How do you even fucking cope with this

[Shkreliii]

I cant move man I have one year left in school. If I graduate ai can follow my dream of being a soldier. My dad was a soldier,my grandpa was a soldier my great grandpa was a soldier. I want to follow that tradition

Noooooooooo
Bro,
Only pick a route where you can become self sufficient
Coding, building. Designing
Furniture, garbageman

A place where you can employ others, soldier is wreaking havoc on your health for shitty paychecks

 

[aircraftboi]

Noooooooooo
Bro,
Only pick a route where you can become self sufficient
Coding, building. Designing
Furniture, garbageman

A place where you can employ others, soldier is wreaking havoc on your health for shitty paychecks

Its true what you are saying but still its a family tradition tbh. And Im still living with parents so its hard to just dip and move to another country

 

[aircraftboi]

it seems like u really love her so I think u shouldn't give up on her and just spend ur time with friends for those 6 months to feel less lonely

I've thought about that too but im scared she's gonna cheat on me or fall out of love or anything. Maybe im just gonna enjoy this last month with her and then see where it's going

 

[TYLER IN NARRATOR]

I've thought about that too but im scared she's gonna cheat on me or fall out of love or anything. Maybe im just gonna enjoy this last month with her and then see where it's going

@ me if u got any updates

 

[aircraftboi]

@ me if u got any updates

I will man thanks for being interested

 

[TYLER IN NARRATOR]

I will man thanks for being interested

np man good luck

 

[TYLER IN NARRATOR]

I will man thanks for being interested

are u active on here btw

 

[reeven]

now you know how i feel about my oneitis from over 4 years ago

she was the first girl to ever treat me like a fucking human. everything was perfect about her;

her laugh
her smile
her voice
her way with words
the way her light blonde hair blew in the wind
everything

Don't scare me man. Please DONT.

 

[Primalsplit]

Tbh man just let me fope for a few weeks. Ik youre right probably but I rarely felt true love in my life and this is one of those moments. So imma enjoy it for as long as I can then just leave her. I just want to feel this feeling for a few more weeks until she goes to germany

Great idea. You need to live it, cherish it and eventually move past it.

 

[reeven]

Great idea. You need to live it, cherish it and eventually move past it.

There are many better bitches out there tbh

 

[aircraftboi]

are u active on here btw

Yeah kinda. Im here daily when Im at work. When im with my gf im not that much. Cant let her catch me here

 

[TYLER IN NARRATOR]

Yeah kinda. Im here daily when Im at work. When im with my gf im not that much. Cant let her catch me here

followed

 

[aircraftboi]

Great idea. You need to live it, cherish it and eventually move past it.

Thats what im saying man. Im coping a little bit more so I can cherish these moments for a long time. Even if she's gonna leave me or cheat on me atleast I cherished the moments

 

[aircraftboi]

followed

Thanks bhai

 

[aircraftboi]

There are many better bitches out there tbh

Yeah but they won't make me feel like she does

 

[reeven]

Yeah but they won't make me feel like she does

ofc they won't.

but it'll be in the past.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Recently I got a gf. She is super romantic,she is great and beautiful too. It was love at first sight tbh,she said she loves that im intelligent. We went to the gym together,we were watching the stars together,we did every shit thats considered romantic. Never felt this way about a girl before. I thought she is the one im gonna maybe marry in the future. I still hope its her,but thats where the problem came. You have to know,that shw provided for her family for the last 4 years,because her dad had cancer and her mom left them. She worked in germany,because we live in the shithole of Romania. So now that her daf is cured,and her brother is grown up,she just stated that now she has to work for herself too,not just for her family,and she needs to leave for 6 months to germany. She is an introvert so Im not worrying about her partying tbh. Im just fucking unable to cope with this. Im so fucking heartbroken rn tbh. As the beta male I am,I even cried because of this. I tried to convince her,but the problem is,that I am still in school and shes 2 years older than me. So I cant really do much. Im actually fucking heartbroken because of this. All of these years,I've met many girls,slept with them but never met anyone like her. She swears that long distance will work but 6 months is a long ass time. I dont really know what to even do. I needed to write this out so maybe I will stop going down even more,because I feel like im drowning rn. I cant think of anything else. Never met a girl like this. Fuck love tbh.

You don't have to worry. She will be sending you lots of videos waving at you.

 

[aircraftboi]

ofc they won't.

but it'll be in the past.

Yeah but they would never make me feel like she did under the starry nights on a random thursday night.

 

[Primalsplit]

Thats what im saying man. Im coping a little bit more so I can cherish these moments for a long time. Even if she's gonna leave me or cheat on me atleast I cherished the moments

Since you seem to get play anyway, I'd say you'll do just fine. With or without her.

 

[reeven]

Yeah but they would never make me feel like she did under the starry nights on a random thursday night.

I went through the same path. She was my everything. And yes we did watch a starry night and kissed while on the ground hugging each other, slept together etc. But it's over now.

I will always regret it. Always. It was my fault for pushing her away.

Do not push her away if you think she's the one. Love her and take care of her.

 

[aircraftboi]

Since you seem to get play anyway, I'd say you'll do just fine. With or without her.

Yeah I get play tbf but they never make me feel anything. I slept with girls kissed them told them I loved them while feeling nothing. This one was different thats why im bitching about it

 

[aircraftboi]

I went through the same path. She was my everything. And yes we did watch a starry night and kissed while on the ground hugging each other, slept together etc. But it's over now.

I will always regret it. Always. It was my fault for pushing her away.

Do not push her away if you think she's the one. Love her and take care of her.

Thanks for the advice man. I will try to keep her. Even if she doesnt want to be kept. And cherish these moments forever. Hope love will come your way brother

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

If she wants to work in germany and you want to be a romanian soldier, it will never work, you gotta sort this out.
Also, for now you can go long distance, she probably won't cheat on you (maybe she will idk), if you can't handle long distance, tell her before she leaves.
Also make sure you aren't acting purely on emotion, because that intense feeling of love fades away eventually
Also if you've been together for less that 1 year, I doubt that you can be so sure she is the one, you might have just been seduced by her during a weak emotional state and you've become reliant on her regarding your own wellness

I went through the same path. She was my everything. And yes we did watch a starry night and kissed while on the ground hugging each other, slept together etc. But it's over now.

I will always regret it. Always. It was my fault for pushing her away.

Do not push her away if you think she's the one. Love her and take care of her.

looks like my story jfl. Did you recover now ?

 

[reeven]

Did you recover now ?

We stopped talking a month ago. it's though

 

[Mainlander]

you kinda sound like a little bitch tbh

 

[aircraftboi]

you kinda sound like a little bitch tbh

Yeah tbh in this situation I am. Not even denying it. Love her too much tbf.

 

[Mainlander]

Yeah tbh in this situation I am. Not even denying it. Love her too much tbf.

just chill a bit

you cannot change it anyway

 

[Narroworbits]

This is terrible man. I feel like throwing up and crying most of the time. I wish she loved me the same as I loved her. There are stacys in my fucking dm's but I still only want her nobody else. I feel disgusted by everyone else

You don’t have Stacie’s in your dms retarded larper

 

[aircraftboi]

If she wants to work in germany and you want to be a romanian soldier, it will never work, you gotta sort this out.
Also, for now you can go long distance, she probably won't cheat on you (maybe she will idk), if you can't handle long distance, tell her before she leaves.
Also make sure you aren't acting purely on emotion, because that intense feeling of love fades away eventually
Also if you've been together for less that 1 year, I doubt that you can be so sure she is the one, you might have just been seduced by her during a weak emotional state and you've become reliant on her regarding your own wellness

Thats actually good advice,I appreciate it. Even tho I dont want to be a romanian soldier,my ethnicity is hungarian. But long distance is scary man,maybe she will get bored of me idek man

 

[aircraftboi]

You don’t have Stacie’s in your dms retarded larper

You dont have to believe me man. Its okay Idrc. I needed to vent,but its okay if you dont believe me. But I got play my whole life,idc if someone doesnt believe me. Have a great day bro

 

[aircraftboi]

just chill a bit

you cannot change it anyway

Youre right. But its hard to be stoic about it,when its hurting a lot. But youre right nonetheless

 

[Narroworbits]

You dont have to believe me man. Its okay Idrc. I needed to vent,but its okay if you dont believe me. But I got play my whole life,idc if someone doesnt believe me. Have a great day bro

All I read:

It’s ok if you don’t believe me
It’s ok if you don’t believe me
It’s ok if you don’t believe me

Ofc I don’t dumb ahh nigga that’s what I just said

 

[aircraftboi]

All I read:

It’s ok if you don’t believe me
It’s ok if you don’t believe me
It’s ok if you don’t believe me

Ofc I don’t dumb ahh nigga that’s what I just said

okay then,if you wish to see proof I can show you. But still,idc tbf

 

[Narroworbits]

okay then,if you wish to see proof I can show you. But still,idc tbf

A. They’re not stacies and mtb at best
B. You’re a retarded LTN larper
C. They think you’re gay

Which one bluecell?

 

[kingofkings]

Recently I got a gf.

There's your problem broski. You only just met this chick and you've gone way in the fucking deep end. Typical rookie mistake and suggestive of someone with 0 relationship experience.

Here's the cold hard truth - no matter what she says, she is nowhere near as attached to you as you are to her.

When she goes abroad, I give it 1 month max and ole Tyrone will be 9 inching her back passage until she screams his name.

Btw, life tip for you. Never become serious with a girl who's older. 99% of girls always want older men or the same age minimum, it's a biological need. She just passed the time with you. You won't believe me because you're in too deep and she's one of those girls that will tell you she loves you so much yadda yadda. You'll learn.

 

[Narroworbits]

okay then,if you wish to see proof I can show you. But still,idc tbf

also I dnr but stop wallowing in misery over some foid

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

Thats actually good advice,I appreciate it. Even tho I dont want to be a romanian soldier,my ethnicity is hungarian. But long distance is scary man,maybe she will get bored of me idek man

Maybe but what are you gonna do ?
To me it seems a bit surreal tbh as I dont believe that there is a "one". But if you found something in her you didn’t in others then sure why not try to make it work long term (and distance for now)
If you're sure she's the one, you can also propose to her before she leaves, see if she's ready to commit

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

We stopped talking a month ago. it's though

We're all gonna make it brah
Come DM if you want

 

[reeven]

We're all gonna make it brah
Come DM if you want

bro she sent a 5 minute audio out of nowhere telling me how much she loved me. i regret deleting it FUCK