How do you get people to message you first?

[Deleted member 756]

i dont text anyone i havent used my phone in 2 weeks i only message people here on .me
idc abt anyone irl tbh

Aren’t you a Chadlite?

 

[Deleted member 6217]

Aren’t you a Chadlite?

5psl not chadlite. im introverted and dont like too hangout with friends

 

[Azoriko]

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[Azoriko]

most people i know message me first, idk. maybe because i'm the type that talking about their shit so they feel good about it. i only had 1 person that i would message first all the time, but i didn't care because he always responded fast. that's the thing, get the messages first is nice, but also..if you send someone a message, how much time it takes for them to reply? me personally, i ban people from my life that not answering fast or get the feeling they do me a favor for answering. like... i don't need you than. I'm very impulsive about that.

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

Damn bro. You have my sympathies. What have you done to try to NTmaxx?

For the last 3 years I worked in a job which "pushed" me outside everday.
I was forced to interact with strangers on a daily base.
It was hell and didn't improve my mental state at all.

 

[Danish_Retard]

most people i know message me first, idk. maybe because i'm the type that talking about their shit so they feel good about it. i only had 1 person that i would message first all the time, but i didn't care because he always responded fast. that's the thing, get the messages first is nice, but also..if you send someone a message, how much time it takes for them to reply? me personally, i ban people from my life that not answering fast or get the feeling they do me a favor for answering. like... i don't need you than. I'm very impulsive about that.

Thanks for the advice, it depends tbh, I don't really write to people I don't feel appreciate it which means that I inevitably end up not writing to many people.

For the last 3 years I worked in a job which "pushed" me outside everday.
I was forced to interact with strangers on a daily base.
It was hell and didn't improve my mental state at all.

Damn, sorry to hear man. I've also purposefully chosen a job that requires me to be social with a lot of people and it helped me a bit. Mostly just realising that people are a lot nicer than I expected in some areas.