, smart etc anything of value will earn respect. if you have nothing of value you have no respect

i think the same, but then why the hell are there so many literally 5’5 sub-5 dumbasses around me who get way more respect than me

is it like long term fallout from my jestermaxxing or do the guys just sense my insecurity?

 

[Societal Reject]

By being rich

Looksmaxing wont earn you the respect of some huge ogre

 

[_Zygomatic_]

i think the same, but then why the hell are there so many literally 5’5 sub-5 dumbasses around me who get way more respect than me

is it like long term fallout from my jestermaxxing or do the guys just sense my insecurity?

idk bro i’m 5’7 and am respected but it probably has a lot to do with your personality tbh

 

[glittereverywhere]

moneymaxx, get big, or learn a martial art easy as that

i’m on that path

 

[glittereverywhere]

idk bro i’m 5’7 and am respected but it probably has a lot to do with your personality tbh

they all hang or talk with me but just wanna flex in front of others or themselves by shitting on me

 

[_Zygomatic_]

they all hang or talk with me but just wanna flex in front of others or themselves by shitting on me

yh but ur probably letting them, u might just genuinely be a pushover and have never seen it that way urself, there’s a difference between being nice and having boundaries as to what you let ppl say about you

 

[glittereverywhere]

yh but ur probably letting them, u might just genuinely be a pushover and have never seen it that way urself, there’s a difference between being nice and having boundaries as to what you let ppl say about you

yeah u actually right thx

 

[888mastermind]

Setting boundaries, not letting people disrespect you, being a humble and respectful person

 

[NudeSelfiesTilliDie]

Just play video games and jack off for a few years, puberty will make you much better. Make friends as well

 

[Ecstasy141]

i lived in my own bubble till like 13 so now im just an insecure skinny dude and a loser, for some time i could pull people by jestermaxxing but the moment i actually tried to take life serious i just started running into constant disrespect, especially around groups of guys.

i got the basic traits of any normal dude, i can talk to people, im pretty outgoing, on paper i shouldnt even have social problems but this insecurity just eats me alive from the inside and stops me every time i try to level up

im not a loser in the classic closed off awkward teen way, im actually pretty outgoing and like idk ive had relationships, but this shit lowkey killing me

~90% of people's opinions about you are usually formed within the first two weeks of meeting you. From there, they develop an image of you that is hard to change. If you were copefully jestermaxxing around these people and now expect them to see a change in you, it’s like I said, hardly possible. Learn to value yourself first and find a way to socialize with people without being a jester and you will eventually find your path lol